Ever been surprised running into people you know?

[ALilOEverything]

How often do you run across people you know in the vanilla world in the lifestyle? I wasn't really expecting to find people I knew in the vanilla world but now it's happened. The only time a single female has ever written and it had to be someone we were next door neighbors with (shared a roof even). This is the first time and if I know someone this early in the game I'm sure it's not the last. I'm okay with that though...as it's been pointed out, we're all here for the same thing. And what about the other way around too, running across people from the lifestyle in the vanilla world? In our explorations in the past few months this lifestyle is more prevalent than I would have ever dreamed it to be.

[Greg & Sheryl]

That's a pretty wild coincidence. We've never had anything like that happen to us, but that's probably because we have so few vanilla friends. However, it is fairly common for us to run into some swinging friends in vanilla places. For example, earlier this summer we ran in a certain couple we knew as the four of us were about to walk into Coors Field for a baseball game.

[good times]

We have had both happen, we've ran into vanilla people we knew at the club and we've ran into swinging friends in the vanilla world. so far it has never caused any problems.

[Mrs Spoomonkey]

We have never had either happen although we laugh and talk about the what if's. When we get an email from an area that a lot of our work people live we wonder if the exchange of pics will reveal something

We're not worried though since they would have as much need for discretion as us.

We were out with some swinger friends one time (for a vanilla evening) and ran into some friends from work. General introductions and then off we went, no roof cave in's, and no rumors around the office so I guess we pulled it off. Little did they know

Mrs Spoomonkey

[Chicup]

I just hope I never run into any patients.

God that would suck

[Spoomonkey]

There are a few people from work that I look for when we go to the club... But - so far - no dice

Spoomonkey

[cumply21]

When we first got started in this lifestyle, I was chatting online with a couple, and found out that they lived four doors down in our small apartment building. The building only had 5 apartments. That was wild. We became good friends, but never did play, and then we all moved away from there.

We still keep in touch, and they just bought a house and invited us out for a visit. It's a 14 hour drive, but we'll probably go next summer. Who knows if we'll actually play when we go, but it'll be nice to see them again.

[BradAndJanet]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

There are a few people from work that I look for when we go to the club... But - so far - no dice

Spoomonkey

Yeah, I know what you mean! There are some that I just hope are swingers.....

It's never happened to us yet.

-B

[sexcouple]

We recently put an ad on Swing Lifestyle and received an email. We talked for a while then exchanged pics. It wasn't until we started talking about getting together for dinner and drinks and where to go that I (Mrs.) realized that they and I had grown up in the same town....a small one at that!
They were both a little older than I but we all remembered each other from High School.

We decided to have dinner and drinks anyway.....My hubby feeling like he was at a reunion !

But it turned out our first experience was with people that we knew! facelick

Imagine the possibilties.

We have had it happen twice (sort of).
The first was a guy I knew from the gym. We ended up hooking up and Mrs naughty ended getting along real good with the male half. Actualy it was her (and we found out later his) first FULL swap. Unfortunately myself and the female half didnt click.

I still see him at the gym a few days a week and we shoot the shit but thats about it.

The second:

We ran across an ad by a single male that we know from the "vanilla" side. We do not know him that well and are going to keep it that way.
We do not think he knows who we are because we do not have our faces showing in our public pics.

[deeptouch]

We lived next to a couple for 5 years and then moved to Florida. When we joined Swing Lifestyle we saw them listed. Imagine how surprised we were. I had always lusted for her and Molly had said many times that she wished they were swingers.

We phoned them and had a two hour conversation, laughing and trading comments about what we felt. It seems they wanted to fuck us too. There is a happy ending .... they were coming to Florida on the way to taking a cruise, they arranged to fly into Tampa on a stop and go .... we meet them, went to our car in the parking garage and fucked. It was awesome. On the way back from thier cruise, they stopped for a long weekend, and it was non stop sex for three days.

Since then, we have visited them a couplr e times and have also stopped by to see them, and they us, on business travel. Sometimes that travel is just him or me, and we still get together.

[xxoticangel]

We have bumped into several people we know from the nilla world online or at a club. The first was at a club we used to attend. The four of us had just finished a romp in the group room (the private rooms were all full) as we were leaving we were stopped by a married supervisor from my wife's office. On another occasion at the same club I saw a coworker with his wife. I don't think he recognized me and the only way I'm sure it was him is the unusual tattoo on his wrist. My immediate supervisor has an ad on Swing Lifestyle. Despite the face picture I wasn't sure until he showed us pictures of his vacation and I was able to see his wife. Two guys from our gym are regulars at Trapeze.

[Greg & Sheryl]

Originally Posted by cumply21

When we first got started in this lifestyle, I was chatting online with a couple, and found out that they lived four doors down in our small apartment building. We became good friends, but never did play.

Several months ago, we had a similiar experience. We met a couple on Swing Lifestyle who happened to live in the some condominium as we did. We met them in person twice, but we didn't seem to have any sexual chemistry with them, so we never played with them. We never see them around the condo, either, so it's unlikely any friendship will develop.

We also have met a couple on Swing Lifestyle who live right around the corner from us but we have never met in person. The hubby thinks we live to close and the idea kind of freaks him out. Which is completely understandable.
We suggested that we just meet as friends because that is all we would prefer being they live so close.
But he still is/was uncomfortable.
So we left it at that. We told them if they ever wanted to meet for a drink just drop us a line........

[TexasBlondie]

Great question:

Get this, our first experience in the lifestyle was when we found a swingers club online in Austin (100 miles away) and went there. Had a blast. People were asking "Why are you here when you have P******'s in San Antonio?"

We didn't know that there was a local club so the next weekend we went to the club in SA. First night there my wife ran into a lady who she works with, sold her first home to, and who attended her children's birthday partys... sheesh. They pointed at each other and screamed (embarrased) and swore each other to secrecy. We have never seen her at a club since and that was about a year and a half ago.

The third time we were at that same club I saw one of my clients there....

Small world.

Hugs,
Texas Blondie