Ok for husbands to masturbate while watching wives?

[desirefeb2007]

Is this socially acceptable? That is, masturbating oneself - not the other man. I dont have a problem with this but is this ok? I would think so.

[kush2112]

Most of the time it is just a reaction from watching your wife with another man. It would be very hard for me not to do it while watching her with another man

[WesternSwing]

I would say "yes" if it's okay with everybody else involved. The only thing I think would be weird is if you were a single male and looked over and there was hubby doing that and you had no idea that this kind of thing could happen.

Mr. WS

[flkeyscouple]

I think it's pretty natural. I don't think anyone would object or think it was weird!

[Spoomonkey]

I wouldn't be comfortable masturbating, but that isn't to say that it is wrong to do so if everyone agrees with it.

Spoomonkey

[daisy girl]

I think it is perfectly fine. In fact, seeing others masterbate while watching me and a partner is so hot!!!

[carlos_pchot]

Hi there, I don't see any problem masturbating on that situation, maybe not everyone would do it, but nothing wrong with it.

[clutch]

Masturbate whom?

[bigjoehd]

.......................Or you could just stand there or watch tv,of course its ok

[Tybee Swing]

Husbands masturbating while watching the wives (engaging in bi activity, right?)

Yes! I can't imagine that anybody who would swing would be offended by masturbation. Personally, I LOVE to watch my husband do that, and it's just natural that the husbands are stroking themselves watching their wives play with another woman. They're getting very turned-on.

There have been times like that when the other woman and myself have suggested to our husbands to take it out and stroke it, if they seemed too shy to do it without the suggestion.

Socially acceptable? Maybe not to Miss Manners, but it likely is for most swingers, in those circumstances.

[ohash01]

Socially acceptable? Maybe not to Miss Manners, but it likely is for most swingers, in those circumstances.

HAHAHA!! Miss Manners has a stick up her ass anyway. She has no idea what she's missing!

Anywho - We've run into this situation. I think it's sexy. J. thinks it's weird IF there's another man there. If we have a single F over and she and I are playing, he's okay with it. But he has some sort of penis-shyness where he doesn't want to "whip it out" in front of another man unless he's actively using it. He's very concerned about the locale for some reason...he's constantly going "do we sit? do we stand? are we next to each other? or is there a guy on each side?". I think it's just confusing for him. He's a planner...so he's probably flummoxed by this...

[Chicup]

I don't swing to toot my own horn so to speak.

While its a major turn on to see my wife with another woman, I'd wait for alone time with her to have sex.

We also avoid the GG play only couples so its never been an issue, but something about it just seems creepy and odd to me.

[Wife Watcher]

I know I would love to see men masturbate to my wife and watch me masterbate. I'm bi curious and have never been with a man since adulthood but I would hope it would turn into more than just watching.

[joaninla]

I agree w/ Daisy Girl. It's a big turn on for me to see my husband masturbating while he is watching me and another man. Very Hot!
He will often share with me later on that night or the next day his thoughts/feelings/fantasies he was experiencing while jacking off looking at me.

[d&dintn]

I would be disapointed if my husband wasn;t turned on enough at seeing me with another woman to masturbate. I do want him to enjoy the experince as much as everyone involved. If he were uncomfortable or turned off than I would be concerned enough to talk to him about what he really wanted. hope it dosn;t stem from jelousy.