How Often Is It?

Additude · 04-10-2008, 07:16 AM

OK,

In responce to this poll: POLL

and this question:
QUESTION

Then I ask, If it's "Less Than, About Right, More Than, or Don't Know" and/or "Why don't you swing enough?"

Then how much did you swing last year?

Sir Dude · 04-10-2008, 07:51 AM

We started less than a year ago. I wouldn't consider us full time swingers because of our low experience. We've had a total of 4 threesomes with the same person.

**screaminggood** · 04-10-2008, 09:29 AM

We have three kids active in all sorts of things, so even though we'd love to play more, we just don't have the weekend nights available.

SAMnTINA · 04-10-2008, 09:52 AM

Are we counting nights out or partners? We get out about once a month except durning the summer (kids gone and in camp). So when we do get out to a convention or a party we have to do all we can to make up for lost all the times we are working too much or have kid stuff to do.

socolais · 04-10-2008, 10:26 AM

About once a month or so and maybe not every month. That seems to be plenty for us. We started swinging last year and we went to a bunch of parties because the newness of the opportunity was exciting. Sex with others is fun, but it doesn't compare to the fun we have with each other. We get invitations to local house parties and hotel parties almost every weekend, so it's easy to match our mood and need for adventure with the style of party whenever we're ready.

I think we've found our comfortable niche and rhythm....

sweet_tna · 04-10-2008, 10:50 AM

Wow, considering we didn't start 'till last September, we're sluts (7-10)!!! And ya'll think I spend a lot of time posting here . . .

=)

**BiloxiCouple** · 04-10-2008, 10:53 AM

Is it flirt swinging? Voyuer swinging? Tease swinging? Looking cool swinging? Full or soft swap swingning? Internet swinging? Am I really swinging? I am so confused...

Additude · 04-10-2008, 11:20 AM

OK...

Going out to a swing club doesn't make you a swinger....no more than reading, lurking or posting on a swingers forum does. Neither does knowing what a swinger is, make you a swinger.

To swing you have to soft swap or full swap.....and that would be sexual in nature....or intercourse....and not with your SO in the presence of another couple....or voyer..or...

...and for those of you that don't know what that means....well then your not swingers anyways so just ignore the question....

***JustAskJulie*** · 04-10-2008, 11:50 AM

I added a "none" option for you. Which is the option I chose for us. We didn't soft-swap till this year, prior to that we were going to the club about once every 2 months, we did the same room sex thing but that was as far as it got.

Hot Raleigh Cpl · 04-11-2008, 10:42 PM

We figured it meant "how many swinging adventures last year resulted in sex" so we answered that way.

Like most folks here, we still don't get to play as often as we'd like to. Life gets in the way, you know: family, careers, wrong time of the month, misc other stuff.

S and L, Hot Raleigh Cpl

Additude · 04-12-2008, 04:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hot Raleigh Cpl

We figured it meant "how many swinging adventures last year resulted in sex" so we answered that way.

Like most folks here, we still don't get to play as often as we'd like to. Life gets in the way, you know: family, careers, wrong time of the month, misc other stuff.

S and L, Hot Raleigh Cpl

Exactly....

And so far 31 responces with a pretty diverse demographic.

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04-10-2008, 07:16 AM	#1 (permalink)
Additude Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 310 Location: OBX-NC	How Often Is It? OK, In responce to this poll: POLL and this question: QUESTION Then I ask, If it's "Less Than, About Right, More Than, or Don't Know" and/or "Why don't you swing enough?" Then how much did you swing last year? __________________ If you want something you have never had before, you must do something you have never done before.

04-10-2008, 07:51 AM	#2 (permalink)
Sir Dude Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 73 Location: Canada Status: Couple	Re: How Often Is It? We started less than a year ago. I wouldn't consider us full time swingers because of our low experience. We've had a total of 4 threesomes with the same person.

04-10-2008, 09:29 AM	#3 (permalink)
screaminggood Julie's Helper Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 553 Location: Dallas TX Status: couple	Re: How Often Is It? We have three kids active in all sorts of things, so even though we'd love to play more, we just don't have the weekend nights available.

04-10-2008, 09:52 AM	#4 (permalink)
SAMnTINA Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 92 Location: Fort Lauderdale Status: Couple SLS Name:hotnights69	Re: How Often Is It? Are we counting nights out or partners? We get out about once a month except durning the summer (kids gone and in camp). So when we do get out to a convention or a party we have to do all we can to make up for lost all the times we are working too much or have kid stuff to do. __________________ Steve & Terri

04-10-2008, 10:26 AM	#5 (permalink)
socolais nothin special Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 870 Location: Dallas Status: M. Male - half of a novice swinging couple SLS Name:Bruce_Melissa Blog Entries: 11	Re: How Often Is It? About once a month or so and maybe not every month. That seems to be plenty for us. We started swinging last year and we went to a bunch of parties because the newness of the opportunity was exciting. Sex with others is fun, but it doesn't compare to the fun we have with each other. We get invitations to local house parties and hotel parties almost every weekend, so it's easy to match our mood and need for adventure with the style of party whenever we're ready. I think we've found our comfortable niche and rhythm.... __________________ Drama sold separately,,,,, some assembly required.....

04-10-2008, 10:50 AM	#6 (permalink)
sweet_tna Being good is overrated Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 2,930 Location: Poconos, PA Status: The boss of Mr. Sweet SLS Name:Sweet_tna	Re: How Often Is It? Wow, considering we didn't start 'till last September, we're sluts (7-10)!!! And ya'll think I spend a lot of time posting here . . . =) __________________ I'd rather go to hell for doing something I enjoyed than die wondering what it's like.

04-10-2008, 10:53 AM	#7 (permalink)
BiloxiCouple YOUR PLACE OR OURS?? Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 2,763 Location: Biloxi, Mississippi Status: Couple with benefits SLS Name:graceful	Re: How Often Is It? Is it flirt swinging? Voyuer swinging? Tease swinging? Looking cool swinging? Full or soft swap swingning? Internet swinging? Am I really swinging? I am so confused... __________________ Billy & Elaine You can't fix stupid...

04-10-2008, 11:20 AM	#8 (permalink)
Additude Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 310 Location: OBX-NC	Re: How Often Is It? OK... Going out to a swing club doesn't make you a swinger....no more than reading, lurking or posting on a swingers forum does. Neither does knowing what a swinger is, make you a swinger. To swing you have to soft swap or full swap.....and that would be sexual in nature....or intercourse....and not with your SO in the presence of another couple....or voyer..or... ...and for those of you that don't know what that means....well then your not swingers anyways so just ignore the question.... __________________ If you want something you have never had before, you must do something you have never done before.

04-10-2008, 11:50 AM	#9 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,307 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	Re: How Often Is It? I added a "none" option for you. Which is the option I chose for us. We didn't soft-swap till this year, prior to that we were going to the club about once every 2 months, we did the same room sex thing but that was as far as it got.

04-11-2008, 10:42 PM	#10 (permalink)
Hot Raleigh Cpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 151 Location: Raleigh, NC Status: Hot couple, deeply in love	Re: How Often Is It? We figured it meant "how many swinging adventures last year resulted in sex" so we answered that way. Like most folks here, we still don't get to play as often as we'd like to. Life gets in the way, you know: family, careers, wrong time of the month, misc other stuff. S and L, Hot Raleigh Cpl

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