Ladies - what's your type?

[des1re06]

Do you have a particular "type" you look for when perusing the ads?


Mine are:

Women - curvy, not too skinny; shoulder length or longer hair (not butch); sexy clothing or tasteful nude poses

Men - bald-gets my attention first every time. Eyes-love pretty eyes. Lips-kissable lips.

What draws you to their photo, so that you want to read what's inside?

Mrs. D

[havefuninsun]

My favorite picture I've ever seen is a couple where he's behind her, leaning down and kissing her neck. She's nude, and he has her breasts in his hands, covering her nipples. She graciously has her hand covering her girl parts. Her face is hidden; his is hidden because he's bending down kissing her neck.

It's an uber-hot picture!

The pictures that just DRAW me in are the ones that look like they were thought about before they were taken ... here lately, the pics are all women's ass shots on SLS (it seems, anyway). And I actually have an ass shot in our private pics; seems kinda lame now -- LOL!

I love to see great smiles and relaxed bodies ... eyes that look like fun.

It's hard to describe, isn't it?

[lustylearning]

Originally Posted by havefuninsun

My favorite picture I've ever seen is a couple where he's behind her, leaning down and kissing her neck. She's nude, and he has her breasts in his hands, covering her nipples. She graciously has her hand covering her girl parts. Her face is hidden; his is hidden because he's bending down kissing her neck.

It's an uber-hot picture!

The pictures that just DRAW me in are the ones that look like they were thought about before they were taken ... here lately, the pics are all women's ass shots on SLS (it seems, anyway). And I actually have an ass shot in our private pics; seems kinda lame now -- LOL!

I love to see great smiles and relaxed bodies ... eyes that look like fun.

It's hard to describe, isn't it?

Havefuninsun, your own avatar displays some of what you describe. Great shot!

I'm grabbed by pictures that display sensuality, and frankly there aren't many. But I'm not above enjoying a handsome or beautiful body Either way, a picture may pique my curiosity, but it's personality that holds my interest. Beauty is as beauty does...

[Tia Vampire]

Couples of average build: size 6-12 for women and 30-36 for men
Smiles, so that we are able to see the teeth
Long wavy black hair on the guy half is my weakness, but not a requirement.
I really don't pay attention to the female half, but if I ever came across a female version of him, now that would get my attention. I know what he looks for in a woman, so I look for what he is interested in.

[prettylady]

Like havinfun, I like sensual photos of them both. I want some in my profile.
But as for the person. My eyes always go to the abs and chest. I am partcial to muscle and hairy chests.
I am strait, but when looking at profiles for us both, I look for active women for Dog.
Not athletes, but someone who likes to be busy and not a couch potato. If they look like healthy active people I look inside to see if profile and pictures match.

Your friend,
Prettylady

[sweet_tna]

For the pic itself, something sensual and leaves a little to the imagination.

For the couple, we prefer a woman with some curves, and a guy that's at least a few inches taller than me (I'm 5'3" so that's not asking much!). I have a thing for ink, but it's certainly not required. Most of the time, personality makes the biggest difference in the chemistry anyway.

And the profile itself is key. We like for the profile to really give us a sense of who the couple is and what they're really looking for. A good writing style will get my attention every time.

=)

[JustAskJulie]

I don't think I really have A single type of either men or women. There's just something about them that draws me in. That said on women it's a "Cute" thing... I can't explain it really. On men I, too, am attracted to bald guys (shaved heads), as well as guys with long hair (talk about extremes!). I guess much like in real life it's just the way they present themselves, which is what makes judging based on a picture SO difficult because so often people's personalities don't come through in their pictures.

[good times]

Hard question, it is much easier for me to say what turns me off than what turns me on, but I'll take a stab at it anyway.

I look for women that are not too skinny but not to overweight. Nice smile, and a look of someone who takes care of themselves and cares how they look. Sexy posed photos will draw my attention quicker than candid photos that don't show much. That is about it, like I said before, this is a really hard question because sometimes I even surprise myself by the women that I find attractive.

As far as Mrs. GT goes, she will have to answer this herself, as I have given up a long time ago trying to figure out what she finds attractive in guys. At the same time, she has found the same thing with me, so if we find a profile that one of us finds the couple attractive, the other one will look at it and decide if it is going any further.

[havefuninsun]

Originally Posted by lustylearning

Havefuninsun, your own avatar displays some of what you describe. Great shot!

I'm grabbed by pictures that display sensuality, and frankly there aren't many. But I'm not above enjoying a handsome or beautiful body Either way, a picture may pique my curiosity, but it's personality that holds my interest. Beauty is as beauty does...

Lusty -- our avatar pic was inspired by the picture I described above. The rest of this pic is pretty hot, too ... in fact, one day, when we live in a grown up house without kids (that will happen one day, right? Please tell me that's right ...) I'm going to have that pic framed and hung in our bedroom. If kids come to visit, and happen to go in our room, and they're NOT living with us, they make that walk into our room at their own risk.

[Tybee Swing]

Originally Posted by des1re06

Do you have a particular "type" you look for when perusing the ads?

Not a very specific type, because we've both found all sorts of people attractive.

Generally speaking, I like women who are quite feminine, and men who are quite masculine. Physically fit and healthy-looking are very attractive traits.

Tasteful pics (not closeups).

That's probably about it for perusing ads, because the rest of it has to be seen in person (personality, warmth, etc.).

[pervgeeks]

Me-
Men: I like clean cut very conservative looking men generally, BUT the fun part about swinging is some variety, so that's no hard and fast rule. I'm not so much into long hair or really big guys (bigger than a 36-38 inch waist probably) and not into guys shorter than me (I'm only 5'4 1/2" though). Mainly I look for attitude. Pushy, overly dominant types turn me off big time. Treat me like a lady, I will be a whore (to put it bluntly). Treat me like a whore, you lose out.

Women: I tend to like women with medium to long hair, average size (probably a size 16 or 18 would be the top limit) and not so into super skinny women either. I tend to prefer 30- early 40's. I seem to end up with a lot of women with light brown or auburn hair too (never been with another blonde). I tend to like boobs, but don't expect boobs like I have (38DD), just at least a B. I like feminine, but not overly made up and fake.

He and I have very similar taste in women. Probably the main thing he's into is really knowing that a woman we're with is being pleased. He takes his time. Physically, he tends to like even darker hair and very much likes a "girl next door" look which I tease him because he married a voluptuous blonde. Here's a great quote from him, "I wouldn't call myself a 'boobman', but it sure is a strange coincidence every women I've ever been seriously involved with has large breasts."

[MrsVan]

What catches my attention immediately for a male, is if he is bald..To me there is something sexy about a bald guy (and more partial now than ever since MrVan shaved his head). If the guy is not bald then I tend to look at the face to checkout the smile..There is a certain look in a guy I like when looking at profiles and MrVan is quickly noticing this more and more each day.

As for a woman, just a pretty smile and does not have to be really thin or very drop dead sexy but more like the girl next door type of girl.

MrsVan

PS..- and if you are a redhead, well that is an extra bonuse

[Malachista]

I like short blond or red hair, or long hair in any color.
Wide shoulders don't hurt either

Aside from that I have a thing for these modern androgenous types