Foreplay with swing partners ~ What kind & how much?

[laptop_c]

Question for one and all. What sort of foreplay (If any) do you usually indulge in with your swing partners and how is that foreplay different from what you would perform on with your regular spouse/SO.

[Tortured_Soul]

Well my wife doesn't know what foreplay is... she gets right to it... kinda bugs me at times, cause she'll be like... " you're not even hard "... I am kinda like duh, no wonder. I personally love giving back massages and foot rubs. getting just close enough to "private" areas without actually touching them -or- just barely touching them. I have also found that women enjoy it when you barely make contact with their mouth... just a slight touch - no kiss... before you know it they will be attacking you. It works for me, give it a hook.

[Tybee Swing]

Originally Posted by laptop_c

Question for one and all. What sort of foreplay (If any) do you usually indulge in with your swing partners and how is that foreplay different from what you would perform on with your regular spouse/SO.

To us, foreplay is sex as much as intercourse. We can't imagine just "f-ing" without also kissing, touching, oral, and everything that makes sex great. We do it all. We don't even think of it as "foreplay", because all of these things occur throughout a sexual experience with somebody else, are interchangable with intercourse, and we could even finish with "fore"play. Our preference is for longer, more sensual experiences. We also like group sex with another couple, all kinds of interactions going on (not just M/F M/F). People who just want to get in a room and bang for an orgasm, as little foreplay as possible, aren't our type.

The only thing I can think of that differs with swing partners, is that we use condoms with them for intercourse. Also, we don't want other men to cum in my mouth. This is for safety concerns.

[NakedInSeattle]

Every swing situation is as different as the swing partners are. There are times when foreplay is desired and times when it isn't. For instance, at a swing club, the dancing is foreplay a lot of times so when you get to the action, it might be all action. At home with another couple, foreplay can be for a long time in the hot tub of watching porno. And then in bed with a swing partner, sometimes oral and lots of touching seems the right thing to do and sometimes it's "give it to me hard and fast" from the start.

So for us it depends on the situation, the timing, and the people.

[N&G]

Unless the play partner has specific likes or dislikes foreplay isn't any different than I would do with my SO. We don't have any "rules" about what either of us can do so we just enjoy whatever works with the other person. I personally enjoy lots of foreplay and spending time with my swing partner afterwords. Intercourse is only a small part of sex as far as I am concerned.

Greg

[meandher2go]

ditto. we go with the flow and enjoy lots of foreplay when possible,

[Menage_a_Trois]

Originally Posted by laptop_c

Question for one and all. What sort of foreplay (If any) do you usually indulge in with your swing partners and how is that foreplay different from what you would perform on with your regular spouse/SO.

For us we don't do anything with our play partners that we don't do with our SO and vice versa...........foreplay is just as important if not more important for us since all three of us are extremely oral by nature.

Mrs. Menage

[ibn battuta]

Yeah, there has to be foreplay. In fact that is actually my favorite part of the whole experience. I love watching my wife performing oral on another person, and I think I would very disapointed if a group session was just ram it in, pull it out.

[WesternSwing]

For us, foreplay is foreplay. Mrs. WS is more direct and more of a "lets get down to it" kind of girl. For me, getting there is the funnest part. I love the foreplay part the most. Swinging this lets me indulge this a little more since many of my swing partners think like I do. Like Menage a Trois says though, we don't do anything with others we haven't done with each other. That's just respect.

Mr. WS

[JustAskJulie]

foreplay is mandatory. There are times when I'm horny enough to start that we can skip it but typically it's a necessary thing. Even in swinging situations, we enjoy touching and kissing and licking and sucking (oral sex).

[ncmd_couple]

As a male, every woman that I am with is different. Our first time together is an exploration of what she likes and dislikes. So even though we do everything with our play partners that we would together, it is slightly different depending on the desires of our partner at the time.

[LFM2]

Originally Posted by NakedInSeattle

Every swing situation is as different as the swing partners are. There are times when foreplay is desired and times when it isn't. For instance, at a swing club, the dancing is foreplay a lot of times so when you get to the action, it might be all action. At home with another couple, foreplay can be for a long time in the hot tub of watching porno. And then in bed with a swing partner, sometimes oral and lots of touching seems the right thing to do and sometimes it's "give it to me hard and fast" from the start.

So for us it depends on the situation, the timing, and the people.

What they said!

[sweet_tna]

Generally, I like a lot of foreplay. But if the mood strikes, I can "get right down to it."

As for what "sort" of foreplay I enjoy? I love undressing (and being undressed by) my partners, massages, kissing, touching, oral, teasing . . . the whole nine yards, really.

=)

[good42]

We are both hooked on foreplay. Our current male playmate luckily also feels the same way. Over the years it seems that if you go staight from Hello to lets F-ck the evening usually ends too soon and no where near as much fun.

good42

[imsherona2]

Originally Posted by NakedInSeattle

Every swing situation is as different as the swing partners are. There are times when foreplay is desired and times when it isn't. For instance, at a swing club, the dancing is foreplay a lot of times so when you get to the action, it might be all action. At home with another couple, foreplay can be for a long time in the hot tub of watching porno. And then in bed with a swing partner, sometimes oral and lots of touching seems the right thing to do and sometimes it's "give it to me hard and fast" from the start.

So for us it depends on the situation, the timing, and the people.

Ditto! We concur 100%, it so depends on the situation, timing and the people!