Your Swinging Style

NealnAnji · 03-21-2008, 02:29 PM

This topic may have been addressed before. But just as a refresher what is your swinging style primarily?

1. We are soft swingers. We only play with our own partner when with another couple/s in the same room, i.e., watch and be watched.

2. We are soft swingers. We swap mates with another couple for all sexual activities, upto, but NOT INCLUDING copulation for sexual intercourse with the other couple's mate.

3. We are a full-swap couple. We swap mates with another couple/s for all sexual activities upto AND INCLUDING copulation for sexual intercourse with the other couple's mate.

4. We do not swing. We are voyeurs. We only like to watch others engaging in sexual activities.

Tia Vampire · 03-21-2008, 03:32 PM

We are a full swap and condoms must be used couple. We like to finish with each other, meaning when he is about to get to his orgasm, he like to finish inside of me.. If the other guy happens to finish first, it's o.k as long as it's inside of a condom.

**good times** · 03-21-2008, 03:32 PM

Just curious, why did you make this poll close in such a short time? Seems to me that you would get better results letting it run for a longer period of time.

By the way, if you did that inadvertently I or one of the other moderators for this forum can change it for, you just let us know.

NealnAnji · 03-21-2008, 03:38 PM

It was inadvertent. Thought it was open for 15 days and that would be long enough. Anyway, please go ahead and feel free to change the duration to whatever you think makes sense. Thanks.

N&A

sweet_tna · 03-21-2008, 03:43 PM

We're full swap, but will play with couples that have a different "style" if we're really into them.

**LikeMinds321** · 03-21-2008, 03:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tia Vampire

We are a full swap and condoms must be used couple. We like to finish with each other, meaning when he is about to get to his orgasm, he like to finish inside of me.. If the other guy happens to finish first, it's o.k as long as it's inside of a condom.

Tia~

Does this mean that if your husband is having intercourse with his playmate, and he is about to cum, he'll stop playing with her to hold off cumming (even if it means waiting in line until the other guy cums in you) and then your husband will finish inside of you?

Do you let the couple - especially the lady - know ahead of time that your husband won't have an orgasm with her?

LM

socolais · 03-21-2008, 05:31 PM

Our first swing was a soft one, after that, we decided we're into this for the fun and excitement. Our activity limitations for any given moment is dependent on the fun factor and our understanding of each other's general preferences. Full swap, separate play, any position, with or without condoms, soft swap or just vanilla nude camping. Just don't leave marks that last more than a few hours and we'll have to know each other well before any anal play. We prefer that doors not be completely closed.

We've been fortunate to find plenty of playmates with similar rules. We haven't played in a situation yet where fun was limited by the other couple's rules.

Tia Vampire · 03-21-2008, 05:55 PM

LikeMinds, he says he can not have an orgasm with another woman and I find myself having a difficult time having one with other men. So we wait until the couple has orgasmed and we usually finish with each other.

**LFM2** · 03-21-2008, 06:24 PM

We're one of those full swap, have to have a condom couples.

Spoomonkey · 03-21-2008, 06:55 PM

I just voted and the results so far are 20 full swap - 0 for the rest of the options.

I am cool with soft if someone wants that. As I have said before, having sex with Mrs Spoo is not a bad deal in the least

But, we do prefer to swap.

Spoomonkey

cubnamy1995 · 03-21-2008, 11:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tia Vampire

LikeMinds, he says he can not have an orgasm with another woman and I find myself having a difficult time having one with other men. So we wait until the couple has orgasmed and we usually finish with each other.

I'm going to start a new thread on this issue.

