Meet a third for a MFM?

guayaquil2006 · 03-27-2008, 10:26 AM

We are pretty new to the lifestyle, have been to a club once and shared some soft swap (i think it was..

) . She has expressed interest in a MFM and I think it would be great. Can you suggest a club that allows singles or a meet-n-greet for this weekend in the Northern NJ or NYC area? This is the first step for us and not even sure if anything will happen, just want to ease into it. She does not wnat it to be "set-up" like just meeting someone in a hotel room, would like to experience the whole thing, the dancing, the flirting the attraction, etc.

Well, this site has been very helpful alredy, looking forward to the reponses.

Jim & Rebecca

Greg & Sheryl · 03-27-2008, 11:10 AM

Do you have an account with Swing Lifestyle, yet? Provided you've entered your correct zip code to your account, the home page should give you a listing of events in your area.

MRnMSbhaven · 03-27-2008, 11:13 AM

Not having been to that area, we cannot suggest a specific club. We can suggest that you contact the clubs you do know of and ask. Some clubs do have specific nights where single males are allowed. Single females are generally allowed anytime.
However, it varies from club to club. Some do not advertise that they allow singles so the only way you may find out is to call and ask.

Ms B

***JustAskJulie*** · 03-27-2008, 03:01 PM

You can also check the club listings here, by clicking "club listings" on the top menu.

AdultSocials · 04-03-2008, 03:47 PM

If you are on Swing Lifestyle, there is a party listing for the Second Saturday party in northern NJ (i'm not sure exactly how it is listed) but there are lots of single guys at that event.

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03-27-2008, 10:26 AM	#1 (permalink)
guayaquil2006 Active Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 31 Location: Oak Ridge, New Jersey Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:jimandrebeeca	Meet a third for a MFM? We are pretty new to the lifestyle, have been to a club once and shared some soft swap (i think it was..) . She has expressed interest in a MFM and I think it would be great. Can you suggest a club that allows singles or a meet-n-greet for this weekend in the Northern NJ or NYC area? This is the first step for us and not even sure if anything will happen, just want to ease into it. She does not wnat it to be "set-up" like just meeting someone in a hotel room, would like to experience the whole thing, the dancing, the flirting the attraction, etc. Well, this site has been very helpful alredy, looking forward to the reponses. Jim & Rebecca

03-27-2008, 11:10 AM	#2 (permalink)
Greg & Sheryl Interracial Swingers Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 749 Location: Denver, CO Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Greg69Sheryl	Re: Meet a third for a MFM? Do you have an account with Swing Lifestyle, yet? Provided you've entered your correct zip code to your account, the home page should give you a listing of events in your area.

03-27-2008, 11:13 AM	#3 (permalink)
MRnMSbhaven Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 161 Location: Wisconsin Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:mrnmsbhaven	Re: Meet a third for a MFM? Not having been to that area, we cannot suggest a specific club. We can suggest that you contact the clubs you do know of and ask. Some clubs do have specific nights where single males are allowed. Single females are generally allowed anytime. However, it varies from club to club. Some do not advertise that they allow singles so the only way you may find out is to call and ask. Ms B
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03-27-2008, 03:01 PM	#4 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: Meet a third for a MFM? You can also check the club listings here, by clicking "club listings" on the top menu.
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04-03-2008, 03:47 PM	#5 (permalink)
AdultSocials Here to Stay Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 21 Location: NYC Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:jackjillnyc	Re: Meet a third for a MFM? If you are on Swing Lifestyle, there is a party listing for the Second Saturday party in northern NJ (i'm not sure exactly how it is listed) but there are lots of single guys at that event.

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