Lucky Women

[ohash01]

I am constantly reading posts from the men on here (in particular, Spoo and Mr. Truelove) who are constantly saying "We're lucky bastards!!"

Well - I think most of us women on here are particulary lucky women. The men don't seem afraid to bolster our self-esteem and let us know how much they appreciate us. I say it's time we do the same ladies!

J. is a doll. He's cute and sweet and absolutely hilarious. He lets me explore my sexuality and thinks my uncontrollable flirting is wonderful. He doesn't mind when I track glass in the house from my studio, and then he steps on it - he just calmly removes it from his foot. He understands when I'm cranky and tries to make my happier. I love him!

Ohhash,

I am one of those lucky woman and I say it over and over again on the board. I want the whole world to know that I am the luckiest woman on this earth to have found MrVan when I did.

MrVan saved me when I was in the lowest of lows, and he continued to give me the love and support I needed to get through those difficult times. Because of the love that MrVan has for me, it has allowed me to be who I once was before my first marriage and to laugh and have a good time. MrVan loves the person I have become and he would not want me to change that for anything.

He is my best friend and I count my blessings every day that I have him in my life. Anytime MrVan touches me, kisses me or anything I get cold chills all over my body and I do not want to ever loose that feeling. I look at him and I am in just total amazement that our love is as strong as it is and that our love is so rock solid that it could never break. I could never see my life without MrVan in it.

And now that he has been working out, his arms are forming muscle; his chest is becoming very sexy and everytime I put my arm through his and walk with him when we are out, or look at that chest when we are in the shower together or making love I am reminded of what a hot husband I have.

On top of all of that, he is an amazing friend, father and most of all an incredible husband.

MrsVan

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by ohash01

I am constantly reading posts from the men on here (in particular, Spoo and Mr. Truelove) who are constantly saying "We're lucky bastards!!"

:threadjac

I just wanted to interject and say that last night, I found and of course bought the coolest belt buckle. It is green and says "Lucky Bastard" on it...

Oh - and it has a bottle opener

/ :threadjac

Spoomonkey

[CB_n_Red]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

Oh - and it has a bottle opener

Absolutely essential!

(To continue the hijacking of the thread....)

Cb

[gatorvol64]

I completely agree!! I thought about posting earlier but when I get started decribing Gator it becomes more than long-winded. I adore this man and thank God all the time the man wouldn't listen when I tried to throw him away. The man has truly put up with a lot through our years and helped me stow away luggage of all kinds. I've always been able to trust him.

He takes all the flack they want to give him at work for spending so much time with me and just laughs at them and shakes his head. He has occasionally tried to tell him the benefits of this but they won't listen. Some aren't willing to put in the work and others do not even want the fun benefits .

He sets such a good example of a husband for our boys. They may not realize this but just as with anything else, they will one day. And I fully expect them to come back and thank him. He now has the chance to show his grandson what makes a good man.

I've said that swinging was his idea. But that may not be exactly true. Sure he told me his fantasies and it did take a while (years) for me to just get it. Once I did and understood things, I may have been the one to say let's make it real. Hmmmm.....I'll have to ask him when he gets home from work tonight. We have had a terrific time swinging. But, it is amazing how ready we were for it. It would have been nice to find this board at the beginning but, we did things right. We knew it was the right way for us at the time and that was all that mattered.

He really spoils me. I'll have to be honest about that. He does small things for me that he knows I'll like. To day for example; he had to run to the store and he came back with one of those cinnamon brooms (my favorite smell and one that doesn't bother my allergies). I had been wanting one and he knew it. So when he saw it he brought it home and hung it up. When I walked in there I smelled it immediately and knew he had done that for me. That made me feel special. He is good at making me feel that way. He honestly thinks I am special. When I think he is the special one.

Ok, see----I'm not finished and it is long. I'll just try and sum it up with this.

I am the woman I am because of the man he is.

Vol

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

:threadjac

I just wanted to interject and say that last night, I found and of course bought the coolest belt buckle. It is green and says "Lucky Bastard" on it...

Oh - and it has a bottle opener

/ :threadjac

Spoomonkey

No way! You found a belt buckle with "lucky bastard" on it? That is too funny...I can just see you now in a pair of tight fitting jeans, with your cowboy boots on with the cowboy hat and then look down to see that the outfit is complete with your very own belt buckle with "lucky bastard" on it. facelick

MrsVan

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by MrsVan

No way! You found a belt buckle with "lucky bastard" on it? That is too funny...I can just see you now in a pair of tight fitting jeans, with your cowboy boots on with the cowboy hat and then look down to see that the outfit is complete with your very own belt buckle with "lucky bastard" on it. facelick

Oh - it'll happen

Bring your camera and I'll sign the pics.

Now, please ladies - return to telling us all about your incredibly lucky men!!!

Spoomonkey

[Mr. Truelove]

Somehow I see all this unfolding in front of a pole...

Mr. Truelove

Oh and PS. This thread has officially been hijacked.

[gatorvol64]

I'd tell you more about him if I spoke/wrote better. When it comes to him and why I am so lucky, it just all gets to running through my mind and I can't really finish one thought before another is there and I find I haven't desribed either of them well. Believe me, I wish everyone could know the wonderful man he is. I'm so extremely lucky.

