Men-what is your type?

[lovinher]

I had this whole thing written out for this thread....

Ladies - what's your type?

Then I realized the question was for the ladies.

So men, what is your type?

Mine are......

Hair type-
Redheads
Blonds-not bleached
Brunettes
Black
Redheads
Has to be as long as mine. Butch is a major turnoff for me.

Boobs-
Little
Big
average.
Natural. I hate bad boob jobs no matter how big or small they are.

Body-
Average build.
Not too skinny, not too heavy.
But if it looks like she could kick my ass then I'll pass.

Eye color-any. But I have a thing for redheads with green eyes.

Light skin, dark skin-it's all good as long as she has some.

A nice smile is worth a ton and can trump many negative aspects.
Full lips scores points too.

Intelligence-doesn't matter unless they like to prove how smart they are and put others down. You don't have to have a PHD to be an attractive woman-inside and out.

Spandex or sweats-see ya!

Any personality type is fine except pompous, conceit and overall negativity.

Women who don't know how beautiful they are. These ladies are usually the most attractive to me by far.

Too much makeup is a no-no. If you look like a hooker or a washed up Real Estate Agent your 'e not for me.

Must have teeth, At least dentures. In fact that could be a good thing.

No facial hair.

A vagina helps too.

Point is I like them all and don't really have a "type".
I'm easy and give me two or more and suddenly I'm deaf and blind.

Des1re06-Men - bald-gets my attention first every time.
So there is hope for me? I have eyes and lips too.

[socolais]

Has a pulse and a smile, light on the negative vibes. Looks like she takes good care of herself, and selfconfidence is a big plus. Apparent sensuality and decent communication skills means fun in the sack. Redheads have a slight advantage.

I watch the ladies at the snack table - they are what they eat If they grab half a chicken from a paper bucket or even double-dip their chips, I'll extrapolate plenty of information about their fun potential. When she goes for the fresh fruit, cheese nibbles or dark chocolate, I start wondering what I might say that would catch her attention.

[havefuninsun]

You guys are funny!!

That's the thing, isn't it -- If you ask Mr Fun what is his type, he'll say "female." He likes VARIETY -- there's not much that would turn him off. Extremes turn him off (extremely skinny, extremely big, extremely negative, extremely chatty ... you guys get what I'm saying). Otherwise -- he's up for having some fun!

[des1re06]

I'm glad you posted this for the gentlemen to get their chance.

That's really why I asked the ladies what they look for. Not to slight the gentlemen at all, as your opinion is important. We all are aware that it's usually the ladies that have to give the thumbs up before anything else happens.

So, I was curious what ladies look for in other women/men.

I'll ask Mr. D to post here.

[good times]

Huh. Until I saw this thread I didn't know the other thread was for ladies only, so I had already responded there.

I have to say though, I am not one of those folks that would say, "female" to this question, even though that would apply. What I mean by that is that someone would have to follow my wife and I around for months to determine which one of us is more picky, when it comes to selecting play partners. If you asked my wife, I am sure she would say I am, I would say she is but would concede that it could be me.

Like someone else said though, I like variety, which makes it really hard to answer this question other than to say, I can't explain to you what I like, but I know it when I see it.

That being said, their are a few things that are either an instant turn-on or a total turn-off.

I like a woman who is self confident but not arrogantly so, nothing probably turns me off quicker than a woman who thinks she is all that and a box of cookies, but isn't, and should have passed on the cookies. The mousy insecure type usually won't do it for me though.

I prefer women that are in reasonably fit physical shape but not necessarily hard bodies.

While I prefer brunettes, hair color isn't all that important to me.

I like big boobs, I cannot lie. but not having big boobs isn't an automatic disqualifier either.

Good teeth, having a full set is a plus.

I look for sexy woman. That doesn't mean they have to dress with everything hanging out, although, that is ok too.

Speaking of dressing, I like a woman who is dressed to impress. Could be tight jeans and a t-shirt or a formal gown, as long as she looks good in it. It amazes me, how many people we see come to the club in grubby old clothes, if they don't care enough to dress up a bit, I'll pass.

One last thing, sweats or baggy work out clothes should be outlawed. 99.9% of the woman (and men for that matter) in the world don't just look unattractive in sweats, they look like slobs. (and yes, I have seen people show up at the club in sweats)

[ibn battuta]

I think most guys are generally not too picky and I generally agree with Havfuninsun that only extremes are a real turn off. I really don't think I could create a list of absolute turn offs/ons as most women with fun, outgoing, and genuinely kind personalities I could find attractive.
For the sake of the thread though, if I was forced to pick I would say:
Hair: dark blond/light brown and not ultra-short
Body type: average or athletic, again the extremes of either super thin or super fat are turn offs
Breasts: natural and proportional to body
Teeth: Ok here I am superficial and a bad person, but Austin Powers teeth is a mood killer. Sorry...
Fingernails are an absolute turn on. They don't have to be overly long, or have a certain type of polish or set up, but having fingernails rake across my back drives me nuts.
Dress: Anything that looks put together. Sweats (even Juicy Couture) are generally a no no... although there is something sexy about my wife in a par of shorts and an old sweatshirt... Flashdance anyone?

[Thrax]

Basically, since I'm a single male, any woman who wants to do me a favor by having sex with me.

Thrax

[Thrax]

My last post in this thread was a joke.

Honestly.

Sort of.



