Interracial Sex, taboo or natural.

[NumbskullsX2]

Originally Posted by sweet_tna

That's the only thing you've said that I agree with.

Tarry naught that you were lost at the first line, my child, for with age comes wisdom, and you are but a babe in these woods.

Do not fear the BWB, for it seeketh not to steal your women or enslave your men, only to promote peace, harmony, and total understanding and acceptance of the multi-function remote throughout the cosmos.

Go now.

[gk_and_ta]

My wife and I are a HMWC and got into swinging 5 years ago. The primary reason was so she could experience other men. She had a burning desire to be other men as I was the only partner she had ever been intimate with.

Since was extremely timid in the beginning. She laid there so quiet that I was sure she was in pain or feeling humilated. She never experienced anything close to an orgasm. I was so sad for her that I wanted us to stop swinging.

As a matter of fact, on one occasion after her white male partner came for the 2nd time and my wife had not even let out a small moan of pleasure, I actually tried to stop the swinging from continuing because I just couldn't see my wife being a cum receptacle for other men!

Well, we were going to call it quits when she told me that she wanted to have sex with a black male before stopping because watching a black man and a white woman in some of the porno tapes we wold view was a turn on for her.

Did things change when my wife had her first experience with a black male? First, my wife is as white and fair skinned as you can imagine. Her nipples are pink she is so fair skinned. Yet she had this one request. So I honored it.

Her first black lover was very well endowed. When he got naked both she and I thought he was going to rip her in half with his HUGE manhood!

Instead, he was passionate, experienced, and extremely talented at pleasuring women, even really tight, white women. She felt stretched and it was very tight. But my wife orgasmed more than a half dozen times that night!

Fast forward a few years and here we are in 2008. My wife will ONLY swing with very well endowed black men now. She has become extremely vocal, multi-orgasmic, very active in participating, and is VERY happy with her lifestyle choice.

She has decided to spend more time nurturing more of a monogamous relationship with her swing partners being exclusive to one partner until the time comes to move on to another partner where the monogamous relationship commences once again.

She tells me the gentleman she is with right now, I always am in the room with them, is the very best lover she has ever had. More importantly, she has developed a very strong emotional connection with him. Thay have been monogamous for over 3 years now. They use the word love quite often. They are open and honest about the fact that their sex has been elevated to love making. And they are proud of the passion and desire they share for each other.

Am I jealous? No! Has it affected our marriage? No! It has improved our sex life 1000% though! They f**k like wild animals in heat! That passion and lust has carried over into our bedroom. Was our sex boring before swinging? Yes! Is it boring now? No!

Am I afraid that my wife's love for her lover is coming at my expense? Absolutley not! This is the way she explains it to me...we have 3 children and even though each one is entirely different, she loves them each unequivocally. Plus, she loves her siblings, her parents, my parents and my siblings.

To love one additional person will not come at the xpense of anyone else receiving any less love. As a matter of fact, our marriage, friendship, sex, lust, passion and love for each other has never been better! Her friendship, sex, lust, passion, and love for her lover has never been better either!

She sees her lover, in our home, in our bed, with me present at least once every 2 weeks with goal of always trying to be together at least once per week. That fits perfectly into our schedule because we try to be intimate at least a couple times a week, and when the time, children, job pressures, etc. allow, even more frequently than that.

I wouldn't change anything. My wife becoming a "size queen" for black male lovers is the very BEST thing that has happened to our marriage, and we have been married almost 20 years!! We hope the next 20 are as good as the past 20 have been because we don't see any problems and only great things on the horizon!

And all this came from my quiet, shy, timid wife finally finding herself sexually and me, her husband, not being threatened by it, allowing her to explore her sexuality until she found what really pleased her. Now, a good marriage and good sexual relationship has turned into a great marriage and a great sexual relationship!

[Bama0468]

WoW !! While I have yet to experience another Race I would LOVE TOO! My wife has had that chance and loved it! Granted this is the land of the free and home of the Brave a club is still a PRIVATE or MEMBERS ONLY and they can dictate ( heh heh I said Dic) anywho, they can deny entry to anyone they choose, Much as the VFW limits who can join, while they allow other sinside they can lock it down should they choose, same with the DAV, AML etc.

[sinna]

The "taboo" factor is what enticed me to start with, but after having sex with several black men, i have resided to the fact that it is a preference

[SW_PA_Couple]

Originally Posted by VegasLee

People are people to us.

Bravo!

Some day, the entire world will feel this way about it.

[JDApopka]

D & I enjoy mfm only. D had her first blackk man a few years ago at my urging and we have found that it is very erotic and seemed to be more sexauly pleasing something about seeing the color contrast and she seems to have more pleasure.
At this point we perfer Black men but will still play with others as well

[sinna]

Our interracial experience has mostly involved mfm or gangbangs, First it was just because it was taboo but now it has become very natural for me to have sex with black men and women. I would tell anyone who has the fantasy to explore it, it has been awesome

[jdavisauto]

Hell it makes no difference to us. A pussy is a pussy and a dick is a dick. My lady half plays with black, asian and white. She don't like mexican not because of the race but because everyone that she played with so far was very rough and hurt her after they been told to take it easy with her (40% of her back is rods and pens), so no more mexicans. But as long as we all click together then it's a good chance that we get to play. I am a sucker for asian women, I just love asians and she loves black men.

[SecretAsianMan]

Heck... I have to think REALLY far back to remember the last chinese, or even less specific, asian-woman I was with... damn! I guess ALL of my relations and partners have been ... *gasp* ... inter-racial for nearly two decades now.

(*laughing*)

[Mr.Essex]

I've always been a bit "experimental", but I know that I woudn't have ever had sex with a white woman if I hadn't embraced the lifestyle. I grew up and became my father, how surprising is that?

[ourrockstarlife]

Lets just keep fucking until we are all the same color.....

DJ and I enjoy all bodies, but he really enjoys watching me with a black man. I saw it mentioned already, but he swears by the contrasting colors as well. He said that something about the two different skin tones is very erotic....and I agree. Darker skin is so beautiful.....we love it.

I do think the "taboo" of it is part of the allure of interracial swinging for some couples. For us, it is more about the aesthetics.

[magnum]

Originally Posted by SCcpl40

The one thing we enjoy about the lifestyle is the sexual freedom and variety it offers. To be with other couples from different backgrounds, and ages gives us a broad spectrum of the human race. We have been lucky enough to meet and become friends with just about every ethnic group and the rewards of knowing them intimately have given us a better understanding of ourselves.


What's odd, in different parts of this country being with certain ethnic groups seems to be taboo. What's your take?

I say it does not make a difference.

I personally have not seen or heard of this as being an issue, but then again, I only play with or party with people that are part of the interracial swing scene. In the non-swinging world, I also prefer to be around open minded people, as I am sure most of the folks on the board would agree.

There is plenty of prejudice in the world still, unfortunately. I try to put out a positive energy with the hopes of attracting other like minded positive good people, in the LS or not.