Sharing details on the way home?

[heatherb]

I'm curious how many of you also find this to be a huge turn on. We're both very interested in this, but I'm not sure how normal it is.

Like many people in the lifestyle, my husband and I love to share details about our encounters. Usually, we talk on the ride home, and more often than not, it gets us so excited we can't make it home without having to pull over for a quickie. However, I'm wondering if others share the same type of details that we do.

I can't remember how we got into this, but I'm pretty sure it's when my husband asked me about a particular partner. This partner happened to have an incredible penis and I remember telling my husband that he was very satisfying. Well, one thing led to another and eventually I told my husband that this partner gave me the most intense orgasm I'd ever had. My husband said he noticed how quickly I came and wanted to know what he could do to provide me the same level of intensity. I admitted to him that, truth be told, he wouldn't be able to. My partner was just able to reach places he couldn't and gave me a more filled feeling than he could. I told him sex was still better with him, but from a pure pleasure standpoint my partners penis felt better and provided a more intense experience.

Later, I began asking the same information and found myself very turned on. He shares how tight the ladies were, how wet, etc...He even taught me about hi experiences with what he calls "magic" pussies. He said he can really feel a difference on some ladies whose pussy is shifter more forward towards her belly button and allows for deeper penetration.

From these discussions, I've learned that I get wetter than 8 out of 10 ladies, but am only tighter than 3 out of 10. So, I've been practicing me kegals. My husband has also learned how he ranks in terms of his equipment.

At first blush, it seems like it would almost be insulting, but it's quite the contrary. Somehow, we just understand that differences are a fact of life and the honesty makes us even more excited. Then, just thinking about how much pleasure we're getting from a particular partner really gets our juices flowing.

Anywhoo, sorry for the long post, it's just not easy to describe. I'd appreciate anyone's feedback, similar stories, etc....

Thanks.

[Additude]

Thats what security in each other in a honest loving non-jealous relationship can bring.

What you were anticipating was an insecure, almost insulting or demeaning emotion which was based on previous sub consious conditioning.

It's really amazing that you are both able to discuss these facts and events between each other in harmony.

Good for you!

[socolais]

Welcome to the board and I hope you'll continue to post your thoughts.

Your comments reminded me of some of the fun encounters we've had and the great time we've shared by discussing them on the way home. We love the variety of different partners and the little tricks they do to us and the fun we have giving our playmates a unique experience.

[lookingfornow]

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We do this ALL THE TIME! One of the great benefits of our adventures is re-living by telling one another all of the dirty details--the good, the bad, and the ugly. He loves hearing me describe how different penises feel to me. I love hearing him describe how he responds to the touch of a different woman. We have each picked up little techniques which we have included in our own lovemaking.

M&T in Ohio

[fun4Ds]

Welcome to the Swingers Board

Yes we have had some hot discussions on the way home