How Old Were You When You Had Your First "Group Sex" Experience?

lookingfornow · 04-11-2008, 12:06 PM

It seems to us that most of the couples we have met first started playing in their 30s. We are wondering if our perception is accurate, or not. So, we thought we'd ask. When did you have your first group sexual experience? It doesn't have to be shared sex to qualify, it can be simply be shared voyeurism, etc. (but something more than just watching another couple kissing, please).

***JustAskJulie*** · 04-11-2008, 12:46 PM

I started swinging when I was 21. Started with a FMF or was it MFM, I can't remember anymore, which wa first.

robnsusan60 · 04-11-2008, 06:09 PM

Our first was at an on-premise club, we were both 42. Nice memory, thanks!

sweet_tna · 04-11-2008, 06:58 PM

Ours was about six months ago.

=)

socolais · 04-11-2008, 07:08 PM

My wife was 47 and I was 50 - almost off the scale. Does that make us late bloomers???

lookingfornow · 04-11-2008, 07:10 PM

Ours was about three years ago. We met another couple on line (Swing Lifestyle). We were all newbies. It was a very hot time--dinner, dancing, etc. They were great, but we were all a little nervous.

thegirl · 04-11-2008, 08:11 PM

I had my first threesome with my best friend and her boyfriend when I was 17... she was 18 and the boyfriend was 24.

I actually fell out of contact with her when she went away to school, but recently found her profile on Swing Lifestyle! I messaged her and we had lunch! I have no intention of playing with her, but it was great to laugh about finding each other on a swinging website, considering our history! LOL

Bama0468 · 04-11-2008, 09:47 PM

weeelllll lets seeee..... I think the first I participated in was around 33 - 34 was still pretty shy and was stuck with the group room as all the private rooms were full and must say had a wonderful time !!

***ownerspet*** · 04-11-2008, 10:29 PM

oh about 6 months ago would be about right....

Thrax · 04-11-2008, 10:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by socolais

My wife was 47 and I was 50 - almost off the scale. Does that make us late bloomers???

Not later than me? What a relief! I was about 44 and thought I was a late to the lifestyle game. Guess the three of us wanted to be more...um...seasoned?...before we explored this sexual option.

Seeing that I didn't lose my virginity until I was in my (very!) early 20's I guess I have more ownership of the late-bloomer tag. Right?

Whatever, I'm trying to make up for it now...

Thrax

sexcupid · 04-12-2008, 12:54 AM

My first experience was a FMF when I was 18. They were and engaged couple and I was friends with the female half of the couple. We just kind did it on a spur of the moment thing. Just showed up at his apartment. Needless to say none of us make it to any of our afternoon/evening classes...

Tia Vampire · 04-12-2008, 04:52 AM

him-31
her-37
It was a 3 some. mfm

WesternSwing · 04-12-2008, 11:42 AM

My first experiences were around 18 to 19 when we'd be on double dates and be in a hot tub at one of our homes when the parents weren't there and we'd both have sex with our respective partners in front of each other. That progressed into some soft swap activity for awhile, then it kind of died-out for me until I married Mrs. WS and we discovered we had many of the same sexual fantasies as well as ideas about the separation of sex from love. That was when I was 38, so there was a good 18 years or so with no swinging activity of any nature.

**fun4Ds** · 04-12-2008, 01:29 PM

We were actually not of age, cant say

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**BiloxiCouple** · 04-12-2008, 02:59 PM

I can't remember that far back.

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04-11-2008, 12:06 PM	#1 (permalink)
lookingfornow Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 191 Location: N.E.Ohio Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:lookingfornow	How Old Were You When You Had Your First "Group Sex" Experience? It seems to us that most of the couples we have met first started playing in their 30s. We are wondering if our perception is accurate, or not. So, we thought we'd ask. When did you have your first group sexual experience? It doesn't have to be shared sex to qualify, it can be simply be shared voyeurism, etc. (but something more than just watching another couple kissing, please).
	Last edited by lookingfornow; 04-11-2008 at 12:08 PM.

04-11-2008, 12:46 PM	#2 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: How Old Were You When You Had Your First "Group Sex" Experience? I started swinging when I was 21. Started with a FMF or was it MFM, I can't remember anymore, which wa first.

