Do you GIVE a second chance at first impressions?

[Tia Vampire]

We do not give second chances to bad love maker or couples that like causing drama. Drunks, maybe after we have seen them sober. Plus we do agree that time is the key.

[MapleSwingers]

We employ and have had success with the 3 strikes your out rule. It can be anything, a strike is based solely on our discretion, whims or immaturity whichever applies best depending on the situation.

You take a week to email me back when we are trying to make arrangments to meet - strike

You keep asking for pics non stop which means you are probably just a picture collector and wasting our time - strike

You say something stupid in your profile or your profile has more than a couple spelling mistakes - strike (yes we are being picky here, use the damn spell check lazy ass!)

These are just a few examples of the fun and creative ways we have been thinking up strikes in the past. Just like Julie said...first impression is usually bang on! Trust your gut.

[Malachista]

At my third or forth visit to the club a single guy came up to me and said. "Hi Linda, nice to meet you again!"
I was like "I'm not Linda, and I don't know anyone by that name!"
"Sorry, you luck like her" was his answer, and with that he stepped back again, walking off to talk with other people.

I was pretty sure he was an arrogant prick, because if I look so much like this other woman why would he not take the chance to get to know me?
Well, a year or a bit more passed, I saw him often in the club, but went out of his way, and one night the hosts get us talking.
Turns out he is very nice and fun to be around, and just hates to be one of the hated pushy single guys, so he rather waits for a couple or single female to make the first move.

So the arrogant guy by first impression became one of my best friends in and outside of swinging...
That teached me a lession or two about first impressions