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Personality or Looks

This is a discussion on Personality or Looks within the General Swingers Stuff forums, part of the Swingers Topics category; I guess there a lot of "dedicated" lifestylers out there. As of this moment, 38.46% want to ...

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I am playing with the HOT couple - because they are right out of my adolescent fantasies! 7 6.60%
I am playing with the couple with personality - because they are just so much fun to talk to! 59 55.66%
I am going to talk to both a play with neither - because I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. 2 1.89%
I am going to try to find a way to squeeze them both in tonight. 37 34.91%
I am going to find someone else to play with. 0 0%
I am going to fake diarreha... Whoever still wants me wins! 1 0.94%
Voters: 106. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 09-23-2005, 08:09 AM   #31 (permalink)
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I guess there a lot of "dedicated" lifestylers out there. As of this moment, 38.46% want to have they're cake and eat it too.
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Old 09-28-2005, 10:13 AM   #32 (permalink)
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I am playing with the couple with personality , with a good heart, and have alot of fun. Looks aren't everything. Mrs.NHcpl1968
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Old 02-20-2008, 10:54 PM   #33 (permalink)
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I thought this was an interesting question, looking at it - My answer would be very different if it were the first night I had met them both ... in that case I'd be as likely to play with either (or hope to play with both). But if I'd already played with both of them and learned about their personalities, I'd probably either end up playing with neither again OR I'd be more likely to play with the cute couple with personality. No matter how hot the couple was if I had seen a total lack of personality it would be a turn-off.
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Old 02-20-2008, 11:12 PM   #34 (permalink)
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We have met some beautiful peeps with nasty attitude and that swear alot, it made them ugly as hell. Personality will win over looks any day in our book.
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Old 02-20-2008, 11:14 PM   #35 (permalink)
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It is all about the Karma.
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Old 02-21-2008, 12:48 AM   #36 (permalink)
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Even if the option of "squeeze 'em both in" hadn't been included, that would've been my first choice. But in the spirit of the poll, let's say that wasn't an option. I'd choose the couple with personality any day and twice on Sunday ('cause we'd probably still be at the club after midnight anyway).

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Old 02-22-2008, 07:41 AM   #37 (permalink)
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I would play with personality. The reason is simple...if Mrs. Ekies had only played with the hot ones I'd have been in the cold and by myself all these years.

More importantly though, I consider myself a bit of a conversationalist and will gravitate to anyone (nearly) who is fun to talk with, flirt with and so on. Being less than perfect, I try to keep my weaknesses in mind when I'm "judging" someone else (please take that the way it's meant).

We met a couple a year or so ago where the wife was spectacular to look at and even more spectacular to talk to (engineer). He was a complete and utter jerk. Absolutely convinced of his superiority in all things and not a bit afraid to let you know it. In this case we had two physically beautiful people and one mentally beautiful and one mentally ugly. Incidentally, we haven't talked to them since.

In the end, a great person and personality will be my choice over pure physical beauty.

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Old 02-26-2008, 10:34 AM   #38 (permalink)
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In this situation we would try to connect with both during the night if not get all 3 couples together. Admittingly, we normally prefer personality over looks, but in this case it's not that couple 1 has personality flaws. It could be that nerves were an issue the first time around so we'd give them another try.

now if the first couple were arrogant, self-centered, abnoxious, etc--it would be a no-brainer to go for the personality over good looks.
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Old 02-27-2008, 12:54 PM   #39 (permalink)
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Personality (attitude, tact, decorum, ability to hold a conversation) wins out with us everytime. We don't care how "hot" you are or good in bed, if you're a lousy person outside of it.
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Old 02-28-2008, 02:34 PM   #40 (permalink)
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Why only one? We'd play with both! (and then look for a 3rd hottie couple for desert! Mmmmmmm!)
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.....I'll take looks on the 1st encounter or 1st few encounters....if the Lady has a lack of personality......but has a sweet ass.....when it comes to the ol Turbo Pound...her lack of a radiant personality isn't going to be THAT much of a factor....SnM..out
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Old 03-10-2008, 05:36 PM   #42 (permalink)
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I think introducing them and hoping we all hit it off would be the
greatest good. then again we could seem dull after they meet each other.
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Old 03-10-2008, 06:26 PM   #43 (permalink)
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Ideally, for us, the couples would play nicely together However comma If we had to choose, personality is sexier than looks, hands down!
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Making the right connection is better then just making a connection
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Old 03-15-2008, 01:41 PM   #45 (permalink)
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I am a playful person and I love to laugh and chat. Even while playing. so I to would have to go with the one with personality.
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