04-11-2008, 06:09 PM	#3 (permalink)
robnsusan60 Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 32 Location: East Central Fla Status: Widower	Re: How Old Were You When You Had Your First "Group Sex" Experience? Our first was at an on-premise club, we were both 42. Nice memory, thanks!

04-11-2008, 06:58 PM	#4 (permalink)
sweet_tna Being good is overrated Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 4,221 Location: Poconos, PA Status: The boss of Mr. Sweet Swing Lifestyle Name:Sweet_tna	Re: How Old Were You When You Had Your First "Group Sex" Experience? Ours was about six months ago. =)
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04-11-2008, 07:08 PM	#5 (permalink)
socolais nothin special Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 1,251 Location: Dallas Status: M. Male - half of a novice swinging couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Bruce_Melissa	Re: How Old Were You When You Had Your First "Group Sex" Experience? My wife was 47 and I was 50 - almost off the scale. Does that make us late bloomers???
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04-11-2008, 07:10 PM	#6 (permalink)
lookingfornow Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 191 Location: N.E.Ohio Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:lookingfornow	Re: How Old Were You When You Had Your First "Group Sex" Experience? Ours was about three years ago. We met another couple on line (Swing Lifestyle). We were all newbies. It was a very hot time--dinner, dancing, etc. They were great, but we were all a little nervous.

04-11-2008, 08:11 PM	#7 (permalink)
thegirl Here to Stay Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 12 Location: Midland, MI Status: M. Female Swing Lifestyle Name:theboy_thegirl	Re: How Old Were You When You Had Your First "Group Sex" Experience? I had my first threesome with my best friend and her boyfriend when I was 17... she was 18 and the boyfriend was 24. I actually fell out of contact with her when she went away to school, but recently found her profile on Swing Lifestyle! I messaged her and we had lunch! I have no intention of playing with her, but it was great to laugh about finding each other on a swinging website, considering our history! LOL

04-11-2008, 09:47 PM	#8 (permalink)
Bama0468 Rebel without a Cause :P Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 438 Location: Colorado Status: Ugly half of a beautiful Wife Swing Lifestyle Name:fountaincouple	Re: How Old Were You When You Had Your First "Group Sex" Experience? weeelllll lets seeee..... I think the first I participated in was around 33 - 34 was still pretty shy and was stuck with the group room as all the private rooms were full and must say had a wonderful time !!
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04-11-2008, 10:29 PM	#9 (permalink)
*ownerspet* Ring My Bell? Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 416 Location: AL in a house Status: Married Male Swing Lifestyle Name:jarpar	Re: How Old Were You When You Had Your First "Group Sex" Experience? oh about 6 months ago would be about right....
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04-12-2008, 12:54 AM	#11 (permalink)
sexcupid Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 1,195 Location: San Antonio Status: couple/f Swing Lifestyle Name:sexcupid	Re: How Old Were You When You Had Your First "Group Sex" Experience? My first experience was a FMF when I was 18. They were and engaged couple and I was friends with the female half of the couple. We just kind did it on a spur of the moment thing. Just showed up at his apartment. Needless to say none of us make it to any of our afternoon/evening classes...
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04-12-2008, 04:52 AM	#12 (permalink)
Tia Vampire Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 1,059 Location: Florida Status: Single Female Swing Lifestyle Name:tiavampire	Re: How Old Were You When You Had Your First "Group Sex" Experience? him-31 her-37 It was a 3 some. mfm

04-12-2008, 11:42 AM	#13 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,973 Location: Utah Status: Single Male	Re: How Old Were You When You Had Your First "Group Sex" Experience? My first experiences were around 18 to 19 when we'd be on double dates and be in a hot tub at one of our homes when the parents weren't there and we'd both have sex with our respective partners in front of each other. That progressed into some soft swap activity for awhile, then it kind of died-out for me until I married Mrs. WS and we discovered we had many of the same sexual fantasies as well as ideas about the separation of sex from love. That was when I was 38, so there was a good 18 years or so with no swinging activity of any nature.
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04-12-2008, 01:29 PM	#14 (permalink)
fun4Ds Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 6,489 Location: Behind door #2 Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:mrmrsfun	Re: How Old Were You When You Had Your First "Group Sex" Experience? We were actually not of age, cant say .

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