Vol

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by gatorvol64

I'd tell you more about him if I spoke/wrote better.

Any man would be lucky to have those things said about them... Not to mention how lucky Gator is to have a woman like you saying such things

You expressed yourself very well but I know what you mean. There is just no way to adequately express how you feel about someone when you feel about them the way that you obviously do.

Spoomonkey

[gatorvol64]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

You expressed yourself very well but I know what you mean. There is just no way to adequately express how you feel about someone when you feel about them the way that you obviously do.

Exactly!!! I wonder if any language even has the words I don't know how to use.

Thank you. I know Gator gets how I feel and that is what matters most.

vol

[Mrs Spoomonkey]

Well I have to jump in on this one, although I am like you gatorvol64 I am not the writer in the family and sometimes find it very hard to find the words I need to express my feelings.

Spoo is first and foremost my Soulmate and very Best Friend and that is just the beginning of a million reasons why I am the luckiest woman in the world. I remember being so surprised that he loved me and could hardly say it out loud when I realized that he did. He is soooooo HOT and I can hardly stand it when I watch him work out looking at the muscles in his arms....and when we run...well lets just say the view when he is in front of me is AWESOME!! facelick

He loves me just the way I am which I have been able to discover with him. He gives me the freedom to explore and discover things about myself and loves me through it all. I am always happy when I am with him...he makes me laugh with his humor (which everyone here knows what that is like ), so you know what I mean.

He treats me like a woman...one that is very precious to him. He opens my doors, holds my hand when we are walking, won't let me take out the trash or carry anything heavier than a gallon of milk , unloads the car after I've been shopping, gives me his coat when it's cold because I stubbornly think I don't need one and let's me have the last of the milk for hot chocolate when we were both going to have a cup. At the same time he brags on me and encourages me to be strong and confident in myself and constantly points out my strengths every chance he gets.

His greatest pleasure is giving me pleasure. Our sex life has always been mind blowing and he encourages me to explore myself and my fantasies. The lifestyle for us wasn't to fix anything but it has allowed us to both explore together things that...well you can't do with just two people , MFM, MFMF, FMFMF, you get the picture. I could have never been brave enough or comfortable enough to do any of this without him being with me and encouraging me.

Did I mention he's really HOT!!! Killer blue eyes that twinkle when he is thinking "bad" thoughts and flirting. facelick

I guess I better wrap this up since I could go on and on and give detailed times and reason why I am the luckiest woman in the world.

Mrs Spoomonkey

[gatorvol64]

Originally Posted by MrsSpoomonkey

His greatest pleasure is giving me pleasure.

That's the part I mentioned I had to get. I knew he felt that way about non-sexual things in our life (the broom I mentioned, etc.) but that giving and seeing me have pleasure could be enough for him. Then WOW. Everything just became even better and closer with us and justs keep doing so.

There are some amazing men on this board.

Vol

[flkeyscouple]

This will be hard to express.... as Vol has said too, I am not the best at getting my feeling across in words.

Roger saved me years ago. He's always been as honest as the day is long, and we were friends for a few years before we started to date. I had gone through a divorce and was extremely depressed and 'low'. He brought me back to life and taught me that I was a valuable member of society. We are soulmates, best friends, wonderful lovers, and we can't get enough of each other.

He spoils me and he is a perfect friend and father. Our sons (mine from the previous marriage) are grown now, but they look back over the years and have some wonderful memories - Roger became their roll model when they were very young. Roger turns into a kid when he has a chance - making forts, tree houses, playing tag, etc. (The boys had a nickname for him - McGyver - he could make things out of nothing!) The boys had a friend as a mentor, and I have wonderful memories of watching them all together. And he promoted their relationship with their dad and step-mom. He was never worried about whom was the 'star' in their lives... he simply did what was best for the kids.

Roger and I have an amazing sex life, and he encourages me to explore myself in ways that I would never have imagined. He takes great pride in my pleasure and encourages me to greater heights. I can honestly say his greatest pleasure is my pleasure. He is so extremely caring. He holds my hand, opens the car door for me, does all my shopping (I HATE shopping!), surprises me with little gifts, takes me away when I've been working too hard, lets me pick the movies or TV shows, compliments me when I think I look crappy, assists me in my dieting, and always tells me how he feels about me.

And without getting too windy in my post, I can add that he is the most wonderful person I can imagine - kind, always cool headed, sexy, loving, caring, giving, oh, and did I say sexy??

I could go on and on, and I'm sure I've left some very important things out - it's just that this subject is so all-consuming! He's my life! He's my soulmate! He's my everything! I couldn't ask for more, but if I did, he'd find a way to give it to me. I love him more than life.

Sarah

[havefuninsun]

Sarah, your post made me smile. And it's because it describes a lot of how I feel about Mr. Fun.

He is wonderful to my son -- I'd even go as far as to say he's teaching him how to be a Man. My ex is the "disney world dad" type; they get together and it's fun and games. But Mr. Fun is the one teaching him how to be a leader, helps him think about a career, encourages him to do better in school, etc.

And I don't have enough time to say how wonderful he is to me. Normally in the mornings I leave before he does. This morning, he left before I did and I went outside to see that he scraped the frost off my car for me. Sounds like such a little thing, but knowing he THOUGHT about me and took the time to do that before he left just warms my heart.

I love him.