Foreplay with swing partners ~ What kind & how much?

[Bama0468]

Hell Foreplay for me is my chance to discover some of the things the lady likes touched, carressed, played with, and how ruffly/gently. I like the discovery, the soft sensual slow moving hands manuevering all along her frame, so lightly that the heat from the hands are more felt than the skin, slowly over the nipples, and down toward the stomach.....


sorry got slightly carried away

[Tia Vampire]

We like it all. Foreplay is a must. It's a build up to the big delivery. The more we are turned-on, the better we will perform.

[JDApopka]

I love seeing the wife kissing and fondling and she insist on it.
now that being said I know that when we do it it has more feeling to it or at least thats what she tells me

[JustMrJ]

Foreplay...

I almost can't imagine sex without it anymore.

I find that what drives my wife nuts (and me) is for me to do nothing more than slowly undress her and then caress her body... AVOIDING the super sensitive areas (nipples and crotch)... I love the light touch of my hand just gliding around all of her scrumptious curves. Kissing all those places too is very nice. Full body massage... yep, like that too. Oh, and don't get me started on how cute those dimples are in a woman's lower back just above her buttocks.

For any woman that I am with, I think it will be nearly mandatory... even if it's just some really close rubbing on a dance floor. I find that very hot when I can do that with a woman.

Geez... now I need a cold shower...

[sereneiders]

As for myself, I don't see much of a difference between fore-play and play. Penetration? May be, but it's part of the game. I mean, I may withdraw at any moment to "go back" to foreplaying... which would make it middle-playing... I guess. I don't even feel the urge for cumming, and I may not cum at all and still have a great time.

As for my wife... she aknowledges the difference. It reaches a point where she needs to have it and to have it now! LOL.

But, the way I play deppends as much on my mood as on my partner's mood and tastes (and this includes my wife). I think what really turns me on is to feel how turned on my partner is, and when that matches my mood, it's great. So, some times I am a teaser, some others I may play rough (if consented, of course), others I can play loving and sweet.... so, yep, it is different bu because every partner is different.

We have regular partners and I get to know my partner tastes. And of course, the most regular partner is my wife, whose tastes I already know like my own hand

[Lightenup]

we don't do anything with others we haven't done with each other

Mrs. here and I think I'm gonna have to respectfully disagree with this point. Many times the things we haven't done with each other are very nice and part of what makes sex with other people so danged good. Plus if I see Mr. enjoying something we haven't done (list is pretty short) it gives me inspiration for our time later and vice versa.

[jarrett racing]

I think foreplay is a must.....

[willyoats]

My wife and I have two kinds of foreplay depending on the situation: !) extended massage, cuddling, kissing and manual or oral orgasm for her before intercourse; 2) none, if we just want a quickie, as in the morning when I wake up with a hard-on, or the last fuck after we come home from the club and just before we go to sleep exhausted.

With swing partners, I always try to do the same extended foreplay that I am so comfortable with, i.e. long, slow massage, lots of touching and hugging and a pre-intercourse orgasm for her. Sometimes that does not work because the woman just doesn't want to spend that much time. Usually, that kind of encounter is not a good one.

The only exception that I can think of is the woman who does gang bangs regularly. Then I just get it up and pound away till I cum. Then she looks up at me and says ever so sweetly, "Thank you, sweet pea." She is a beautiful Kentucky girl whom I will never forget.

I don't really know what kind of foreplay my wife gets when she is off without me. Most of the time she seems reasonably satisfied. When I have been in the same room with her, the foreplay varies from terrific, if the guy is really good and thoughtful, to awful if he only wants to satisfy himself and gives no real thought to what the woman wants or needs. We have had to stop some guys that were like that and tell them to go away. One thing my wife is not is just a piece of meat for some guy to fuck.

[Chris&Amelia]

When I'm with a playmate, I tend to focus on foreplay, at least for a while. I enjoy making my playmate have an orgasm (or ten...) before we actually get to penetration. It's pleasurable for both of us and I like the slow build-up.

With Amelia... sometimes there is foreplay, other times we're just looking for a quickie. Nothing wrong with a quickie when the mood strikes...

[alphaplaycpl]

Foreplay is one of the best parts of swinging for us! We love to flirt, touch, kiss, and all other sorts of fun getting-to-know you types of activity. I have found that most of our encounters begin with lots of oral, and usually several pre-intercourse orgasms for the girls. Some of these the guys give us, some of them we give each other.

[funcpl4life]

For me, I prefer a steady progression of mutual undressing (love it!), touching, kissing, oral sex, intercourse. rinse. repeat.

The Mrs. likes brief intercourse, touching, rubbing, then more intercourse. She has a really hard time getting started until you stick it in her. (doesn't have to be for long)

Mr. FC4L

[des1re06]

Lots and for hours!

We both love touching and giving sensual massage, moving onto oral all over the body.

Depending on the couple, we may participate in light spanking and flogging (soft items like elk leather, feathers and velvet).

I admit to being a giver more than a receiver, and am more patient about receiving after the first orgasm.

The tease and flirting is so important!

Whew, this is a hot topic!

Mrs. D