Do you reject the chance for friendship?

[LFM2]

Originally Posted by Tybee Swing

I voted "other" because we wouldn't go out of our way to hang out with the couple who's not attracted to us, but we wouldn't ignore/avoid them, either. If we were told by another couple that "there is no sexual chemistry" with us, we would take it to mean a very clear and certain "there will be NO sex, not ever". If we happened to bump into them at a party or something, we'd be friendly but we wouldn't waste time hanging with them. In fact, we would believe that they would not be genuinely interested in hanging with us, because they are there to meet people they're attracted to, and we ain't it.

This pretty much says it all on how we feel. Even though finding friendships is not our number one goal here, we wouldn't ignore anyone who thought we weren't sexually compatible. We learned early on that we're not going to be attracted to everyone we meet and it's certainly going to be same vice versa. We'd never turn down anyone as friends. We've liked pretty much everyone we've come into contact with in this lifestyle and we've enjoyed their company, whether we were attracted to them sexually or not.

[Pepper & Drew]

We probably wouldn't go out of our way to remain friends if there's no chance at sex. While we enjoy making new friens, we'd rather have friends with benefits.

Pepper

[The Fuse]

If we really enjoyed their company as people and had room in our life for buddies, we would try it. We like our vanilla friends fine, but we prefer having friends who really understand us. There is a couple like that for us now. We didn't have a four-way match, but so enjoyed hanging out. They did too. So we hope to hang out some more. If they didn't live so far away, I'm sure we'd have already seen them a bunch.