Losing my....

**TNT** · 11-13-2007, 07:30 PM

Clothes

As of this past weekend I have lost three different items of clothing, at three different places..well, not lost them I know where they are, they just got left behind

It seems to never fail when we go out to house parties or over to friend's houses for playtime I will always leave something behind. Part of the problem is that I always take something sexy to change into...that something sexy will get taken off in the most odd-ball place...the kitchen, by the pool, the garage, where ever, but never in the room where my play bag is at...by the time it's time to head home and I go back to the room that I originally changed into said sexy thing, to put back on my mom clothes, I've totally forgotten about taking off the sexy item or where it was I took it off

I can't be the only one who does this.

How many of you leave things behind when you've been on a play date? Either clothing, toys or some other item.

Teresa

avid · 11-13-2007, 08:28 PM

For me, it's jewellery. I always take off the jewellery I wore to the party when I'm ready to get into the hot tub or pool, but like you, the room I was in when I "took it all off" is seldom the room I'm in when I'm getting ready to go home.

Fortunately, the wonderful hosts of these events have made sure I get back my stuff!

mrs good times · 11-13-2007, 08:50 PM

I have the same problem as Avid. One time I actually left my glasses in a club playroom. Luckily, someone I knew at the club noticed I didn't have them on so I was able to retrieve them before we left.

I also left a watch and bracelet in a hotel room once and our playmates mailed them back to me. Nice people.

The only one that upset me was the guy that ate both of my earrings.

Yes, he was nibbling on my ears and actually ate my expensive stud earrings. Needless to say I don't think we will be playing again, that was one costly night out.

purpletiger · 11-13-2007, 08:54 PM

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Originally Posted by TNT

Clothes

As of this past weekend I have lost three different items of clothing, at three different places..well, not lost them I know where they are, they just got left behind

Teresa

Gives you a good reason to return the next weekend

sweet_tna · 11-13-2007, 08:59 PM

I haven't had that problem . . . yet. Hope you're able to recover your stuff, but look at it this way; if you're having so much fun you forgot it, it must've been a pretty good time.

=)

WesternSwing · 11-13-2007, 10:05 PM

Hmmm... I left a pair of shoes in a hotel room one time. Mrs. WS lost, but found her panties at a party this weekend... but it took a couple of hours.

Mr. WS

Ed & Bunny · 11-13-2007, 11:11 PM

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Originally Posted by mrs good times

The only one that upset me was the guy that ate both of my earrings.

Yes, he was nibbling on my ears and actually ate my expensive stud earrings. Needless to say I don't think we will be playing again, that was one costly night out.

What you should have done was call the cops. If he ate both of them it was NOT an accident. You were a victim of a very clever thief.

Ed & Bunny · 11-13-2007, 11:13 PM

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Originally Posted by purpletiger

Gives you a good reason to return the next weekend

Those were my thoughts exactly. Yesterday we left our dishes with leftovers in them for our hosts. We had had a fun enough time to make sure we had another reason to go see them again.

**two4youinswva** · 11-14-2007, 12:50 AM

When we got home and unpacked last weekend, we found a pair of panties that didn't belong to Mrs two4you.
Good times.

Otherwise, yes, we usually end up leaving something behind.
We believe losing an article of clothing usually equals a great weekend.

funcpl4life · 11-14-2007, 09:49 AM

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Originally Posted by mrs good times

The only one that upset me was the guy that ate both of my earrings.

Yes, he was nibbling on my ears and actually ate my expensive stud earrings. Needless to say I don't think we will be playing again, that was one costly night out.

Um, he didn't offer to pay? I'm sorry, if I damage, destroy, disappear somebody else's stuff, I offer to pay. No wonder you don't want to play with him again.

I think I'd probably say something like: I don't think you'll be wanting your earrings back... I'm sorry and the sentimental value can not be replaced. I've never been in a situation like this before. I'm not really comfortable with offering money, but I feel that I need to. I would gladly pay half or all of the replacement cost. Whichever would leave you with the best feeling about the event.

But that's just me.

Mr. FC4L

mrs good times · 11-14-2007, 04:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Ed & Bunny

What you should have done was call the cops. If he ate both of them it was NOT an accident. You were a victim of a very clever thief.

Well, I wouldn't call him clever. I probably wouldn't have noticed until I got home but he told me he did it.

Mslavale · 11-14-2007, 05:00 PM

a few years ago when my husband was in the military i had a fling with an army guy and ended up in his room in the barrack, later that night i left to return home but i left my purse there with all my stuff in it,
next morning i went to the city with my sister and realised i didn,t have my purse so i phone my husband and asked him to go to the barrack, to his room and asked the guy there for my purse....
it was so wrong,so right,so funny and so trilling i had to tell my sister about our lifestyle...
sorry....lol

ncmd_couple · 11-14-2007, 08:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Mslavale

a few years ago when my husband was in the military i had a fling with an army guy and ended up in his room in the barrack, later that night i left to return home but i left my purse there with all my stuff in it,
next morning i went to the city with my sister and realised i didn,t have my purse so i phone my husband and asked him to go to the barrack, to his room and asked the guy there for my purse....
it was so wrong,so right,so funny and so trilling i had to tell my sister about our lifestyle...
sorry....lol

That is funny as hell! How did things go with your sister?