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View Poll Results: Your Swinging Style
We only play with our own partner when with another couple/s.	0	0%
We are soft swingers. We swap mates for all sexual activities upto but NOT including intercourse.	2	4.55%
We are full swap couple. We swap mates for all sexual activities UPTO AND INCLUDING intercourse.	40	90.91%
We are voyeurs. We do not swing. We love to watch others playing and having sex.	2	4.55%
Voters: 44. You may not vote on this poll

03-21-2008, 02:29 PM	#1 (permalink)
NealnAnji Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2001 Posts: 73 Location: IL Status: Married couple SLS Name:neal7310	Your Swinging Style This topic may have been addressed before. But just as a refresher what is your swinging style primarily? 1. We are soft swingers. We only play with our own partner when with another couple/s in the same room, i.e., watch and be watched. 2. We are soft swingers. We swap mates with another couple for all sexual activities, upto, but NOT INCLUDING copulation for sexual intercourse with the other couple's mate. 3. We are a full-swap couple. We swap mates with another couple/s for all sexual activities upto AND INCLUDING copulation for sexual intercourse with the other couple's mate. 4. We do not swing. We are voyeurs. We only like to watch others engaging in sexual activities. __________________ nealnanji

03-21-2008, 03:32 PM	#2 (permalink)
Tia Vampire Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 772 Location: Florida Status: couples SLS Name:tiavampire Blog Entries: 1	Re: Your Swinging Style We are a full swap and condoms must be used couple. We like to finish with each other, meaning when he is about to get to his orgasm, he like to finish inside of me.. If the other guy happens to finish first, it's o.k as long as it's inside of a condom.

03-21-2008, 03:32 PM	#3 (permalink)
good times Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,420 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times SLS Name:randp	Re: Your Swinging Style Just curious, why did you make this poll close in such a short time? Seems to me that you would get better results letting it run for a longer period of time. By the way, if you did that inadvertently I or one of the other moderators for this forum can change it for, you just let us know. __________________ R (He is R, she is P)

03-21-2008, 03:38 PM	#4 (permalink)
NealnAnji Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2001 Posts: 73 Location: IL Status: Married couple SLS Name:neal7310	Re: Your Swinging Style It was inadvertent. Thought it was open for 15 days and that would be long enough. Anyway, please go ahead and feel free to change the duration to whatever you think makes sense. Thanks. N&A __________________ nealnanji

03-21-2008, 03:43 PM	#5 (permalink)
sweet_tna Being good is overrated Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 2,934 Location: Poconos, PA Status: The boss of Mr. Sweet SLS Name:Sweet_tna	Re: Your Swinging Style We're full swap, but will play with couples that have a different "style" if we're really into them. __________________ I'd rather go to hell for doing something I enjoyed than die wondering what it's like.

03-21-2008, 05:31 PM	#7 (permalink)
socolais nothin special Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 870 Location: Dallas Status: M. Male - half of a novice swinging couple SLS Name:Bruce_Melissa Blog Entries: 11	Re: Your Swinging Style Our first swing was a soft one, after that, we decided we're into this for the fun and excitement. Our activity limitations for any given moment is dependent on the fun factor and our understanding of each other's general preferences. Full swap, separate play, any position, with or without condoms, soft swap or just vanilla nude camping. Just don't leave marks that last more than a few hours and we'll have to know each other well before any anal play. We prefer that doors not be completely closed. We've been fortunate to find plenty of playmates with similar rules. We haven't played in a situation yet where fun was limited by the other couple's rules. __________________ Drama sold separately,,,,, some assembly required.....

03-21-2008, 05:55 PM	#8 (permalink)
Tia Vampire Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 772 Location: Florida Status: couples SLS Name:tiavampire Blog Entries: 1	Re: Your Swinging Style LikeMinds, he says he can not have an orgasm with another woman and I find myself having a difficult time having one with other men. So we wait until the couple has orgasmed and we usually finish with each other.

03-21-2008, 06:24 PM	#9 (permalink)
LFM2 Happy Fall, Y'all!! Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 1,850 Location: State of Confusion Status: Couple SLS Name:LFM2 Blog Entries: 4	Re: Your Swinging Style We're one of those full swap, have to have a condom couples. __________________ "One half of the world cannot understand the pleasures of the other." Jane Austen

03-21-2008, 06:55 PM	#10 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,563 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? SLS Name:Spoomonkey	Re: Your Swinging Style I just voted and the results so far are 20 full swap - 0 for the rest of the options. I am cool with soft if someone wants that. As I have said before, having sex with Mrs Spoo is not a bad deal in the least But, we do prefer to swap. Spoomonkey __________________ "Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." - C. S. Lewis

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