would you Enjoy it as much?

***JustAskJulie*** · 01-28-2008, 06:21 PM

Reading this thread and some of the comments from people I have to wonder, would we enjoy swinging as much if it were out in the open? If everyone knew about our "dirty little secret" would it take some of the fun out of it?

Ed & Bunny · 01-28-2008, 06:44 PM

For me it wouldnt make a difference. I do it because I enjoy it, not because of any taboo factor. The only thing that would change if the general pulic accepted swinging, is playmates would be easier to find.

**cplnuswing** · 01-28-2008, 06:50 PM

It probably would take some out of it for us. Human nature I guess, we're wanting the best of both worlds. We want it to be illicit enough to give it that extra fun and excitement feeling one gets doing something "naughty", but not so illicit that our opportunity to do it in the manner we enjoy is totally taken away.

prettylady · 01-28-2008, 07:14 PM

I think it might take away some of the fun. I kinda like being flirty, making a smart ass comment that only a swinger might pick up on.
But boy would it ease some of the stress. Being a parent with kids and an ex always looking for a way to tarnish me and take the kids, it would be so much better to tell him he can take his nose and stick it else where.
But I do love the "dirty little secret" part.

Your friend,
Prettylady

havefuninsun · 01-28-2008, 07:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cplnuswing

It probably would take some out of it for us. Human nature I guess, we're wanting the best of both worlds. We want it to be illicit enough to give it that extra fun and excitement feeling one gets doing something "naughty", but not so illicit that our opportunity to do it in the manner we enjoy is totally taken away.

What they said.

Spoomonkey · 01-28-2008, 07:18 PM

I enjoy the "taboo"...

But on the other hand, sometimes I wish I didn't have to go to work and "make up" a story about what we did over the weekend.

But if I really were to answer your question I'd have to go with "no, I would not enjoy it as much." It is the one "bad thing" I do

My other hobbies I just do badly...

Spoomonkey

**two4youinswva** · 01-28-2008, 07:47 PM

I have to admit. We like being a part of the super secret cool people club.

It would take away a small part of the enjoyment.

tribbles · 01-28-2008, 08:21 PM

We'd like it just as much.

**good times** · 01-28-2008, 08:56 PM

I'll have to admit, I am not one of those people that would like the lifestyle to be accepted by the vanilla world more than it already is. Like Spoo and a few others have said, it is the one naughty thing I do, which ads to the fun for me. So, yes, I think it would take some of the fun out of it.

Ellyanne77 · 01-29-2008, 12:32 AM

It is the one thing we have all to our own within our circle of friends. We like the way our friends wonder what the hell we are giggling about all the time.

redgirlwithfrec · 01-29-2008, 04:44 AM

There are definately two sides to that coin on the one hand we do like the naughtiness of it which keeps it exciting. But on the other, and this is the only aspect we dont like is the lying. Where are you going tonight what are you doing this weekend. If our kids were older it wouldnt be so much of an issue but..... This is not just from the sitters either, it is friends, family, and coworkers.

**fun4Ds** · 01-29-2008, 05:23 AM

WE think the way things are now has worked out great. Its not so much that we have to lie to our kids being that they are grown up now. We just say we wont be home for the weekend so can you stop by and check on things. They do know of our interests in the lifestyle, but its not a big deal. We all have a respected privacy in our own homes. WE all would give a call first before stopping by after 9:00 PM.

We don't feel that in our lifetime Swinging will ever be accepted in the world of relationships. So we will always have our naughty side of life

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Trace Ekies · 01-29-2008, 07:02 AM

For us, yes. The lifestyle is about fun and friends for us and it being common knowledge to "vanillas" would not dull the edge for us.

Some drama may ensue after the initial "outing" but I don't think this is what you're referring to in this particular thread.

Let me know how wrong I am.

Trace

cubnamy1995 · 01-29-2008, 09:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by two4youinswva

I have to admit. We like being a part of the super secret cool people club.

It would take away a small part of the enjoyment.

Greg & Sheryl · 01-29-2008, 11:39 AM

We would enjoy it just as much. For us, swinging is just another recreational activity we enjoy, like camping and cycling.

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01-28-2008, 06:21 PM	#1 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,307 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	would you Enjoy it as much? Reading this thread and some of the comments from people I have to wonder, would we enjoy swinging as much if it were out in the open? If everyone knew about our "dirty little secret" would it take some of the fun out of it? __________________ Julie Owner/ Admin http://www.swingersboard.com

01-28-2008, 06:44 PM	#2 (permalink)
Ed & Bunny Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 156 Location: Southern Mi or Mesa AZ Status: couple SLS Name:BunnyandEd	Re: would you Enjoy it as much? For me it wouldnt make a difference. I do it because I enjoy it, not because of any taboo factor. The only thing that would change if the general pulic accepted swinging, is playmates would be easier to find.

