why is it that.....?

sweetsucksex · 04-01-2008, 12:25 PM

....once the "act" between me hubby and another, is put into motion i am fine. But the thought or the moments before anything begins are the most nerve rattling for me?
I cant quite figure that out.

sweet_tna · 04-01-2008, 12:34 PM

Pregame jitters are fairly common. There's the risk of rejection, the concern about not being able to please or be pleased, and just the newness of being with someone else are enough to get any rookie's knees knocking.

After you get more comfortable in the lifestyle, those jitters can turn into excitement and anticipation. YMMV

=)

***ownerspet*** · 04-01-2008, 10:39 PM

I have to agree with TNA, being nervous is quite normal with new situations in any area of life, and especially sex with people outside of the SO.....

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04-01-2008, 12:25 PM	#1 (permalink)
sweetsucksex Active Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 10 Location: NJ Status: couple Blog Entries: 1	why is it that.....? ....once the "act" between me hubby and another, is put into motion i am fine. But the thought or the moments before anything begins are the most nerve rattling for me? I cant quite figure that out.

04-01-2008, 12:34 PM	#2 (permalink)
sweet_tna Being good is overrated Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 2,930 Location: Poconos, PA Status: The boss of Mr. Sweet SLS Name:Sweet_tna	Re: why is it that.....? Pregame jitters are fairly common. There's the risk of rejection, the concern about not being able to please or be pleased, and just the newness of being with someone else are enough to get any rookie's knees knocking. After you get more comfortable in the lifestyle, those jitters can turn into excitement and anticipation. YMMV =) __________________ I'd rather go to hell for doing something I enjoyed than die wondering what it's like.

04-01-2008, 10:39 PM	#3 (permalink)
*ownerspet* Ring My Bell? Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 345 Location: AL in a house Status: Married Male SLS Name:jarpar Blog Entries: 3	Re: why is it that.....? I have to agree with TNA, being nervous is quite normal with new situations in any area of life, and especially sex with people outside of the SO..... __________________ O.P. Open your mind, and the rest will follow!

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