The Ride Home

[AdamInEve]

We were just wondering what the ride home was like after your very first swinging encounter? Was there any conversation? If so, who initiated it? How long was it before anyone said anything? What was the conversation about? Ect.....

[WesternSwing]

For our first swing encounter we went to a casino/hotel in Wendover, NV(about 100 miles from home) with another couple, so it was a long ride home the next day. We took our car and they took theirs, so we had plenty of privacy there and on the way back to talk.

The first 30 minutes was "Oh my god that was awesome!" The next 90 was me and the radio as Mrs. WS had fallen asleep (moving auto narcolepsy ).

Mr. WS

[SCcpl40]

We didn't make it all the way home without stopping to have sex. All the talk about what we did, what we want to do the next time, we got so horny, we pulled over and had great sex!

[fun4Ds]

Our conversation was allot of single words. Like WOW, and short phrases like Can you believe that, that was awesome, and then Mrs.fun just kept giving me the Hi Fives It was cold as hell out, and we only lived a few blocks away.( yep, we did the neighbors) At home, we did it on the kitchen floor, the dinning room table, the love seat and finally bed... Who knew ?

[NandDinDayton]

Ours was a lot of laughing and giggling with alot of wow's and awesomes thrown in. Then a hearty stop at the Waffle House with more laughing and not so innocent smirks and grins. The waitress probably thought we were crazy.....lol. Once back in the car, more of the same with a quick stop for a bit of heavy petting and some quick oral, then on home.

[Malachista]

Well, I did not have anyone to talk too, but in the train back home I was just thinking "OMG!! I DID IT!!!" over and over again.
I was quite confused as I did not plan to actually play that day, just have a look around the club, but got engaged in a MFM pretty soon after getting there

[havefuninsun]

Our first experience was about an hour and half (maybe more) away. After they left the hotel room, we had sex again, and then decided we'd rather drive home than spend the night (we were jacked up on adrenalin). We talked about how we felt about seeing each other with different people (it was a huge turn on), we talked about what it was like for me to have my first girl experience (it was awesome); we talked about what it was like to WATCH others having sex (I've never seen others having sex). The whole experience had a lot of firsts involved. It actually took several days to absorb it all and to process it.

We had great sex when we got home, too.

The conversation home was as much fun as anything else about the evening.

I'm very curious -- how 'bout you guys, AdamnEve??

[sweet_tna]

We had a 5-hour drive ahead of us the next day . . . I was so wound up, I was jumping out of my skin. Mr. Sweet had fun trying to get me off, but after nearly driving off the road a few times, we had to behave. We wanted so badly to pull over, but wanted to get to our hotel room as quick as possible. Of course, we talked about how much fun we had, how surprised we were that it didn't seem weird to us at all, and how we definitely wanted to keep doing it.

And when we FINALLY reached our hotel, we barely managed to get our room door closed!

=)

[talltim123]

We had our first mfmf at hotel an hour away and after a very lovely and exhilarating encounter where both ladies had their first bi encounter (this was to be the main feature of the meeting) It went well socially as well as intimately. Before this my ex and I had had great sex but very little talk about the specifics of our sexual times together.

This time there was much more communication about what had happened the night before as well as our feelings about it which were all positive. From then on out communication about sexual issues improved dramatically.

Sadly, over the next few years she progressively abused alcohol and wanted out of the marriage to pursue her "first love" of the moment which was the bottle. In retrospect I do not feel that our lifestyle experiences were significantly contributing factors to the breakup

[gatorvol64]

Originally Posted by WesternSwing

The first 30 minutes was "Oh my god that was awesome!" The next 90 was me and the radio as Mrs. WS had fallen asleep (moving auto narcolepsy ). Mr. WS

Our first experience was about 2 hours away so we had plenty of time to talk. However, it went a lot like that of WesternSwing. The awesomes were there but so was the sleeping. I go to sleep in a moving car myself. Which is my mother's fault. I got conditioned to do this at an early age. She used to put me to sleep that way. It got to where all she needed to do was start the car she said.

Vol

[bellady]

We had about a half hour ride home and we talked about it all the way, about everything that went on and how we felt and agreed we wanted to do it again... We have had only a few experiences so far but we talk about them in detail and end up horny all over again!

[Chris&Amelia]

Our first time was in a rented cabin, which we ended up staying an extra day in after our first time. So, by the time we actually went home, there really wasn't anything to be said. Just kinda had big ol' silly grins on our faces the entire way home...

[AdamInEve]

Well, Havefuninsun we are very new to the lifestyle so we haven't had an experience yet. Hence the question. We are slow movers I guess, but that's OK because we are going at a pace we are comfortable with. We both agree that after we have our first experience under our belts and the initial nervousness is gone we will be ready to pick up the pace. We have been to a club a few times and have met some great couples. One in particular that is really great and quickly becoming very good friends. We talked to them at length the last time we were there right down to the smallest details of swinging. They want to play but are giving us the time we need without any pressure. On that ride home we both agreed how we should have just taken the plunge that night so who knows maybe next time out we will be able to add our experience to this thread. Adam/Eve

[The Fuse]

We got in the car and closed the doors. Mr. Fuse looked at me, grinned a *huge* grin, and said "Well, honey, we're swingers!"

[MrsVan]

Well, our first experience was at a club and there were things that went wrong during our experience at the club that the drive back to the hotel was miserable. I do not recall us saying much of anything that night. The next morning we got up and had a couple hour drive home and we were actually at that point able to talk about things and try to work through them.

It was rough but we survived it!!

MrsVan