Are you a Swinger?

[Begood03]

We are not swingers, but we are very interested in the lifestyle. So far we have gone to a few nudist resorts, and partied with others while everyone was nude. We both have enjoyed this very much. So far so good, but we are progressing slowly.

The one big thing that keeps us from advancing is the "what happens once you have opened Pandora's box"? What I mean is what if swinging hurts our relationship. While we are very drawn to the fantasty, we don't want to do anything that would hurt what we have together.

So will we keep going slowly, and who knows, one day we may swing. But it won't be until we feel it is right for both of us. Until then we will keep reading and learning.

[Elena]

I think everyone has to progress at their own pace. Do NOT do anything until you are completely ready. You will constantly be asking yourself if you are ready and you will feel many things inside. When you are ready, you will know. You just have to have communication between you and your partner. That is the single most important thing to me.

We are a full swap couple. He is straight and if you have to label me, then I would be bi. I don't go in search of females, we look usually for couples. But I will definitely play with the woman if she is interested. If she isn't interested, then that is fine also. Just let me at the husband! LOL!

[WildFire]

We are a 100% normal married couple and full-swap swingers. She is Bi also. We haven't had sex with too many others, but we have regular playdates with our favorite swing couple.
We started last fall and are still going strong. We enjoy FFM play also when the schedules work out, and have also done full swap separate room play. We are really enjoying the lifestyle. Some would say we are a bit poly with our swing couple. There is a lot more to our relationship than just getting together for sex. It is all evolving nicely Everyone seems to have their own fix in the LS, we stumbled on something really nice that works for all of us.

[mixtupcpl]

We're an open marriage couple. So we are both free to pursue sexual partners outside of the marriage. At various times we've had the "rules" flip back and forth between "tell" and "don't tell", but we've been the way we are since before we were married so its just become normal for us.

The weird thing is though, I really dont consider us swingers. Not sure why. Full swap with another couple is something we want to try and once the kid is a little older will pursue. At the point where we've actually done that, Id feel comfortable with the label. Until then it doesnt feel like it really fits.

The other strange thing is that even though we've both had other partners, and even secondary relationships really, in the years we've been married, we're a little nervous and very excited about playing as a couple (as if it were all new again)

[shyguy55]

We are also an open marriage couple, Wife has a steady guy she see's and I have seen a few females alone, I think we consider ourselfs swingers we have had many 3sum before we started dating alone. I havent posted that much on here but love reading about open marriages ours have worked out great.

[ist75swing]

we like swapping and couples sex parties.
but we have more mfm sex, it is easy to convince one male than a couple in one night

[sweet_tna]

Originally Posted by mixtupcpl

We're an open marriage couple. So we are both free to pursue sexual partners outside of the marriage. At various times we've had the "rules" flip back and forth between "tell" and "don't tell", but we've been the way we are since before we were married so its just become normal for us.

The weird thing is though, I really dont consider us swingers. Not sure why. Full swap with another couple is something we want to try and once the kid is a little older will pursue. At the point where we've actually done that, Id feel comfortable with the label. Until then it doesnt feel like it really fits.

The other strange thing is that even though we've both had other partners, and even secondary relationships really, in the years we've been married, we're a little nervous and very excited about playing as a couple (as if it were all new again)

Ah, but to a point you will be starting all over. You're used to one-on-one experiences, and only having to worry about chemistry between you and your play partner. Trying to find the right mix with FOUR people is a whole 'nother ballgame.

I'm sure ya'll will do fine when your turn at bat comes up. . .

=)

[mixtupcpl]

Originally Posted by sweet_tna

Ah, but to a point you will be starting all over. You're used to one-on-one experiences, and only having to worry about chemistry between you and your play partner. Trying to find the right mix with FOUR people is a whole 'nother ballgame.

I'm sure ya'll will do fine when your turn at bat comes up. . .

=)

Thanks! If nothing else Im sure it will make for funny stories (we tend to have "misadventures" )

Plus, we have the official shirt now. Thats GOT to count for something

[sweet_tna]

Originally Posted by mixtupcpl

Thanks! If nothing else Im sure it will make for funny stories (we tend to have "misadventures" )

Plus, we have the official shirt now. Thats GOT to count for something

Oh, we've had our share of "misadventures", too. The key is to keep your sense of humor when they happen (and it sounds like you have).

As for the shirt, it only counts if you post a picture of you wearing it . . .

=)

[694fun]

How can soft swing be funny, everybody has their on thing, so like to watch or be watched

[694fun]

soft swing maybe touching the other couple or just watching

[694fun]

who would want to go to hell, swinging is something that as been going on along time before we were here.

[BarbnSteve]

Hell i'm confused.....Are we swingers? We have full swapped with another couple. Once, two years ago.....All our other encounters in the last 6 months has been soft swap/oral.

So are we?