Male not interested in full swap, strange?

guayaquil2006 · 03-31-2008, 06:29 AM

We're sure there is already a post regarding this, as there have been over 300,000, WTG!!!!!

I am not interested in swapping with another couple. My main interest, and hers, is to involve another male for a threesome. Is it strangeor unusual that I do not want to have sex with another woman? Of course if the opportunity arose, and all parties were into it, i would, but not actively seeking it. I ask because we are new to this and have not experienced more than some light swap at an on-premise club.

So are there other couples that are strictly MFM?

Release the hounds.....

Jim of Jim & Rebecca

Additude · 03-31-2008, 08:06 AM

We have been with more SM's than couples.

It is a lot less complicated that way for us and for me personally, I'm more into my wife having a good time than I am into the female of the other couple. I initially wanted to get into swinging to watch and be with her, I honestly wasn't that interested in sex with a different woman.

The times we have played couple-couple have been fun, and very enjoyable, but the single male is pretty much less complicated...for us anyway. They show up when expected, want to have sex, don't have a lot of rules and when we are all done and satisfied, it's a clean break.

des1re06 · 03-31-2008, 09:00 AM

Nothing that makes you and your spouse happy is strange (in my opinion).

There are many couples who are only into threesomes.

Enjoy!

Mrs. D

screaminggood · 03-31-2008, 09:47 AM

I agree with the previous posters. We've found it much easier and more satisfying to bring one extra person into our bed than two. Two gets complicated with the mutual attraction dynamics.

***JustAskJulie*** · 03-31-2008, 02:19 PM

Nothing is strange or unusual. I actually know quite a few couples who are primarily into MFM, and at least one where the husband really doesn't play at all except with his wife and usually he just watches. Nothing's unusual.... and ya know what I don't know if there was already a thread on this question, there's been too many to remember

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hoistsail · 04-01-2008, 05:29 PM

Jim, There are lots of men out there like yourself. Some men like to show of their wife's beauty and/or sexual skills. Some married men are feminine and want to play more to that side. Then there are cuckolds that also come in many many flavors.

I have to say that I am glad there are men like that out there, I enjoy when I can get together with their wife.

oc1234 · 04-03-2008, 04:57 PM

I am also a married male that prefers a MFM to other types of swinging. I really get turned on seeing how much fun my wife has playing with two men. During a MFM she usually has several orgasms which really turns me on too.

While we have full swaps and enjoy them, we find it easier to find a male than another couple for a full swap.

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03-31-2008, 06:29 AM	#1 (permalink)
guayaquil2006 Active Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 31 Location: Oak Ridge, New Jersey Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:jimandrebeeca	Male not interested in full swap, strange? We're sure there is already a post regarding this, as there have been over 300,000, WTG!!!!! I am not interested in swapping with another couple. My main interest, and hers, is to involve another male for a threesome. Is it strangeor unusual that I do not want to have sex with another woman? Of course if the opportunity arose, and all parties were into it, i would, but not actively seeking it. I ask because we are new to this and have not experienced more than some light swap at an on-premise club. So are there other couples that are strictly MFM? Release the hounds..... Jim of Jim & Rebecca

03-31-2008, 08:06 AM	#2 (permalink)
Additude Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 623 Location: OBX-NC	Re: Male not interested in full swap, strange? We have been with more SM's than couples. It is a lot less complicated that way for us and for me personally, I'm more into my wife having a good time than I am into the female of the other couple. I initially wanted to get into swinging to watch and be with her, I honestly wasn't that interested in sex with a different woman. The times we have played couple-couple have been fun, and very enjoyable, but the single male is pretty much less complicated...for us anyway. They show up when expected, want to have sex, don't have a lot of rules and when we are all done and satisfied, it's a clean break.
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03-31-2008, 09:00 AM	#3 (permalink)
des1re06 Great Times 1 Year Exp. Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 1,078 Location: East TN Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Des1re06	Re: Male not interested in full swap, strange? Nothing that makes you and your spouse happy is strange (in my opinion). There are many couples who are only into threesomes. Enjoy! Mrs. D

03-31-2008, 09:47 AM	#4 (permalink)
screaminggood Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 847 Location: Dallas TX Status: couple	Re: Male not interested in full swap, strange? I agree with the previous posters. We've found it much easier and more satisfying to bring one extra person into our bed than two. Two gets complicated with the mutual attraction dynamics.

03-31-2008, 02:19 PM	#5 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: Male not interested in full swap, strange? Nothing is strange or unusual. I actually know quite a few couples who are primarily into MFM, and at least one where the husband really doesn't play at all except with his wife and usually he just watches. Nothing's unusual.... and ya know what I don't know if there was already a thread on this question, there's been too many to remember Welcome to the board!
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04-01-2008, 05:29 PM	#6 (permalink)
hoistsail Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 106 Location: NC Status: Couple	Re: Male not interested in full swap, strange? Jim, There are lots of men out there like yourself. Some men like to show of their wife's beauty and/or sexual skills. Some married men are feminine and want to play more to that side. Then there are cuckolds that also come in many many flavors. I have to say that I am glad there are men like that out there, I enjoy when I can get together with their wife.

04-03-2008, 04:57 PM	#7 (permalink)
oc1234 Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 61 Location: maryland Status: couple	Re: Male not interested in full swap, strange? I am also a married male that prefers a MFM to other types of swinging. I really get turned on seeing how much fun my wife has playing with two men. During a MFM she usually has several orgasms which really turns me on too. While we have full swaps and enjoy them, we find it easier to find a male than another couple for a full swap.
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