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| Registered Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 3 Location: Canada Status: Couple
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Hello all. Mr. F. here. I have been passively reading the threads for several months now but here's a question I haven't seen answered. Has anyone ever actually tried the "husband in the closet" scenario? - eg. Having your wife/gf bring an unsuspecting playmate back to a room and be close by while they shag it out? NB. Despite the title, I don't expect anyone actually hid within an actual closet (could be in the next room). But you get my drift. Before I get the spiel about transparency from single men, allow me to give a bit of background. My wife and I have had a conversation about the Lifestyle for about the past 5 years. Last summer we visited a club, met a couple and played on occasion. We both agree the club was a good experience all around and we plan on repeating it in the future. We know we can find playmates there, including single men, but this is about something different. Lately we discussed how some vanilla guys sometimes hit on her, particularly at dance events. NB. She dances - as in 'swing dancing' and 'ballroom dancing' - and sometimes the chemistry with her dance partners makes her pretty hot. So she has entertained the thought of taking things further someday. Here's an opportunity: we are going out of town for a dance event later this year; a friend is lending us his 2-bedroom apartment; and we thought... well... how about I stick around there while she goes out dancing, picks up a flirt (hopefully), brings him home (hopefully x 2), shags him and sends him on his way? (I'll play the platonic 'best friend' if I even come out of my room) - We're not sure yet whether she would declare herself married & open to a one-night stand or just leave her wedding band at home. (I suppose some of you will tell us to stay transparent to avoid drama). - The fun here is not just in the playing, but in the flirt, mystery and overall thrill of seducing a vanilla guy to bed (for her) and to be privy to it (for me). Don't get me wrong: we enjoyed the directness, no-frills play style of the people at the club and enjoyed decent sex out of it. But lately we basically found ourselves as excited (if not more) with the seduction part of it. And obviously, I get tremendously turned-on by the idea of my wife enjoying herself with another man (we tried it with the other couple I mentioned). Bottom question: has any couple out there made some attempt to fulfill some "husband in the closet" scenario? How did that go? Big thanks to all. |
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| insert witty banter here Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,190 Location: Virginia Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:havefuninsun
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Haven't played out this scenario, but it sounds pretty dang hot to me! I love role-playing |
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| Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 6,489 Location: Behind door #2 Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:mrmrsfun
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I dont know. The single guys we know would be pissed if we snuck something like this in on them. Im quite sure the would not appericiate the surprise of a sneez from the closet, or another room.
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| Better than Ice Cream Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 6,660 Location: va Status: Couple. He posts, She reads
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| Interracial Swingers Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 749 Location: Denver, CO Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Greg69Sheryl
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This scenario would never work for us because Greg would rather be in the room taking pictures! Seriously, the fantasy you suggest is more of a hotwife fantasy than a conventional swinger fantasy. While hotwives can certainly be classified as swingers, the hotwife lifestyle is quite unique. The participants on this board tend to be swap-oriented couples, which is why so don't see the hotwife topic discussed here very often. If you Google the term "hotwife," you'll find a lot of information regarding that lifestyle. Your fantasy is much more common than you might think! |
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| ~This space for rent~ Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 4,750 Location: across the tracks Status: Couple
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Hmmmmmmmm... Like Greg and Sheryl, I'd rather have Dave inside the bedroom taking pictures. I've read fictional stories about men hiding in the closet while their wives were entertaining, and it sounds hot, but, I'd still rather have him taking pictures or participating. Holly |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 151 Location: Raleigh, NC Status: Hot couple, deeply in love
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We've done it a few times. First time was accidental, only a few months after we started swinging. One summer Saturday night, we were in Wilmington NC at a small motel. Lots of weekend fishermen on weekend-with-the-boys outings. I suggested she pick up a guy in the parking lot, take him to the room, and screw his brains out. L was instantly hot at the idea. L strolled the parking lot, ice bucket in hand, letting the guys size her up, while I sat in the car across the parking lot and tried to look inconspicuous. She started talking / flirting with two guys who leaned on a boat drinking beer. After a few minutes, one walked away, and she led the other back to our room. In they went, and the door closed. I sat in the dark car across the parking lot, breathing heavy, wondering what was going on. Knowing it was something sexual, but what exactly? About 15 minutes later, the door opened. From where I sat, I could see L naked in the dark room behind him as he left. I wanted to run across the parking lot right away, but waited until he walked back and entered his room. THEN I ran across the parking lot and knocked on the door. L opened the door, saying "That was quick." She was still naked and the dark motel room smelled heavily of excitement -- hers, his, and mine -- and sex. Then she clasped her hand to her mouth and said, "I thought it was the other guy" I stepped inside, kissed her, closed the door, laughed and said, you figured he was coming back for more? She said, "No, before he left, he asked if it was OK to send his buddy down here for some." Just then, a knock on our door. The buddy had, in fact, come down for some of L's excellent pussy. We both started. I leaped across the room, into