Friend Sex

[longtermcouple]

My wife lost her job a year ago. On her last day a co-worker told her that being they would not be working together ever that he needed to tell her that she had been his fantasy for a long time! and.. that he thinks about her alot and his wife would be going on a one day trip next week and he would love to get together with her.

We have been in and out of the lifestyle over 20 years but after my wife told me about this I really got hot and horny for her and we had wild sex immediately. The fantasy of another man wanting her that is married was exciting even though it was no longer a co-worker.

For over 6 months we had wild sex talking and sharing the fantasy of him and my wife having sex behind our backs. I would know but his wife would not. Finally it happened for the two of them and it has happened now 5 times since. Each time my wife dressing up with hot lingerie,nylons, etc and going over to his house while his wife was at work or on a trip out of town. When she comes home I am waiting in bed to share everything about what they did: the kissing, oral sex, etc.

Sharing my wife with a married co-worker has really enhanced our marriage and our sex lives for the two of us. I'm so happy and my wife is also happy. We are both looking forward to the next time. Love is about sharing each other and sharing the experience.

A 35 year happily married couple!

[JP51]

cheating is cheating...and the other wife will view it as such...

[lovefest04]

Troll

[havefuninsun]

Not so sure this is a troll. I understand the whole seduction thing, the whole turn-on because it's naughty thing. But friend, this is real life and there is a real live person who is not privy to any of this. God help you, your wife, and her husband when (yes, when) this blows up in your faces.

Put yourself in the wife's shoes. It feels hurtful, doesn't it? Find some fun friends or a single guy to play out these fantasies ... your hot sex will still be hot sex, and no one needs to get hurt.

[VegasLee]

Put the shoe on the other foot for a minute and think about something.

If you and your wife where not Swingers and she was meeting up with guys when you were at work or out of town how would you feel about it?

Are the cheap thrills worth the chance of a family crashing when found out?

Swingers normally have RESPECT of marriages.

[LFM2]

I have to agree with VegasLee and havefuninsun regarding this post.

I understand the giddiness and excitement that you two probably feel, but that doesn't make the situation right. Have some empathy with the other wife. She has no idea that her husband is arranging these trysts with your wife and believe me, she WILL find out. When that happens, I'm guessing it won't be pretty.

Being in the lifestyle, we have great respect for marriages. Ours as well as others.

[rpu3]

I don't know how one could call themselves a friend when cheating, condoning cheating or outright participating in the cheating.

It's just too darn easy to find people willing to help you live out your fantasy who aren't deceiving others in the process. I just don't get why you'd want to participate in the deception yourselves and potentially harm innocent people in the process. It's just disrespectful to everyone, actually. Hope it was all worth it for you guys.

[sweet_tna]

So this guy that your wife is FREINDS with is cheating on his wife with her? Never mind that you and your wife are okay with it. The other guys' wife neither knows or consents to these rendezvous. That to me, equals CHEATING.

With friends like you guys, who needs enemies?

[cpl2doitwithu]

If he is doing this with your wife, who else does he cheat on his wife with???

I bet he would not be happy if he found out that his wife was not on business trips and had something of her own going on.

[JP51]

Originally Posted by lovefest04

Troll

Not likely you should bother to read other post prior to applying labels to people.

As others have said and I still stand by my words... cheating is cheating, if everyone involved is not informed and given permission... swingers don't cheat...

[darknight2]

Longtermcouple:

Also from MN. Twin cites. Email me: ames_bm@yahoo

[havefuninsun]

Originally Posted by JP51

Not likely you should bother to read other post prior to applying labels to people.

As others have said and I still stand by my words... cheating is cheating, if everyone involved is not informed and given permission... swingers don't cheat...

I think the troll comment was for the OP ... and you're advice is right on the money!

[prettylady]

Originally Posted by darknight2

Longtermcouple:

Also from MN. Twin cites. Email me: ames_bm@yahoo

There you go a single male.
That way the only person getting hurt by sneaking around would be you.
Your friend, (had a hard time typing that, but promised I would never leave it out again.)
Prettylady

[longtermcouple]

My wife loves the idea of cheating with another man and his wife not knowing. I also like the idea of her having sex with a married man and coming home to share the sex and how it felt and the hot oral and penetration they did with each other. She is going to meet him again on Valentines Day and I am picking out the lingerie and stay up stockings for her to wear. I will be waiting at home in bed for wild sex after her return.

I know it's wrong but it makes me want her 24/7 since they started having sex in Nov 2006. We both have no regrets only big time lust for each other now.

My wife also likes me being horny for her 24/7 and she likes the idea of the other married man's lust and horniness for her each time when they do it at his house while she is working.

[Trace Ekies]

Lovefest04....I think "Troll" is an understatement.

Next he will try to explain how we as swingers who have sex with other people with the consent of our spouses are somehow the same as him. It should be interesting.

Before you start trashing me remember the operative word hear is "consent". CONSENT!! Look it up. And be damn sure all parties to the party have been given the opportunity to consent.

Trace