Anyway, if some of you haven't been following the "singles and favors" thread(s) on SB, check it out and you'll see what I was referencing.

I'll provide a more cogent response to the original question soon, but for now, 'tis St. Paddy's Day, and I have other things to attend to. (I must attend to the current holiday crisis: exactly which pot-o'-gold-finders get to me Lucky Charms!)

Have a Green Day!

O'Thrax (McThrax, FitzThrax, etc.)

[Mr. Sweet]

Originally Posted by lovinher

Hair type-
Boobs-
Body-

A nice smile is worth a ton and can trump many negative aspects.
Full lips scores points too.

Spandex or sweats-see ya!

YEP, Hair (preferably long), boobs, and body are great!!!

And yes the smile, personality and attitude are the real sale in most cases.

However SPANDEX....that's something special!!!...I guess that comes from years of volunteering to keep score for the girls volleyball team in college...I had a great respect for SPANDEX then!!!!!

[Chris&Amelia]

I admit it, I am a breast man. Nice sized breasts (but not anything grotesquely large) will instantly attract my attention. But fake breasts, no matter how "nice", are a total turn-off for me. If I find out a woman as has cosmetic breast surgery, any attraction I had will evaporate.

I think when looking for a playmate, I'm looking for a blonde or redhead. Brown hair doesn't really do anything for me. Amelia has jet-black hair, and you can't really improve on perfection there.

Eyes: Color does not matter to me. Blue, green, brown... whatever. What matters to me is if I can look into those eyes and see somebody who likes living life. Yes, I know it's cliche. But a pretty set of eyes is a very major turn on for me. Again, cliche: "The eyes are windows into a person's soul", but I believe it's true.

Teeth: I'm sure we got some snickers about the "must have a full set of teeth" but this is a valid concern for me. I'm in the Poconos! "What has twelve feet and only three teeth? The line at a Poconos Post Office."

Height: Between 5'3" and 5'6" is optimal for me. Somebody who could hold her head against my chest when we're dancing....

But (again with the cliches) it comes down to personality. Do we click? Do we make each other laugh? Does she not run away in terror from my quirky humor? DING DING! WE GOTTA WINNER!

[Trace Ekies]

Perfect legs to me? Feet on one end...pussy on the other.

Blonde hair, blue eyes and big breasts. As it turns out I married (our anniversary is March 21) one of this model and have been enjoying myself since.

Hair - shoulder length with some curl to give it the "big" look.
Breasts - "D" to "DD".
Height - no taller than me when she's in heels - I'm 6'0".
Body type - Solid - not bbw - but thick. Not able to whip my ass but able to hold her own if the wrong sort of person grabs her.
Personality - Big smile, bigger laugh and a mischevious streak a mile wide - a bit of a freak would be nice too.

Many variations of the above are attractive as well. For instance, I find Jennifer Anniston to be one of the hottest women on the planet.

In the end, I want'em all and I want'em now!

Trace

[matt1s3]

I have dated and played with women ranging the whole gamut. (sp?)

I've learned I really have no type. Of course I like pretty women, there isn't a specific formula to me that makes them pretty. I do like full lips and I'm definitely an ass and legs man but that doesn't have to hold true for me. I enjoy the exoticism of other ethnic backgrounds like latinas, asians and have found often times that the most beautiful women (and most agree men too) are from mixed races.

One thing though that I guess would be a type is I like fit women. They don't have to have a perfectly flat stomach but I am attracted to people who keep in shape and like to do athletic activities as that's important to me too.

[SW_PA_Couple]

criteria:

1. Breathing
2. Will not try to beat me in a tennis match or round of golf

Michael

[pervgeeks]

Originally Posted by Trace Ekies

Perfect legs to me? Feet on one end...pussy on the other.

Blonde hair, blue eyes and big breasts. As it turns out I married (our anniversary is March 21) one of this model and have been enjoying myself since.

Hair - shoulder length with some curl to give it the "big" look.
Breasts - "D" to "DD".
Height - no taller than me when she's in heels - I'm 6'0".
Body type - Solid - not bbw - but thick. Not able to whip my ass but able to hold her own if the wrong sort of person grabs her.
Personality - Big smile, bigger laugh and a mischevious streak a mile wide - a bit of a freak would be nice too.

Many variations of the above are attractive as well. For instance, I find Jennifer Anniston to be one of the hottest women on the planet.

In the end, I want'em all and I want'em now!

Trace

I've never seen someone describe their type before that sounds so much like me lol (except I have green eyes). My husband says women like me are a rare breed. Not sure about that, but we do seem to make our men happy.

[WesternSwing]

I am more attracted to a whole person than any on or couple of physical characteristics, but if I had to say what gets me at first glance or makes me turn around a second time to take her in some more it is:

Redheads (faux redheads are great, natural redheads will stop me dead in my tracks)
Latinas
Women in the size 10 to 22 range
Larger, natural breasts

Like I say, this is first attraction, stop me in my tracks for another look type stuff. The only other woman I've been in love with other than Mrs. WS in the past 10 years was blonde, 105 lbs wet and small boobs. Didn't at all fit my "type" physically. But when you got to know her...

Which is the next thing in attraction for me. Smart women. I can't do dumb people at all, much less swap DNA with a not-so-smart one. Intelligence is a huge turn-on for me. So once we get past the first physical attraction it moves to chemistry.

Mr. WS