And then the condom fell off....

[foozballnow]

Hey everyone,

I know it has to have happened to some or most of you. You are in the middle of your full swap having your way with the other spouse when all of a sudden you or they realize the condom came off!

Knock on wood this has not happened to us yet. We would just like to know what everyone's course of action was after this happened? A friendly fishing expedition maybe?

Did you put a new one on and go at it? Or decide that it was a moot point by then...

[Chris&Amelia]

It has happened to us. It happens every now and then.

Pretty much a "friendly fishing expedition". Get it out and throw a new one on. And then it's back to action.

If it happens, don't let it worry you or freak either of you out.

[sexcupid]

Originally Posted by foozballnow

Did you put a new one on and go at it? Or decide that it was a moot point by then...

I would rate this the same as a condom break...yes we had one first time out...no we didn't have any back ups (something I will contribute to a newbie mistake)...my sweetie took that second train of thought you mentioned...ie: 'eh, damage is done' ripped off the broken one and went back to it.

To put it mildly, I was pissed and hurt....not things you want to happen on any playtime, let alone the first time out.

So my thoughts? Go fishing, put a new one on...if you are using a condom in the first place it's probably because that's what you and your spouse are ok with...if you were ok with going bareback then it would be a moot point.

[JustAskJulie]

I've never had it happen during a swinging situation, but I did have it happen twice in my single days. Once was during a course of particularly wild (bed breaking) sex. It wasn't until we were done and he went to take off the condom that he realized it had been lost somewhere along the way. I went fishing and found it. The other time was (I believe) a case where he came and went soft and when he pulled out the condom stayed in. It wasn't buried so it was easy to get it out.

[ncmd_couple]

I was with a lady and we were basking in the afterglow and when I pulled out, the condum staid in. Oh shit, well, it went in the trash can.

S

[sweet_tna]

I've snagged a few condoms before . . . We just went fishin' and if we weren't finished, grabbed a new one and picked up where we left off.

=)

[lustylearning]

Gentlemen, I would only add, and I mean this quite sincerely, should your condom get lost inside a lady, please let her know. Squelch all concerns about your ego and consider her health first!!! Talk about your nasty surprises... ewwwwwww

[foozballnow]

oh i couldnt imagine not telling your partner that it fell off.

[duo33470]

We have had this happen once during a gang bang. We are unsure which man it was that lost his condom, but he did not say anything about it at the time. Maybe he didnt realize.

My wife found it the next morning when she was i the shower. It stayed in her all night.

[CXXC]

To date, We have not had this happen to us! However, I am not sure why, but I go through the suckers quite a bit. I have used many different kinds as well. No one brand is more sturdy than the next. The suckers just break. It could be my bad luck in purchasining defective condoms, but I doubt that.

I mention this issue only to bring up the fact that I have had to go fishing for condom parts. That is a tad more difficult. However, each time, everything has been recovered. Fortunately, I have always known the exact moment the condom broke. I can feel it. It kinda snaps and then there is no pressure at the tip!

With an instant withdrawl, I replace the torn one and go back at it!

[socolais]

what's cool is that everyone knows what "went fishing" means. Good thing I brought my pole

[exploringRM]

It's happened a few times to me. The first time it was just lost a little bit in. The second time it took some fishing to find. I usually try to check here and there to make sure it's still secure..sort of a stealth move while taking a quick breath or readjust position.

[dlflorida]

Originally Posted by lustylearning

Gentlemen, I would only add, and I mean this quite sincerely, should your condom get lost inside a lady, please let her know. Squelch all concerns about your ego and consider her health first!!! Talk about your nasty surprises... ewwwwwww

Our first experience with a SM went great. He completely satisfied my wife. The next day, we went to our usual pub for drinks. My wife was feeling sexy and was wearing a jean skirt sans undies. We had our eight year old with us at the time. She went to the bathroom at the pub and much to her chagrin, she found a used condom coming out.

Our worse case scenario would have been her walking to the bathroom and that damn gravity taking hold. Our eight year old exclaims "Mommy! You dropped something!! I'll get it..."


Not good

[Additude]

Wow...

I did not know that.

I mean, I did not know condoms "Fell" off...I've heard slide off, slip off, come off, were blown off, taken off, squeezed off, pulled off, sucked off, rolled off, wore off and disintegrated...plus some others.

But I have never seen or heard of a condom falling off a dick that's inside of a pussy before.

I hope it wasn't to deep in there and that it didn't fall very far down. If it fell to far someone might have gear up and repel down to retrieve it.

I'm just being a smarty-ass

[SecretAsianMan]

I've never lost a condom inside of her before... usually I can tell if I'm "going soft" and think it's going to slip and pull out before that (doesn't usually happen while I'm in the midst of fucking)

I've heard a few instances where it's broken in mid-stroke... but most guys can DEFINATELY feel the difference if their pumping into latex or riding bare. So I don't buy the excuse that "they couldn't tell" it fell off

((**shrug**)) ... I've only heard of one instance where a fella left it in her after finishing (and didn't tell her) - and that fella was never invited back to play again.