How Do Swingers Feel About Black Women?

[Cosmopolite]

I am a single black female and new to swinging in a "formal" sense. Even though I am bisexual, I have only had intercourse once since 2002. I am a voyeur and do threesomes. However, I have been told by several experienced swingers that most swingers are not interested in black females, even though I am single and bisexual. Since I have never been to a club, I would hate to go and not have anyone to play with. Does anyone know reasons why couples would not want to play with black females?

[NandTfromCA]

We live in CA, so it might be different in GA but there are plenty of couples who will play with black females/couples/males. There are surely going to be people that turn you down because you are black but there will also be some that think you're especially sexy because you're dark skin.

Good company is good company, regardless of skin color.

[WesternSwing]

Wow, I think the general concensus around here would be that there isn't enough single black females in the lifestyle! I wouldn't listen to those you've talked to, I don't think they really know what they are talking about.

Mr. WS

[twobears]

Sweetie, you can come play with us anytime!!!! Like my hubby says "Pussy is Pussy,you have been in GA too long!!!LOL You are a woman and that is wonderful. Forget your color and remember how pretty you are and there is only one of you in this big world,have fun and forgoodness sake please don't wait that long to have sex again,it is not good for the body!!!LOL

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by Cosmopolite

I am a single black female and new to swinging in a "formal" sense. Even though I am bisexual, I have only had intercourse once since 2002.

This stands out to me as a red flag more than you being black. Any reason you have had sex only once in 4 years?

[Cosmopolite]

Originally Posted by Chicup

This stands out to me as a red flag more than you being black. Any reason you have had sex only once in 4 years?

Good question. Let me rephrase. I have only had intercourse one in 4 years. I am highly sexual through masturbation (the only way I orgasm), with females, etc.

[Paphian]

Originally Posted by WesternSwing

Wow, I think the general concensus around here would be that there isn't enough single black females in the lifestyle!

I would expand your sentiments, Mr. WS, by dropping the word "single". Ms. Cosmopolite would be well-received at clubs and parties around here.

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by Cosmopolite

Good question. Let me rephrase. I have only had intercourse one in 4 years. I am highly sexual through masturbation (the only way I orgasm), with females, etc.

Did you post a while back asking about couples letting you watch or something like that under a different name?

If so, I recall there being several issues which would make swinging difficult for you, and I think race, which would be a factor for some, was not that major factor.

[Cosmopolite]

No, I just joined the Swingers Board today.

[LikeMinds321]

Your profile says that you are "strictly a voyeur." I interpret this to mean that you wish no physical interaction with a couple and only want to watch them.

If this is so, I would think this would be a much greater limitation to swinging than being black. I think most couples who wish to have a bisexual female join them want soft swing or full swap interaction.

LM

[intuition897]

Dito to LM. Really, race is not an issue for most swingers. Nor is cultural difference, unless those cultural differences cause a person to treat others like crap. It's the quality of the person that counts. At least around SwingersBoard it is.

My hubby and I don't consider ourselves newbies anymore, and in our personal opinion, diversity is just that much more fun. I mean, isn't that kind of the point of swinging in the first place? To try a different "flavour" every now and then? Mint chocolate chip is my favorite ice cream, so I married him. But...the world is like one big Baskin Robbins and there's, like, 6 or 7 billion other flavours out there!

Black women in the lifestyle. My thoughts? I love it. We haven't been with any partners of a different race...yet (we're both white). But that's just been coincidental. I find the idea of the visual contrast in skin tones very erotic.

If you're ever travelling out of state, be sure to schedule in a trip to a swingers club there. You'll likely be surprised at the difference in opinion.

[Couple-N-NM]

Originally Posted by Chicup

Did you post a while back asking about couples letting you watch or something like that under a different name?

If so, I recall there being several issues which would make swinging difficult for you, and I think race, which would be a factor for some, was not that major factor.

The tone and subject matter of both the posters do bear a striking resemblance. I had the same thought as you did.

[Cosmopolite]

Originally Posted by Couple-N-NM

The tone and subject matter of both the posters do bear a striking resemblance. I had the same thought as you did.

No, it was not me. I just joined today and it is not my style to deceive.

[EvilMJ]

one of my best friends in the lifestyle, who I play with from time to time is a black female. She is one of the few black females who swing in our area, and she is very sought after. I don't think you have anything to be concerned about

[Pepper & Drew]

I'm from Alabama and we now live in Florida, and I've never had a problem in the lifestyle. Almost the opposite has been the case.....there's lots of couples that will seek you out because they've never been with a black person before. Now, I understand that there are places that you may not want to go: for example, to some of the clubs in Mississippi that are for whites only, but for the most part, I don't think you'll have a problem....I know I don't.

Pepper