Looking for help

Hello I'm a 35 year old male and my wife is 38. With in the last year and a bit my wife an I have experimented in swinging. it first started with a couple and two of my single friends at a party. She started kissing the other girl and that was hot then she started sucking my friend off and I just watched. then we moved just to couple to couple. but after my wife felt guilty"dirty" and we stopped then we met a another couple and it started with girl on girl then me grouping his girl while he touched mine. but then again she felt dirty after we just recently met another couple and the girls kissed and then later I because intimate with the other girl. Each time My wife initiated it all and always after she feels dirty....our marriage is great our relationship with each other is great...how do I help her in not feeling dirty?? because I would like this to continue...also I would like this work when we're not under the infulence of acholol?

[BiloxiCouple]

Alcohol may be the reason she is feeling dirty afterwards. You may be right to try this sober and see if there is a different feeling afterwards.

[JustAskJulie]

Please register so that you can come back and share more info with us. Alchohol tends to lower people's inhibitions... however, I don't know anyone who does anything when drunk that they don't have some desire to do when they are sober. If she feels dirt/guilty that has much more to do with how she was raised - was she raised in a religious atmosphere? where sex outside of marriage was seen as bad/dirty? Have you talked to her about this when you are both sober and made it clear to her that you are ok with what she is doing and that she is not bad/dirty for doing so? Have you asked her why she feels dirty/ guilty about doing these things? What is it about it that makes her feel this way?