Roll 'em off or let 'em stay?

[Chris&Amelia]

Okay, hypothetical situation here.

"You and your playmate want to have another go at it. Your spouses are already asleep and snoring. Would it be rude to roll them off the bed to make room for an interesting new position?"

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[ownerspet]

I know when people are in the heat of the moment, much goes through the brain.

But this reminds me of a month ago when I was sick, and my wife called and canceled with a couple we were supposed to meet for lunch. The comment she received was, "Can you leave him at home and still meet us to play?" This in our opinion, was some what rude. My wife didn't go, because we have more respect for each other than that. I know you may be wondering what does this have to do with your situation.

However, it's like this (Even if you and your sposes have agreed to play separately):

You're talking about just rolling your spouses off the bed, in exchange for an experience with a playmate.

1. This may be perfectly ok with both your spouses. If it is great, go for it.

2. But what if it's not, you just picked an experience with your playmate, over the respect of your spouses. Keep in mind your spouses, if married, are the ones that you are in the commited relationship with. Even if pleaded ignorance because you and your spouse didn't talk about it ahead of time, I wouldn't want to be a fly on the wall in discussions that followed.

There are so many other fun places in a house (I'm assuming you're not in a hotel, because sure you wouldn't put your SO on the floor or some uncomfortable hotel couch). There are so many positions to choose from, so do some other positions, and wait til another time to try that one, if you can't find an available bed.

It's up to you to figure out if your sleeping spouses are ok with being rolled out of bed, removed from the bed, or if you want to call it, "kicked out of bed." If you think they are ok with it, go for it. If not, I would definitley re-think the situation (even in the heat of the moment.)

So it could go either way.

[fun4Ds]

I happen to know my wife gets pretty upset if I steal the blanket while she is asleep.

I'm pretty sure if I rolled her out of the bed, for any reason.

I would soon be meeting Willy Lump Lump

[BiloxiCouple]

Just try rolling me

[sc4play]

I could just vision rolling Lisa out of the bed...I would hope the garage is heated

[fun4Ds]

[quote=ownerspet;309865]

2.

But what if it's not, you just picked an experience with your playmate, over the respect of your spouses.

I had to follow this statement. The closest real experience I could come to is a time when the female of a couple and I were in this very tub. Mrs. fun and her husband were over there on the bed..

She had had a bit to much drink, And well, the warm relaxing tub, with too muck alcohol.... She passed right out on me .

I was like, uhhhh hey you guys, I need some help over here... The naked fireman's rescue carry is kind of embarrassing to say the least. I Plopped her on the bed and she said something about needing French Fries

Ill be honest Me, Mrs.fun and the other gentleman, all looked at each other like.... Well.... should the 3 of us carry on.... come on now, 2 stiff dicks and one, (not so drunk) horny wife, the thought did enter our minds.

Naaaaaa, I don't drink while playing. We got dressed and went to the kitchen table. It was time to have some drinks ourselves, (Me included). We talked a while and agreed it was the Hot Tub that does cause one to drift off. Even if not drinking. We actually gave them the bed and we slept on the couch.

[sweet_tna]

I'm gonna' go out on a limb here and suggest another scenario . . . perhaps the OP is having a little fun with us here.

For the record, *if* I knew both sleeping spouses would be okay with my play partner and I continuing without them, I'd find another spot to play. Otherwise, I'm calling it a night and curling up with Mr. Sweet.


Btw, how does one become a member of the Pocnoo Swinger's Alliance?

=)

[sexcupid]

OP,

Of all the choices....I'll take number 3.

For your hypothetical to be vaild...we would first have to find a couple whose male would be able to last as long on the first round as my SO (for the record, we've yet to find one)...and the other female still wanted to play again after round 1?

I see that in one of 2 ways...say we're at a house party and we've planned to stay the night...if he doesn't want to go to sleep yet and I do...then on one hand I would prefer him to come to bed with me so we can chat a bit and cuddle up. The exception to that would be if he's in the middle of playing, I don't expect him to stop...just to come find me when he's done.

