Deal Breakers

partyof2ormore · 06-05-2008, 07:50 PM

Does anyone have a pet peeve that may not make much difference to some or most people but is a total "deal breaker" to you?

For us, it is smokers. That smell gets "into" a person and it doesn't matter if they change their clothes or even shower, the odor is still there and it a complete and total turn of to both of us.

J & L

ktimephoenix · 06-05-2008, 08:22 PM

Pushyness and arrogance i guess. some people find arrogance like confidence, and a turn on... not us

***ownerspet*** · 06-05-2008, 08:27 PM

Talk of Farm Animals... that always is a downer for me....

**LFM2** · 06-05-2008, 08:36 PM

Isn't this sad but this list is bigger than our rules?

Pushy and arrogant people
We don't care for smokers, either. We can tolerate them, but we don't especially want to play with them.
People who don't kiss, or return favors.

DecaturAreaCpl · 06-05-2008, 09:55 PM

Uncircumcised.
Sloppy drunk.
Dirt under fingernails/toenails (ugh)
Missing teeth...

**BiloxiCouple** · 06-05-2008, 10:13 PM

I bet everyone here has at least one deal breaker if not more. I know we do.

bethncole · 06-05-2008, 11:12 PM

Fake tits. Can't stand them or women attached to them.

***JustAskJulie*** · 06-06-2008, 01:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DecaturAreaCpl

Sloppy drunk.
Dirt under fingernails/toenails (ugh)
Missing teeth...

Ditto to those... although I don't typically look too close at toenails.

graygo98 · 06-06-2008, 02:01 PM

Really out of shape
Bad hygiene
One spouse treats the other badly
A lot of piercings

partyof2ormore · 06-07-2008, 09:09 PM

...just thought of another one. Mrs, L has a thing about "short" men. There is no specific requirment, but 5'10"ish is roughly the limit.

Just her personal thing.

partyof2ormore · 06-07-2008, 09:11 PM

...and yet another one.

I have a thing about super skinny women. I'm not talking about athletic, it shape, skinny, I'm talking about, "Oh my god, get that woman a twinkie, NOW!" skinny.

I'd rather be with a woman who is 40 lbs over weight than 10 lbs under.

J

Trace Ekies · 06-08-2008, 08:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bethncole

Fake tits. Can't stand them or women attached to them.

So, without meeting my wife you can't stand her tits or her?

That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard.

Cajunlovers · 06-08-2008, 10:52 AM

People who can't stand fake tits........ No really smoking is close to deal breaker. bad teeth. extra extra plump, Really pushy, small cock, and a few more I can't think of right now

Edison Carter · 06-08-2008, 10:55 AM

susan here-- I absolutely, positively will not fuck 'stupid'.

daddynbabygrl · 06-12-2008, 10:24 AM

I'll only list mine (Babygirl can reply to this on her own), but.....although we both would have to agree on the person/couple, there *are* a couple things which I find to be "deal breakers" for me (I define a "deal breaker" as a TURN OFF).....doesn't mean I *hate* or would never have sex with, because in some instances an awesome personality can supercede one or more of these:

Skinny women (I like a "real" woman)
Fake Breasts (don't find the fake ones appealing in the least)
Poor Hygiene (an awesome personality will *NOT* overcome this one)
Lack of a personality (good looks generally will *not* overcome this)
Pushy/Rude people (it's about mutual respect -- we aren't your fucktoy)

That's about all I can think of right now.....(as I am at work)....but if I think of more, I'll append the list at a later time....as for "looks", Babygirl can attest that I like a variety of different looks and she's *still* trying to figure me out!

- Daddy

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06-05-2008, 07:50 PM	#1 (permalink)
partyof2ormore Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 92 Location: New Jersey Status: Married Couple	Deal Breakers Does anyone have a pet peeve that may not make much difference to some or most people but is a total "deal breaker" to you? For us, it is smokers. That smell gets "into" a person and it doesn't matter if they change their clothes or even shower, the odor is still there and it a complete and total turn of to both of us. J & L

06-05-2008, 08:22 PM	#2 (permalink)
ktimephoenix Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 280 Location: Adelaide Australia Status: Couple	Re: Deal Breakers Pushyness and arrogance i guess. some people find arrogance like confidence, and a turn on... not us

06-05-2008, 08:27 PM	#3 (permalink)
*ownerspet* Ring My Bell? Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 416 Location: AL in a house Status: Married Male Swing Lifestyle Name:jarpar	Re: Deal Breakers Talk of Farm Animals... that always is a downer for me....
	__________________ O.P. Crazy Donkey!