01-28-2008, 06:50 PM	#3 (permalink)
cplnuswing Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 599 Location: Georgia Status: couple SLS Name:gawildstreak	Re: would you Enjoy it as much? It probably would take some out of it for us. Human nature I guess, we're wanting the best of both worlds. We want it to be illicit enough to give it that extra fun and excitement feeling one gets doing something "naughty", but not so illicit that our opportunity to do it in the manner we enjoy is totally taken away.

01-28-2008, 07:14 PM	#4 (permalink)
prettylady anything boys can do.... Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 1,751 Location: Utopia Status: Trouble maker SLS Name:playtoys69 Blog Entries: 1	Re: would you Enjoy it as much? I think it might take away some of the fun. I kinda like being flirty, making a smart ass comment that only a swinger might pick up on. But boy would it ease some of the stress. Being a parent with kids and an ex always looking for a way to tarnish me and take the kids, it would be so much better to tell him he can take his nose and stick it else where. But I do love the "dirty little secret" part. Your friend, Prettylady __________________ To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.

01-28-2008, 07:18 PM	#6 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,563 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? SLS Name:Spoomonkey	Re: would you Enjoy it as much? I enjoy the "taboo"... But on the other hand, sometimes I wish I didn't have to go to work and "make up" a story about what we did over the weekend. But if I really were to answer your question I'd have to go with "no, I would not enjoy it as much." It is the one "bad thing" I do My other hobbies I just do badly... Spoomonkey __________________ "Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." - C. S. Lewis

01-28-2008, 07:47 PM	#7 (permalink)
two4youinswva Better than Ice Cream Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 2,276 Location: va Status: Couple. He posts, She reads Blog Entries: 1	Re: would you Enjoy it as much? I have to admit. We like being a part of the super secret cool people club. It would take away a small part of the enjoyment.

01-28-2008, 08:21 PM	#8 (permalink)
tribbles Fun and Pleasure Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 860 Location: SouthWest Status: Couple	Re: would you Enjoy it as much? We'd like it just as much. __________________ Evel Knievel died of natural causes.

01-28-2008, 08:56 PM	#9 (permalink)
good times Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,420 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times SLS Name:randp	Re: would you Enjoy it as much? I'll have to admit, I am not one of those people that would like the lifestyle to be accepted by the vanilla world more than it already is. Like Spoo and a few others have said, it is the one naughty thing I do, which ads to the fun for me. So, yes, I think it would take some of the fun out of it. __________________ R (He is R, she is P)

01-29-2008, 12:32 AM	#10 (permalink)
Ellyanne77 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 137 Location: TN Status: Couple SLS Name:ellyanne77 Blog Entries: 3	Re: would you Enjoy it as much? It is the one thing we have all to our own within our circle of friends. We like the way our friends wonder what the hell we are giggling about all the time.

01-29-2008, 04:44 AM	#11 (permalink)
redgirlwithfrec Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 101 Location: NE PA Status: Couple SLS Name:redgirlwithfreckles	Re: would you Enjoy it as much? There are definately two sides to that coin on the one hand we do like the naughtiness of it which keeps it exciting. But on the other, and this is the only aspect we dont like is the lying. Where are you going tonight what are you doing this weekend. If our kids were older it wouldnt be so much of an issue but..... This is not just from the sitters either, it is friends, family, and coworkers.

01-29-2008, 05:23 AM	#12 (permalink)
fun4Ds Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 2,968 Location: Indiana. Status: couple SLS Name:mrmrsfun Blog Entries: 15	Re: would you Enjoy it as much? WE think the way things are now has worked out great. Its not so much that we have to lie to our kids being that they are grown up now. We just say we wont be home for the weekend so can you stop by and check on things. They do know of our interests in the lifestyle, but its not a big deal. We all have a respected privacy in our own homes. WE all would give a call first before stopping by after 9:00 PM. We don't feel that in our lifetime Swinging will ever be accepted in the world of relationships. So we will always have our naughty side of life. __________________ well... at least we are normal pervs

01-29-2008, 07:02 AM	#13 (permalink)
Trace Ekies Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 138 Location: Central Florida Status: Couple	Re: would you Enjoy it as much? For us, yes. The lifestyle is about fun and friends for us and it being common knowledge to "vanillas" would not dull the edge for us. Some drama may ensue after the initial "outing" but I don't think this is what you're referring to in this particular thread. Let me know how wrong I am. Trace

01-29-2008, 11:39 AM	#15 (permalink)
Greg & Sheryl Blogging Swingers Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 722 Location: Denver, CO Status: Couple	Re: would you Enjoy it as much? We would enjoy it just as much. For us, swinging is just another recreational activity we enjoy, like camping and cycling. __________________ Greg & Sheryl

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