The scenario you present, me being rolled out of bed or being awaked by them fucking beside me...I would not be happy with either one of those. I can't even imagine how that would play out...if I was actually shoved out of bed (to hopefully land on a pile of blankets/pillows instead of a hard floor), I would be pissed. Why? Because to me that's just rude...you want to fuck again that badly...then YOU take the floor.

But, I don't know that I wouldn't be a bit upset by being awoken by the noise of the next round. If as a group we are all under the impression that playtime is over and that's why I and the other man are already asleep, and then the other two want to carry on, again I would be pissed. Partly because I would feel like I was deceived (like a teenager waiting for a parent to go to sleep before they try to sneak out of the house)...AND because, I don't like to be woken up in the middle of the night. I am cranky like that. Both of those would apply to either being awakened by them fucking beside me on the bed or elsewhere in the same room. Say we're at a house where they could go to another room...I probably wouldn't be happy about basically having to track Jeff down to figure out why he wasn't in bed with me (after waiting a suitable amount of time to rule out a bathroom/needing a drink of water run).

Once we're in bed for the night, I don't sleep well if he gets up again...but he does suffer from insomnia, so if I went to look for him I probably wouldn't be thinking 'he better not be fucking again!' but 'I want to go see if he's ok'.

Sorry...that was a pretty long reply.

[warkman]

Originally Posted by sweet_tna

*if* I knew both sleeping spouses would be okay with my play partner and I continuing without them, I'd find another spot to play.=)

This to me seems the most polite and respectful way to handle the situation. Or as Sweet TNA opines, we may be taking the o.p. a little too seriously.

[Chris&Amelia]

Originally Posted by sweet_tna

I'm gonna' go out on a limb here and suggest another scenario . . . perhaps the OP is having a little fun with us here.

Now, whatever gave you that idea?

But, for the record, Mrs. Sweet is indeed right. I wasn't really serious. This thread was brought on by a combination of goofiness by lack of sleep and a dare.

But I do find the responses very interesting. But, yeah, I was goofing around.

Originally Posted by sweet_tna

Btw, how does one become a member of the Pocnoo Swinger's Alliance?

=)

I believe the going rate is $29.95. With that, you get a pin, and autographed photo, and a yearly subscription to the newsletter.

[lustylearning]

Originally Posted by Chris&Amelia

But, for the record, Mrs. Sweet is indeed right. I wasn't really serious. This thread was brought on by a combination of goofiness by lack of sleep and a dare.

Good one Made me laugh.

[Mr. Sweet]

Originally Posted by Chris&Amelia

Now, whatever gave you that idea?

But, for the record, Mrs. Sweet is indeed right. I wasn't really serious. This thread was brought on by a combination of goofiness by lack of sleep and a dare.

But I do find the responses very interesting. But, yeah, I was goofing around.



I believe the going rate is $29.95. With that, you get a pin, and autographed photo, and a yearly subscription to the newsletter.

As long as it made Amelia laugh....that seems to be the clincher.

But let me state for record...there are a lot things I'd let Mrs. Sweet do to me while I'm sleeping, but rolling me off the bed just isn't one of them!

Mr. Sweet

[sweet_tna]

Originally Posted by Chris&Amelia

Now, whatever gave you that idea?

But, for the record, Mrs. Sweet is indeed right. I wasn't really serious. This thread was brought on by a combination of goofiness by lack of sleep and a dare.

But I do find the responses very interesting. But, yeah, I was goofing around.



I believe the going rate is $29.95. With that, you get a pin, and autographed photo, and a yearly subscription to the newsletter.

1) I recommend getting a solid 8 hours of sleep every night. It really boosts your brain power.

2) What does the pin say, and whose autograph am I getting?

3) To what address would I mail the check?

=)

[cubnamy1995]

Hell, I roll Amy out of the bed when she tries to snuggle too much. I guess that would explain the skillet imprint on my head.

[WillieWonders]

yep, I say let them say and work around/with them! Give them some coffee and some sugar, that'll wake 'em up. Here we go again!