Confession: I LIKE smaller penises!

Tybee Swing · 10-29-2006, 01:46 PM

I don't know how many times we've seen profiles where there is a request that the penis of potential playmates must exceed ___ inches, or don't bother writing them. They only want a seriously big one.

I'm a tight woman married to a big man. I love my man the way he is, he's wonderful and I wouldn't change a thing about him. However, there are some things I can't do with his because it's big. I can't get him all the way in my mouth unless he's totally flaccid. I love the idea of getting a hard cock all the way in my mouth down to the base. Smaller ones are fun to suck and fun in other ways, too. The g-spot isn't but an inch or so from the opening, so smallish cocks are plenty. A smaller man can pound full-force and not hit my cervix and cause pain. (With my husband I have to be careful of that.) I actually enjoy cocks that are smaller than my husband's. Swinging is all about variety.

I like all sizes.

Many men feel inferior in the penis size department. Some will even say it, after we're in a situation and they've seen my husband's. It's such a shame that men are into that comparison game so much. This happened again, last night. Last night was the most extreme case I've run into, yet.

His wife was wonderful. She started with me, we spent a lot of time together, and then she wanted my husband in a serious way. I wanted her to have him in a serious way! Yowza, it was hot. Her husband was very skittish and was wandering in and out (it was a house party). We wouldn't proceed without his full knowledge and approval, if not his participation, so we had to run him down. When he finally got back in there and we asked if it was okay for my husband and her to proceed, he was fine with it...but he said he wouldn't be able to play with me. Meanwhile, he was looking and acting like he wanted me badly, kissing me and fondling my breasts. He said the reason he couldn't do anything was that he "didn't have anything to offer me in that department". He meant that because I had a hung husband, he certainly couldn't do anything for me! So, we had a talk. He was fascinated and fully engrossed with my perky C's, so I used that as an analogy. (His wife had a very attention-getting set of natural DD's.) I said, "You like my breasts, don't you?" He affirmed that he was crazy about them. It was a DUH statement on my part, he couldn't get his eyes, mouth or hands off of them. Then I said, "But mine are much smaller, not even half the size of your wife's. But, you like mine a LOT." I saw a lightbulb go off. He really got what I was saying. I told him that all sizes are great, each has something very special and exciting to offer. We went on to have fun while Mr. Tybee and his wife were pounding away beside us. I got to suck a cock that fit into my mouth, and he was in heaven. He still wouldn't full swap, his performance/size anxieties run too deep, but afterward he told me that in their 2 years around the Lifestyle, I was the first woman he was able to be hard with. He had a wonderful time and I think that what I said to him mattered. So, maybe there's hope for him down the road. I feel sorry that his size comparison issue is so deep that he can't even perform or enjoy this Lifestyle they're in/around. His wife is dying to see him having intercourse with another woman.

Is there anybody else like me that loves to play with a partner who has a smaller cock, even as a preference? I have never actually read in a profile, "seeking playmates with penises less than ___ inches!" Maybe if more men heard this more often, they'd have fewer issues with it.

**rpu3** · 10-29-2006, 01:56 PM

OMG!!!!!! I am so ditto-ing your post - right on down to the fact that my spousal unit is somewhat larger than average, and I can't do some things depending on a few factors. It's funny to me because I was just talking about this with my spouse about this being my preference in potential swing partners.

In swinging, I'm looking for the average - because I want to do those things that tend to be difficult with my own spouse.

I've thought about putting a "less than 7 inches preferred" in our profiles. Never done it, maybe we who do prefer the average or smaller should post that!

Thanks for posting this!

Rebecca

Thrax · 10-29-2006, 02:00 PM

Confession: I LIKE Tybee Swing and rpu3!

Thrax

Tybee Swing · 10-29-2006, 02:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rpu3

OMG!!!!!! I am so ditto-ing your post - right on down to the fact that my spousal unit is somewhat larger than average, and I can't do some things depending on a few factors. It's funny to me because I was just talking about this with my spouse about this being my preference in potential swing partners.

In swinging, I'm looking for the average - because I want to do those things that tend to be difficult with my own spouse.

I've thought about putting a "less than 7 inches preferred" in our profiles. Never done it, maybe we who do prefer the average or smaller should post that!

Thanks for posting this!

Rebecca

Beck, I have thought of putting something like that in our profile, too, but then I wonder if putting a preference like that will run off the average-to-large hung guys, and really, I like the whole person who fits my other preferences and whom I'm attracted to, regardless of the penis size. Sometimes, putting in too many preferences in a profile keeps people away. Maybe something more like...."all penis sizes welcome"....what do you think?

The man last night was probably about 4 to 4.5 inches erect, and I had such fun with it! facelick

Tybee Swing · 10-29-2006, 02:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Thrax

Confession: I LIKE Tybee Swing and rpu3!

Thrax

We like YOU, Thrax! facelick facelick facelick

**rpu3** · 10-29-2006, 02:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tybee Swing

We like YOU, Thrax! facelick facelick facelick

Dito

Darkblue · 10-29-2006, 03:13 PM

I guess im out then!!

i dont think im big but just average!!

but everyone to their own, dont get me wrong ladys but i havent met a women who doesnt like at least a good handfull and a half!!

