The Top WRONG Reasons to Swing

[slevin]

Originally Posted by ktimephoenix

i'll probably be boo'd off the boards, but girl on girl is about the least exciting thing about swinging.

Not at all; I love watching two women passionately going at it, but it's only fun to watch when I know I can jump in and join them. If it's only watching then it's definitely far down the list of exciting things for me.

[jdavisauto]

I'm here to get back at my cheating wife.
I'm here to get back at my cheating husband.

[Edison Carter]

Quote:
Originally Posted by Edison Carter
Susan here with a real quote from a guy: "If my wife sees me having anal sex with you she'll see it's okay and not against god or anything." One of the few times I've actually been stunned to silence.

WildMiCouple
Did he say this in the middle of getting some ass from you


From EdisonCarter: Oh no. This was over a drink, which ended quite promptly.

[ktimephoenix]

ever since Mrs XXXXX has found out i had herpe's, our sex life has dwindled?

[WesternSwing]

Originally Posted by BiloxiCouple

I agree 100% with you if the spouse is being unselfish. If they are both in agreement with little or no reservations with both wanting to try this.

My point is (and I wasn't very clear originally) was that he wants her to do it so he can do it, with the emphasis on "he". Am I more clear? It's not for her but for him.

I kind of goes back to "1. How can I convince my wife to swing?"

I agree with you. I see a lot of questions on other forums along the lines of "My husband wants us to have a threesome with another woman and he'd just watch and not fuck her. Should I do this?"

This scenario seems to be the norm and the "unselfish husband" the exception to the rule. They are out there, but I think they are also the ones in existing open relationships of one type or another that can have sex with other women also.

[Chitowndk4u]

Originally Posted by slevin

Your wife refuses to give you blowjobs and you figure swinging is a good way to get some

I wouldn't say that's a good reason, but I am there. In four months it will be a whole years without one.

[nola40scpl]

Originally Posted by slevin

Not at all; I love watching two women passionately going at it, but it's only fun to watch when I know I can jump in and join them. If it's only watching then it's definitely far down the list of exciting things for me.

have to agree with ktime on this one. like i tell all my friends, 'it's only cool the first time.' besides, i don't care how macho a man thinks he is, if the ladies are into guys, he doesn't have enough penises to go around! SOMEBODY is going to feel left out! ;-)