Swingers at your Wedding?

[lakeluvrs]

A response I made in another thread made me think about this.

Have any of you that got married after you started swinging invited playmates to your wedding?

We had three couples we'd played with at our wedding. It was a small wedding (40 people), but these people are some of the sincerest and funnest people we know, so they made the invite list. Two of them had played with each other too!

Anyhow, it made for interesting discussions with my new parents-in-law:

"Hey, Mom and Dad, this is John and Mary Smith. We met them at.......uh........Swing Lifestyle..........it's a......uh.....birdwatching club. Yeah, that's it....birds."

[JustAskJulie]

We got married while at a SwingersBoard meetup in Reno a year ago... my best vanilla friend was there along with my other best friend (who's more open)... and GoodTimes ... I think the whole time my vanilla friend was in town was actually kind of funny trying to explain to her who these people were. Then as vanilla as she was we went toy/lingerie shopping with the guys and ran into not just GoodTimes but someone else from the board and other swinger friends of theirs. It definately made things interesting.

On another note, one of my best couple friends in MI when I lived up there actually got married at Northaven (a swinger-friendly nudist resort). Her mom was even there. Most of their friends were swingers and her mom knew about it all. And we all (including the bride & groom) got dressed for the wedding. They had to have pictures they could show the vanillas after all.

[Greg & Sheryl]

EXcept for the pastor, our wedding consisted exclusively of swingers. It was a small wedding, but no family members were there because Greg's family lives out of state and Sheryl is not close to her family at all.

[Pepper & Drew]

Some swinger friends of ours are getting married in October, and they're trying to split the difference between having the wedding they want, and having a wedding that won't completely horrify her family. They met on an alternative lifestyle website, and have been swinging since they started dating, so they said most of their attendees will be swingers. All I can say is that it's going to be one helluva bachelor/bachelorette party.

Pepper

[VegasLee]

Many here know that Laura and I have been together for ever. Six kids, eight grandkids and for most of those years we were not married.

This June will make two years ago we finally did get married. Not sure if I ever posted that or not.

We had a very small wedding. We had kids and grandkids and my best friend that has been around us and the Lifestyle.

That night we had our reception at the club, over 350 people all in the Lifestyle. Once we decided to get married we felt we had to include our lifestyle friends in our special day since they had been a major part of our life for so many years. It was a great party!

[ktimephoenix]

The wedding isn't what i'm interested in... having the batchelor/batchelorette party with our swinging friends... now that could make for good times

[BiloxiCouple]

And did anyone help you consumate the wedding?

[sahajacpl]

We heard a story (not sure where) about a swinger couples wedding. All the attendees at the wedding including best men and bridesmaids were swingers.

The story has it that as soon as the pastor had left, the best men got on to the stage. They removed the bride's wedding gown, bra, panties, etc., until she was fully nude.

The men then proceeded to play with her and then fucked the bride in front of the audience as the attendees cheered, and, the hubby watched with a smile! Cocktails, champagne and drinks were then served

Does the story sound too outlandsih to be true, or could it/has it happened?
What a sight that would be to behold.

[Malachista]

I was at a swinger/porn biz wedding about a year ago.
(They meet swinging, the guy also does strip and act in a few porn movies every now and then)

Well, once the night moved on, the less vanilla guests did move into some special rooms, and while everyone had fun on their own there was also a time when the bride did get ganbanged....

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by sahajacpl

Does the story sound too outlandsih to be true, or could it/has it happened?

Yes, it does sound too outlandish to be true.

[Jamie&Kieth]

Just a thought, regarding "swinger friends" and special events. If they are really friends and are swingers too, did you ever stop to think they might feel the same way.

Our 2 of our 4 children know that as consenting married adults we have sex with another group although they do not know, they have met them at various functions.

Comes down to real friends AND trust. Our friends we trust ... also very picky on who we consider friends. But we ALL get along non swingers and swingers.

If this helps great if not, oh well.

Jamie

[ncmd_couple]

Haha, Lee and I had this discussion when making the invite list for our wedding in April. We did invite a couple that we are friends with. Unfortunately, the date clashed with their calendar. So we will never know. It would have been amusing though. Some at the wedding know of our activites, but most don't.

S

[oncewere]

My wife was matron of honor at a swingers wedding. There were no vanilla friends there for reasons you can see if you read this story on the story board.

The Swingers Board - Swinger Stories

It was quite an interesting experience.

As I've said in other posts we did things a bit different from what I see on the board now.

[nhcpl1968]

Nothing wrong with it went to a wedding and everybody was swingers.had one hell of a reception line

[funcpl4life]

It's funny. I just thought of it. There were plenty of swingers at our wedding: we just didn't know it then. We've since played with several. Hmmm. Life is funny that way.
Mr. FC4L