Question for the guys who like MFM situations

[Scott & JoAnn]

Ok, so we just had our 1st MFM at a swinger's party that had some single males available.

I was completely turned on by the activities and had no desire to have a female join us. I find that I really have no desire to include a woman with us at this point. It is just such a turn-on for me to have another man and myself satisfying my wife.

Watching her completely let herself go and enjoy herself, albeit with another man's cock, is a huge turn on for me.

What says all of you? Do you wish it was MFMF or are there those like me that prefer to keep it MFM?

Scott

[willyoats]

Scott, you are certainly not alone in finding the MFM with your wife is a great experience. Some shrink probably has a theory about why this is such a turn-on. Who cares? It is!!

For us, over the years, we had about 40% MFM or MFMM, 40% MFMF same room and 20%MFMF separate rooms with a tiny percent with one of us on separate dates while the other was out of town.

I am equally satisfied with each possibility, but with rare exceptions the MFM the most fun.

[Qdog]

I prefer MFM with my wife as well. Big turn on for me to watch her being pleased and then pleasing her some more after he's done. I personally like mixing my cum with his after hes cum in my wife. I love the feel but I have no intention of eating a creampie, just not my cup of tea I guess. But the mixing of my cum and his cum is intoxicating and the wife loves it as well.

We don't go bareback btw without knowing the guy extremely well first I might add.

[SWPME67]

There is something about a MFM 3some that will always do it for me more than any other situation. I'm straight so the presence of another guy doesn't bother me at all....but the very thought of one woman being pleased by two men is highly stimulating for me. In a way, its almost more intimate and more erotic than other multiple partner experience one can have because she is the absolute CENTER of attention of both men while they share her together. Seems like the perfect number and to know and see a woman enjoying herself in this way is the ultimate for me.

[joaninla]

Both my husband and I find an MFM to be the most exciting sexual activity. Love em!

[Sico_tiko]

I think MFM is more exciting although MFMF is great

[deanncat]

wow, its interesting to hear how you guys feel about MFM, I have been reading these blogs alot and my husband and I talk about MFM and trying this and it sounds like fun but I always not sure what the turn on is for him, even though he says it would be a turn on, now reading this makes me want to try it, thanks for the vote of confidence

[NakedInSeattle]

Here's a story that expresses my feelings about the MFM play. http://www.literotica.com/stories/sh....php?id=352054

I couldn't put it any better.

[Spoomonkey]

I like them, but I don't prefer them.

There is a real thrill to seeing Mrs Spoo enjoyed and enjoying. On the other hand, I really enjoy playing with someone myself. But I really think of them as separate experiences. The "thrill" is different.

I certainly understand the fun in the MFM and know that quite a few couples prefer those to any other type of play - even to the point of being exclusively interested. That just falls under the whole "the lifestyle is what you make it" concept.

If that is what works for the two of you - and what drives the two of you - go for it. At the end of the day, if you two had fun and have good memeories to share together then what more could you possibly want?

Spoomonkey

PS - I can't help but laugh when single men say they prefer MFMs... I mean - really? I know, I know - that may not be the limit of your experience, but it just made me laugh. At face value, it is pretty funny if you think about it.

[NumbskullsX2]

Originally Posted by Scott & JoAnn

Ok, so we just had our 1st MFM at a swinger's party that had some single males available.

I was completely turned on by the activities and had no desire to have a female join us. I find that I really have no desire to include a woman with us at this point. It is just such a turn-on for me to have another man and myself satisfying my wife.

Watching her completely let herself go and enjoy herself, albeit with another man's cock, is a huge turn on for me.

What says all of you? Do you wish it was MFMF or are there those like me that prefer to keep it MFM?

Sorry, I don't care for MMF (which is really what your describing, and what happens most often with couples who are in to single males). I have no interest in another man's cock, in what he does with it, or in watching him do it. I don't want to see his cock, or have him staring at mine. (I get nervous in restrooms) I don't need to fantasize that I'm in his place (because I could be if I wanted to be) or her place (I could be doing her job too, if I were into that stuff). If I'm just going to be "watching" some other guy get his knob polished courtesy of my wife I might as well stay home, watch some old Georgina Spelvin porn, and rub my own. (did you know she'll be 72 this year?)

On a scale of 1 to 10, watching my wife have sex with another man is a 2 or a 3, but watching her while I'm getting a blow job from the other guys wife is a 7 or 8, even if she's doing it wrong. No matter whether being with a single makes the glass "half full" or "half empty", it's still HALF, as far as I'm concerned, and I won't settle for "half" of ANYTHING, except maybe an ass-beating.

(at most clubs, your really settling for "1/4" because the single guys who hang out there are only about half-way presentable to begin with)

We will have an occasional MFM because thats just how things work out in real life with couples sometimes. But wasting an evening with "just" a guy when we could be with a couple would be like loading every other round into my pistol with blanks or disconnecting the left channels of our home theater system. Maybe someday one of us will lose interest in sex or turn bi-, but for now, when one of us is ready for a night out with friends, the other one is too.

That's me, of course. YMMV