Nice to know that not all are looking huge cocks!!

Steve

Tybee Swing · 10-29-2006, 03:41 PM

No worries, Steve, we said we like them in all sizes. Including yours.

In the case of Rebecca and I, we're married to biggies, so maybe we have more of a fascination for smaller ones. But medium is always great, too!

Mrs.PaganLovers · 10-29-2006, 03:43 PM

Excuse me, I am with both you ladies! I dont' want a huge one! Personally, I think it's all a mans problem, this I gotta be big thing. Ok, there are some women out there that want huge penis's. I would look at it and say "I don't think so"! My husband's is beautiful and definetly not small, but I sure as hell wouldn't want one bigger than his! To me, it's painful, sorry all you guys out there with large weanies, but I'm not interested if it's huge, and not interested if that is the only head that seems to work.

Blessings
Mrs. PL

bear_and_babe · 10-29-2006, 03:48 PM

I have to ditto Tybee Swing on this. I like a smaller penis. Bear is very big around and sometimes we have to wait 2 or 3 days between playing because I get too sore.

As long as I can tell the guy is in me, then that is big enough for me!

Darkblue · 10-29-2006, 04:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tybee Swing

No worries, Steve, we said we like them in all sizes. Including yours.

In the case of Rebecca and I, we're married to biggies, so maybe we have more of a fascination for smaller ones. But medium is always great, too!

Just saw your pic and WOW

i wish i lived near to you!! but we dont

oh well cant have everything!!

Well nice to see that women do appreciate guys who are not so well endowed!!

Steve

tribbles · 10-29-2006, 05:26 PM

I'm with you!

I turn guys down who are too big...even just too thick hurts me.

S

Miss_Piggy · 10-29-2006, 05:37 PM

I know I've said this before on here but I'll say it again. The one thing I like big dicks for is handjobs. Other than that smaller is better for me. I've had big ones cause me considerable pain the past...

Thrax · 10-29-2006, 05:58 PM

This thread not only makes me feel GREAT...it makes me feel AVERAGE!

Thrax
P.S. Yeah, okay, I'll bow out now...maybe.

Tybee Swing · 10-29-2006, 06:07 PM

Thrax Baby, you are WAAAAY above average, in every way that matters! facelick

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10-29-2006, 01:46 PM	#1 (permalink)
Tybee Swing wild at heart Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 1,837 Location: coastal Georgia Status: couple	Confession: I LIKE smaller penises! I don't know how many times we've seen profiles where there is a request that the penis of potential playmates must exceed ___ inches, or don't bother writing them. They only want a seriously big one. I'm a tight woman married to a big man. I love my man the way he is, he's wonderful and I wouldn't change a thing about him. However, there are some things I can't do with his because it's big. I can't get him all the way in my mouth unless he's totally flaccid. I love the idea of getting a hard cock all the way in my mouth down to the base. Smaller ones are fun to suck and fun in other ways, too. The g-spot isn't but an inch or so from the opening, so smallish cocks are plenty. A smaller man can pound full-force and not hit my cervix and cause pain. (With my husband I have to be careful of that.) I actually enjoy cocks that are smaller than my husband's. Swinging is all about variety. I like all sizes. Many men feel inferior in the penis size department. Some will even say it, after we're in a situation and they've seen my husband's. It's such a shame that men are into that comparison game so much. This happened again, last night. Last night was the most extreme case I've run into, yet. His wife was wonderful. She started with me, we spent a lot of time together, and then she wanted my husband in a serious way. I wanted her to have him in a serious way! Yowza, it was hot. Her husband was very skittish and was wandering in and out (it was a house party). We wouldn't proceed without his full knowledge and approval, if not his participation, so we had to run him down. When he finally got back in there and we asked if it was okay for my husband and her to proceed, he was fine with it...but he said he wouldn't be able to play with me. Meanwhile, he was looking and acting like he wanted me badly, kissing me and fondling my breasts. He said the reason he couldn't do anything was that he "didn't have anything to offer me in that department". He meant that because I had a hung husband, he certainly couldn't do anything for me! So, we had a talk. He was fascinated and fully engrossed with my perky C's, so I used that as an analogy. (His wife had a very attention-getting set of natural DD's.) I said, "You like my breasts, don't you?" He affirmed that he was crazy about them. It was a DUH statement on my part, he couldn't get his eyes, mouth or hands off of them. Then I said, "But mine are much smaller, not even half the size of your wife's. But, you like mine a LOT." I saw a lightbulb go off. He really got what I was saying. I told him that all sizes are great, each has something very special and exciting to offer. We went on to have fun while Mr. Tybee and his wife were pounding away beside us. I got to suck a cock that fit into my mouth, and he was in heaven. He still wouldn't full swap, his performance/size anxieties run too deep, but afterward he told me that in their 2 years around the Lifestyle, I was the first woman he was able to be hard with. He had a wonderful time and I think that what I said to him mattered. So, maybe there's hope for him down the road. I feel sorry that his size comparison issue is so deep that he can't even perform or enjoy this Lifestyle they're in/around. His wife is dying to see him having intercourse with another woman. Is there anybody else like me that loves to play with a partner who has a smaller cock, even as a preference? I have never actually read in a profile, "seeking playmates with penises less than ___ inches!" Maybe if more men heard this more often, they'd have fewer issues with it.

