Mental Undressing

[personal416]

Has entering the lifestyle changed the way you look at people on a day to day basis?

Do you "mentally undress" others more or less than you did before?

I (B) think I mentally undress people less than what I did before. Haven't fully thought through why yet (but I have my hunches!).

...anyway... when this popped into my head this morning I thought it might make a light-hearted poll.

[Chris&Amelia]

I'd say the same. If I see an attractive woman when I'm out and about, it's just natural that I'll mentally undress her.

[yuvaraja]

Same. I'm always undressing women and always have.

[socolais]

cool poll, every babe walks around mentally undressed.....

[sweet_tna]

I do that more often now--especially since the chances of seeing someone undressed have gone up considerably . . .

=)

[Malachista]

Unfortunatly I only mentaly undress people I really don't want to know how they look naked

[ownerspet]

And it's not a perversion thing, as I like to look at how the clothes hang to be sure I know what to expect if they do come off. Ok I'm a guy, so maybe it is a slight bit of perversion on my part.

Thats my piece....

[racewalker]

I mentally undress people all the time when its comes to women I wish I know id I wa right how they looked undressed.

[WesternSwing]

I answered "the same". I have always mentally undressed every female that has caught my eye since Jr. High school, so not much has changed there.

What has changed is now I know I actually have a chance with them since I have Mrs. WS's blessing.

[Tia Vampire]

Female- only when we are at the clubs or house parties.
Male- only at the clubs and house parties. Sometimes when we are out at the grocery store.

[lustylearning]

I suppose I'm in the minority for a change. I've never mentally undressed a man. I focus on eyes and words. Hell, I've never even checked men's hands for rings

[Chris&Amelia]

Originally Posted by lustylearning

Hell, I've never even checked men's hands for rings

You know, it's funny actually. Neither one of us wears our wedding bands when we're out and about or working. We put them on when we're hanging out with friends (if we remember) or attending a Meet & Greet.

Both of our occupations are not very jewelry-friendly. And we don't really see the need to advertise... we know we're married to each other. That's all that really matters, right?

[good times]

Originally Posted by Chris&Amelia

You know, it's funny actually. Neither one of us wears our wedding bands when we're out and about or working.

Neither do I, in fact, I don't even have a wedding ring. I too have a ring unfriendly occupation, so when we got married we didn't see the point in paying for something I would never wear.

Funny, this post probably would have worked in the "are you frugal" thread.

[TNT]

This may seem weird but...I've always looked at a man and tried to guess if he dresses to the left or right.

Since swinging I've had the opportunity at times to see if my guess was right or wrong....or would that be, right or left


I do sometimes undress people in my mind, if I find them attractive...it's about the same now as it was before we started swinging.

Teresa

[havefuninsun]

Originally Posted by Malachista

Unfortunatly I only mentaly undress people I really don't want to know how they look naked

Well now -- that's a damn shame!

As for the rings, Mr. Fun rarely wears his; he tries to remember to put it on if we're going out, but sometimes he forgets then. I wear mine because I like to (the diamond is still new and I like it ).