S

Pepper & Drew · 11-14-2007, 08:58 PM

We've decided that we're going to have baskets or cubbies installed at our friends' house, so that whenever we find something of someone's, we can just put it in their basket. I'm currently missing one of my jackets, which has been at another friends' house since Halloween.

I've started, at least while it's early and I'm relatively lucid, putting everything in one pile. That way, I'm not finding my stuff stewn all over the house. Doesn't always work though....

Pepper

ShellyM · 11-14-2007, 09:03 PM

LOL, not yet. We were at a party though and I was teased mercilessly because my clothes were on the floor. Jay and I finished playing and I proclaimed (on wine in the middle of a full room, mind you) "don't let me forget my skirt, I paid full price for that shit" LOL, I'm a notorious sale shopper. For the rest of the evening everyone kept asking Jay if he had my skirt since I had after all paid full price for it.

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11-13-2007, 07:30 PM	#1 (permalink)
TNT Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 5,003 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:tblonde312	Losing my.... Clothes As of this past weekend I have lost three different items of clothing, at three different places..well, not lost them I know where they are, they just got left behind It seems to never fail when we go out to house parties or over to friend's houses for playtime I will always leave something behind. Part of the problem is that I always take something sexy to change into...that something sexy will get taken off in the most odd-ball place...the kitchen, by the pool, the garage, where ever, but never in the room where my play bag is at...by the time it's time to head home and I go back to the room that I originally changed into said sexy thing, to put back on my mom clothes, I've totally forgotten about taking off the sexy item or where it was I took it off I can't be the only one who does this. How many of you leave things behind when you've been on a play date? Either clothing, toys or some other item. Teresa
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11-13-2007, 08:28 PM	#2 (permalink)
avid Open to the Universe Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 307 Location: Oshawa, ON Status: Female part of MFM triad	Re: Losing my.... For me, it's jewellery. I always take off the jewellery I wore to the party when I'm ready to get into the hot tub or pool, but like you, the room I was in when I "took it all off" is seldom the room I'm in when I'm getting ready to go home. Fortunately, the wonderful hosts of these events have made sure I get back my stuff!

11-13-2007, 08:50 PM	#3 (permalink)
mrs good times Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 1,217 Location: Reno, NV Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:randp	Re: Losing my.... I have the same problem as Avid. One time I actually left my glasses in a club playroom. Luckily, someone I knew at the club noticed I didn't have them on so I was able to retrieve them before we left. I also left a watch and bracelet in a hotel room once and our playmates mailed them back to me. Nice people. The only one that upset me was the guy that ate both of my earrings. Yes, he was nibbling on my ears and actually ate my expensive stud earrings. Needless to say I don't think we will be playing again, that was one costly night out.
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11-13-2007, 08:59 PM	#5 (permalink)
sweet_tna Being good is overrated Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 4,221 Location: Poconos, PA Status: The boss of Mr. Sweet Swing Lifestyle Name:Sweet_tna	Re: Losing my.... I haven't had that problem . . . yet. Hope you're able to recover your stuff, but look at it this way; if you're having so much fun you forgot it, it must've been a pretty good time. =)
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11-13-2007, 10:05 PM	#6 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,973 Location: Utah Status: Single Male	Re: Losing my.... Hmmm... I left a pair of shoes in a hotel room one time. Mrs. WS lost, but found her panties at a party this weekend... but it took a couple of hours. Mr. WS
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11-14-2007, 12:50 AM	#9 (permalink)
two4youinswva Better than Ice Cream Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 6,660 Location: va Status: Couple. He posts, She reads	Re: Losing my.... When we got home and unpacked last weekend, we found a pair of panties that didn't belong to Mrs two4you. Good times. Otherwise, yes, we usually end up leaving something behind. We believe losing an article of clothing usually equals a great weekend.

11-14-2007, 05:00 PM	#12 (permalink)
Mslavale Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 15 Location: edmonton Status: couple	Re: Losing my.... a few years ago when my husband was in the military i had a fling with an army guy and ended up in his room in the barrack, later that night i left to return home but i left my purse there with all my stuff in it, next morning i went to the city with my sister and realised i didn,t have my purse so i phone my husband and asked him to go to the barrack, to his room and asked the guy there for my purse.... it was so wrong,so right,so funny and so trilling i had to tell my sister about our lifestyle... sorry....lol

11-14-2007, 08:58 PM	#14 (permalink)
Pepper & Drew Mmmmm...tasty! Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 1,035 Location: Hurricane Alley Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:alhedonists	Re: Losing my.... We've decided that we're going to have baskets or cubbies installed at our friends' house, so that whenever we find something of someone's, we can just put it in their basket. I'm currently missing one of my jackets, which has been at another friends' house since Halloween. I've started, at least while it's early and I'm relatively lucid, putting everything in one pile. That way, I'm not finding my stuff stewn all over the house. Doesn't always work though.... Pepper
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11-14-2007, 09:03 PM	#15 (permalink)
ShellyM Jay's Bumper Buddy Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 2,299 Location: San Marcos, TEXAS Status: On the prowl for man meat Swing Lifestyle Name:lost_j1	Re: Losing my.... LOL, not yet. We were at a party though and I was teased mercilessly because my clothes were on the floor. Jay and I finished playing and I proclaimed (on wine in the middle of a full room, mind you) "don't let me forget my skirt, I paid full price for that shit" LOL, I'm a notorious sale shopper. For the rest of the evening everyone kept asking Jay if he had my skirt since I had after all paid full price for it.
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