06-05-2008, 08:36 PM	#4 (permalink)
LFM2 ~This space for rent~ Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 4,750 Location: across the tracks Status: Couple	Re: Deal Breakers Isn't this sad but this list is bigger than our rules? Pushy and arrogant people We don't care for smokers, either. We can tolerate them, but we don't especially want to play with them. People who don't kiss, or return favors.
	__________________ Dave & Holly

06-05-2008, 09:55 PM	#5 (permalink)
DecaturAreaCpl Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 40 Location: Atlanta Status: Couple	Re: Deal Breakers Uncircumcised. Sloppy drunk. Dirt under fingernails/toenails (ugh) Missing teeth...
	__________________ Puritanism is the haunting fear that someone, somewhere, may be happy. -H. L. Mencken

06-05-2008, 10:13 PM	#6 (permalink)
BiloxiCouple Julie's Helper Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 4,002 Location: Biloxi, Mississippi Status: Couple with benefits and retired Swing Lifestyle Name:graceful	Re: Deal Breakers I bet everyone here has at least one deal breaker if not more. I know we do.
	__________________ *Live in the moment before they are gone.*

06-05-2008, 11:12 PM	#7 (permalink)
bethncole Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 66 Location: SF Bay Area Status: Couple	Re: Deal Breakers Fake tits. Can't stand them or women attached to them.
	__________________ Beth and Cole

06-06-2008, 02:01 PM	#9 (permalink)
graygo98 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 395 Location: Toronto Status: Couple	Re: Deal Breakers Really out of shape Bad hygiene One spouse treats the other badly A lot of piercings

06-07-2008, 09:09 PM	#10 (permalink)
partyof2ormore Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 92 Location: New Jersey Status: Married Couple	Re: Deal Breakers ...just thought of another one. Mrs, L has a thing about "short" men. There is no specific requirment, but 5'10"ish is roughly the limit. Just her personal thing.

06-07-2008, 09:11 PM	#11 (permalink)
partyof2ormore Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 92 Location: New Jersey Status: Married Couple	Re: Deal Breakers ...and yet another one. I have a thing about super skinny women. I'm not talking about athletic, it shape, skinny, I'm talking about, "Oh my god, get that woman a twinkie, NOW!" skinny. I'd rather be with a woman who is 40 lbs over weight than 10 lbs under. J

06-08-2008, 10:52 AM	#13 (permalink)
Cajunlovers Here to Stay Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 8 Location: New Orleans La. Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:AFFCAJUNLOVERS	Re: Deal Breakers People who can't stand fake tits........ No really smoking is close to deal breaker. bad teeth. extra extra plump, Really pushy, small cock, and a few more I can't think of right now

06-08-2008, 10:55 AM	#14 (permalink)
Edison Carter Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 734 Location: Naperville, Il Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:EdisonCarter	Re: Deal Breakers susan here-- I absolutely, positively will not fuck 'stupid'.

06-12-2008, 10:24 AM	#15 (permalink)
daddynbabygrl Active Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 47 Location: Dayton, OH Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:daddynbabygrl	Re: Deal Breakers I'll only list mine (Babygirl can reply to this on her own), but.....although we both would have to agree on the person/couple, there are a couple things which I find to be "deal breakers" for me (I define a "deal breaker" as a TURN OFF).....doesn't mean I hate or would never have sex with, because in some instances an awesome personality can supercede one or more of these: Skinny women (I like a "real" woman) Fake Breasts (don't find the fake ones appealing in the least) Poor Hygiene (an awesome personality will *NOT* overcome this one) Lack of a personality (good looks generally will not overcome this) Pushy/Rude people (it's about mutual respect -- we aren't your fucktoy) That's about all I can think of right now.....(as I am at work)....but if I think of more, I'll append the list at a later time....as for "looks", Babygirl can attest that I like a variety of different looks and she's still trying to figure me out! - Daddy

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