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05-19-2008, 04:20 PM
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| Your Hostess  Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard
  |  Do's & Don'ts of Swinging
In the Info & Advice section of the site I have Do's & Don't's listed... The Do's...... Communicate Be Honest Give a good description of who you are and what you are looking for Set limits and stick to them Use Protection Try new things Move at your own pace Respond even if it's to say "no thanks" Beware of pic collectors Have Fun Make New Friends Post Your Ad in many places Be Discreet- what happens among swingers stays where it happened. Research Did I mention ...Communicate ------------------------ The Don'ts...... Don't Be Vague about what you are looking for Don't Lie about who you are Don't Say you are a single guy when you are in fact married Don't Cheat!! Don't Lie Don't send out your naked pics to people you don't know. (that's what g-rated pics are for) Don't cross other people's limits Don't answer ads that don't apply to you Don't SHOUT (turn off your caps lock) Don't give out your phone # in your ad Don't go out with set expectations, you'll probably be disappointed. What other Dos & Don'ts do you think should be added to these lists? |
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05-19-2008, 07:50 PM
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| Better than Ice Cream  Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 6,660 Location: va Status: Couple. He posts, She reads
| Re: Do's & Don'ts of Swinging
That's a damn good list. Maybe, "Don't be a wallflower", or "Do take the initiative to introduce yourselves" (referring to a club setting, of course). |
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05-19-2008, 09:23 PM
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| Swingers Board Addict  Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 491 Location: San Mateo, CA Status: M. Male Swing Lifestyle Name:JustMrandMrsJ
| Re: Do's & Don'ts of Swinging
I like the first 'Do' and the last 'Do'... two of my favorites!  |
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05-19-2008, 09:31 PM
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| Some sort of user Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 1,131 Location: Argentina Status: Couple
| Re: Do's & Don'ts of Swinging
Do's Move at the peace of the slowest involved person... or don't move at all. (Besides the "move at your own peace", telling you have to respect yourself. While this other is about being respectfull with others as well. In fact, to everyone involved includes one self). Keep your expectations low and your humor sense high. Listen to other people and pay attention to what's going on. |
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05-19-2008, 09:38 PM
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| Being good is overrated  Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 4,221 Location: Poconos, PA Status: The boss of Mr. Sweet Swing Lifestyle Name:Sweet_tna
| Re: Do's & Don'ts of Swinging Quote:
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05-20-2008, 12:24 AM
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| Swingers Board Addict  Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 1,426 Location: Florida Status: Married Couple
| Re: Do's & Don'ts of Swinging
I'm with sweet_tna on this. Lots of the list are protection and common sense things. This one should be also but, in the excitement of things, it is sometimes hard to keep this one in focus. It's a great list you have there, Julie. Vol |
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05-21-2008, 06:41 PM
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| Swingers Board Addict  Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 1,059 Location: Florida Status: Single Female Swing Lifestyle Name:tiavampire
| Re: Do's & Don'ts of Swinging
We think you did a mighty fine job with the do's and don'ts. Can't think of anything to add to the list.
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05-22-2008, 09:50 AM
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 1,009 Location: cleveland area Status: married to lovinhim
| Re: Do's & Don'ts of Swinging
You forgot the most obvious one. Read the Swingers Board.  |
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