10-29-2006, 01:56 PM	#2 (permalink)
rpu3 Doing it our way... Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 2,465 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female SLS Name:rpu3 Blog Entries: 2	Re: Confession: I LIKE smaller penises! OMG!!!!!! I am so ditto-ing your post - right on down to the fact that my spousal unit is somewhat larger than average, and I can't do some things depending on a few factors. It's funny to me because I was just talking about this with my spouse about this being my preference in potential swing partners. In swinging, I'm looking for the average - because I want to do those things that tend to be difficult with my own spouse. I've thought about putting a "less than 7 inches preferred" in our profiles. Never done it, maybe we who do prefer the average or smaller should post that! Thanks for posting this! Rebecca __________________ I'll give up my bad habits as soon as equally satisfying good habits become available. A. Brilliant Last edited by rpu3 : 10-29-2006 at 02:06 PM.

10-29-2006, 02:00 PM	#3 (permalink)
Thrax Celebrate perversity Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,388 Location: Pittsburgh Status: Single Male SLS Name:Thrax	Re: Confession: I LIKE smaller penises! Confession: I LIKE Tybee Swing and rpu3! Thrax __________________ You get what you play for.

10-29-2006, 03:13 PM	#7 (permalink)
Darkblue Steve and Susanne Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 227 Location: Germany Status: Couple SLS Name:darkblue	Re: Confession: I LIKE smaller penises! I guess im out then!! i dont think im big but just average!! but everyone to their own, dont get me wrong ladys but i havent met a women who doesnt like at least a good handfull and a half!! Nice to know that not all are looking huge cocks!! Steve

10-29-2006, 03:41 PM	#8 (permalink)
Tybee Swing wild at heart Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 1,837 Location: coastal Georgia Status: couple	Re: Confession: I LIKE smaller penises! No worries, Steve, we said we like them in all sizes. Including yours. In the case of Rebecca and I, we're married to biggies, so maybe we have more of a fascination for smaller ones. But medium is always great, too!

10-29-2006, 03:43 PM	#9 (permalink)
Mrs.PaganLovers Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 246 Location: In my house Status: Couple SLS Name:paganlovers	Re: Confession: I LIKE smaller penises! Excuse me, I am with both you ladies! I dont' want a huge one! Personally, I think it's all a mans problem, this I gotta be big thing. Ok, there are some women out there that want huge penis's. I would look at it and say "I don't think so"! My husband's is beautiful and definetly not small, but I sure as hell wouldn't want one bigger than his! To me, it's painful, sorry all you guys out there with large weanies, but I'm not interested if it's huge, and not interested if that is the only head that seems to work. Blessings Mrs. PL

10-29-2006, 03:48 PM	#10 (permalink)
bear_and_babe Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 209 Location: PA Status: Couple SLS Name:bear_and_babe	Re: Confession: I LIKE smaller penises! I have to ditto Tybee Swing on this. I like a smaller penis. Bear is very big around and sometimes we have to wait 2 or 3 days between playing because I get too sore. As long as I can tell the guy is in me, then that is big enough for me! __________________ Life is a banquet, and most poor suckers are starving to death! - Mame

10-29-2006, 05:26 PM	#12 (permalink)
tribbles Fun and Pleasure Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 854 Location: SouthWest Status: Couple	Re: Confession: I LIKE smaller penises! I'm with you! I turn guys down who are too big...even just too thick hurts me. S __________________ Evel Knievel died of natural causes.

10-29-2006, 05:37 PM	#13 (permalink)
Miss_Piggy mildly abnormal Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 1,404 Location: Sometimes Canada Status: I'm with Kermit Blog Entries: 2	Re: Confession: I LIKE smaller penises! I know I've said this before on here but I'll say it again. The one thing I like big dicks for is handjobs. Other than that smaller is better for me. I've had big ones cause me considerable pain the past... __________________ I feel that a woman doesn't have to be called 'Ms.' in order to be a woman of her own making. I believe 'Miss' allows moi to be a woman, and my karate can get me anything else

10-29-2006, 05:58 PM	#14 (permalink)
Thrax Celebrate perversity Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,388 Location: Pittsburgh Status: Single Male SLS Name:Thrax	Re: Confession: I LIKE smaller penises! This thread not only makes me feel GREAT...it makes me feel AVERAGE! Thrax P.S. Yeah, okay, I'll bow out now...maybe. __________________ You get what you play for.

10-29-2006, 06:07 PM	#15 (permalink)
Tybee Swing wild at heart Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 1,837 Location: coastal Georgia Status: couple	Re: Confession: I LIKE smaller penises! Thrax Baby, you are WAAAAY above average, in every way that matters! facelick

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