the bathroom, stepped in the tub, and pulled the shower curtain closed. I heard voices, and knew L had let the buddy into the room. While I couldn't make out the exact words, I could tell from the tone that he was excited being alone in the motel room with my beautiful, sexy -- and naked -- lady. I breathed a sigh of relief knowing it was gonna happen despite my mis-step in returning too soon. Just then, the shower curtain was yanked back about halfway ... on the other end of the tub! I was still hidden! He was right there. I heard him start pissing and say to L something about getting rid of some beer first. This sounds like something out of a movie, but I nearly had a heart attack. Fortunately, the buddy was more interested in fucking L than in seeing if anything was behind the rest of the shower curtain. Why he'd initially yanked it halfway we'll never know. My heart was still pounding bass-drum loud. I knew L would waste no time getting the guy in bed with her. As I thought about that, knowing I could listen, my breathing got so heavy that, with the echo in the tiny tiled motel bathroom, I thought it sounded like Darth Vader. The air conditioner in the main room made so much noise, though, they never heard me. The downside of that was that I could barely hear them having sex. Considering how hot it is to hear L getting fucked, I didn't want to miss out, so I stepped down the tub to where the playmate had (thoughtfully) opened the shower curtain, stepped out of the tub, knelt on the floor, crept around the corner, and peeked at the bed. Enough light bled into the room around the closed curtains that I could see them on the bed, him on top of her, humping for all he was worth. And even over the air conditioner, I could hear L getting it. YES! Incredibly hot! L was super turned on, as she always is when she gets fucked after she's already been fucked. Since this was the second guy in less than 30 minutes, she came hard. That put him over the edge, too, and he came inside her. Even in the near-dark, I could almost see her quake with aftershocks. Just then I realized that -- holy cow! -- the guy would be climbing off her in a moment, and there I was on my hands and knees halfway between the bathroom and the bed! I backtracked at record speed -- fortunately not bumping into anything or making a large noise (except in my own ears) -- stood, and stepped as lightly as I could back in the tub and behind the shower curtain. Heart pounding again, from a mix of sexual excitement and fear of getting caught. The guy, though, was one of those who wants to talk after screwing. I couldn't hear the words, but I heard his voice, then L's, then his, etc. Probably only lasted 15 minutes, but seemed to be hours. By then, *I* had to pee! Finally, L got him dressed and out the door. She came to the bathroom, laughing, to tell me the coast was clear. I stepped out of the tub and kissed her. We both jumped when someone knocked at the door. Back in the tub I went; L opened the door. The guy had forgotten his fishing cap and came back for it. He wanted to talk more, but L got him out the door as graciously as possible. L and I hopped on the bed and tore each other up, like we always do after her adventures, but the whole time, we feared another knock on the door. All in all, another excellent adventure. We've had scores more since then. But that was the one where we learned that me listening without the guy's knowledge could be pretty hot for both of us. So we've done it various ways since then. I love hearing L getting it on. And knowing I'm listening to her, gets L turned on all the more. The unsuspecting guy benefits from getting an even hotter fuck, and L and I benefit from getting to share our adventure in a special, intimate way. Then we tear each other up ;-) |
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| Has Left the Building Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 37 Location: Surrey B.C. Canada Status: Single Male
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That's bloody H-O-T!!!!!! I'd love to try such a scenario. But I'm a pervert. *L* The eavesdropping husband comes out of hiding to find his married lady in missionary position, on her back, her knees hiked up to her breasts & a pillow under her hips with an evil smile.
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| Registered Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 3 Location: Canada Status: Couple
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I never took the time to thank you all for your kind replies. I have read them all and appreciate the time you've taken to answer/comment. Indeed I have found several good blogs and a forum on the hotwife topic using Google. - I'll keep reading and will see you later.
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 623 Location: OBX-NC
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Even if I was the guy and knew the husband was listening.... Really H-O-T !! | |
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| The Neighborhood PC Tech Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 166 Location: Lake Worth Florida Status: Fun Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:FlaPlaya561
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I went to a strip club to see Kathy Willets after that scenario, and the sheriff's dept showed up and closed the place LOL I was out $20 bucks and didnt even get to see a tittie LOL
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| Venerated male slut Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 146 Location: Ontario Canada Status: Single Male (Widower) Swing Lifestyle Name:strathmore
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I have been the 'other guy' in a couple of such scenarios. Great Massage Fantasy I was approached recently by a couple to help fulfill a fantasy. He wanted to see his wife stripped down and massaged by a stranger while he voyeured from the hall. Having received compliments about my sensual massage techniques in the past, I ageed with the proviso that I get to voyeur the two of them completing the session. We emailed back and forth re the scenario and then met at their place. It went as we had discussed and was real hot for all. I even got a little unanticipated bonus at the end. Three very happy people.That's what it's all about. Keep Wife Happy I had a situation a few months ago, where I was invited by a MF couple about 50 years of age, and on arrival was sent to a private room with the female. Apparently, she really enjoyed the company of other men and her man wanted her to have this fulfillment. He was working in his office next door. We got a bit vocal a couple of times and I'm sure this was titillating for the hubby. Everyone seemed very happy with it. We have discussed a second encounter. |
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