FMF with straight Fems

[personal416]

All of our swinging to date has been couples MFMF, but the opportunity has presented itself for FMF. Now, we're pretty well acquainted with what some of the options for play would be if one of more of the fems was bi, but that's not the case here. We're hoping success doesn't solely rely on the stamina/longevity of the male.

If you've experienced this particular variation, what are some of your favorite play options?

Our creativity has served us well in the past with MFMF, and surely it will here also, but we thought it would be great to hear what are some of the fun things you've been able to do and come up with in this particular arrangement.

Thanks!

[sexcupid]

I've only ever participated in one FMF...so maybe others here could give better advice.

There was very little interaction between the women, our focus was primarily on him. Yes there were times that it was basically him taking turns having sex with us...but plenty of time spent with him being touched, kissed, carressed, sucked, fondled, etc. 4 hands are better than 2 you know. lol

I honestly can't see why people make such a fuss over this particular scenario. I mean, it is pretty much assumed that when you have a MFM that there is no male/bi interaction...why is it always assumed as such when there is a FMF?

Just lay back, relax, and have a good time!

Interesting post...hopefully you'll get some better responses from others with more experience. I guess I just view the experience with the same mentality that I view a MFM...a FMF is about the focus being on the male participant. YMMV with that viewpoint. lol

Hope to keep seeing you post your thoughts on the board!

[sweet_tna]

I'm with Maria on this one . . . my only (straight) FMF experiences were part of a foursome, and basically we just turned our focus on Mr. Sweet or the other hubby.

Variations are limited only by your imagination . . .

=)

[personal416]

We'll have to find a way to "share" the focus. I can understand why the natural focus is on the male and the MFM analogies work well.... We've probably become biased to think that most females are bi-oriented in some fashion, so the straights are a rarity, let alone two of them in the same bed. LOL..... (I'm willing to concede that may be an unfounded stereotype.)

The circumstances leading to this opportunity weren't fantasy driven, just happenstance and the right chemistry between players, so the male isn't seeking unequal amounts of attention. I'm guessing toys are going to have a major place in the fun!

[JustAskJulie]

I would agree that it would probably be male focused and I don't think there's anything wrong with that. As you pointed out if it's the guys job in that situation to make sure both women are completely satisfied that is going to be one worn out guy. I say lie back and let one sit on your face and the other on your dick and let em go.... they can always swap out. Either way you all three have fun.

[ted1961]

I agree

[ross_sally]

"I say lie back and let one sit on your face and the other on your dick and let em go.... they can always swap out. Either way you all three have fun."

BINGO

[personal416]

Well.. the focus is definitely on everyone having fun.... not just him!

Guess us girls should bring batteries and toys as a backup!

[two42lovers]

We have a straight girlfriend, so we have experience with "straight FMF". Yes, you can go back and forth between the women 1-on-1, each taking turns watching, but we prefer everyone to be involved simultaneously.

* He can receive oral from one, while giving oral to the other, switching back and forth.
* He can give oral to one while masturbating the other, going back and forth between them every several seconds.
* Lay the ladies on their backs side by side, about two feet apart, so he can give oral to one and fuck the other, switching when the time is right.
* The ladies can perform simultaneous oral on him.
* The ladies can 69 each other while he fucks one then the other... Oops! Wait. Never mind this last one. It's our favorite, but only with a bi playmate.