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This is a discussion on Personality or Looks within the General Swingers Stuff forums, part of the Swingers Topics category; I guess there a lot of "dedicated" lifestylers out there. As of this moment, 38.46% want to ...
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| I am playing with the HOT couple - because they are right out of my adolescent fantasies! | | 7 | 6.60% |
| I am playing with the couple with personality - because they are just so much fun to talk to! | | 59 | 55.66% |
| I am going to talk to both a play with neither - because I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. | | 2 | 1.89% |
| I am going to try to find a way to squeeze them both in tonight. | | 37 | 34.91% |
| I am going to find someone else to play with. | | 0 | 0% |
| I am going to fake diarreha... Whoever still wants me wins! | | 1 | 0.94% |
| Voters: 106. You may not vote on this poll | |||
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| Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,307 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59 | I thought this was an interesting question, looking at it - My answer would be very different if it were the first night I had met them both ... in that case I'd be as likely to play with either (or hope to play with both). But if I'd already played with both of them and learned about their personalities, I'd probably either end up playing with neither again OR I'd be more likely to play with the cute couple with personality. No matter how hot the couple was if I had seen a total lack of personality it would be a turn-off. |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 772 Location: Florida Status: couples SLS Name:tiavampire Blog Entries: 1 | We have met some beautiful peeps with nasty attitude and that swear alot, it made them ugly as hell. Personality will win over looks any day in our book. |
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| Being good is overrated Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 2,934 Location: Poconos, PA Status: The boss of Mr. Sweet SLS Name:Sweet_tna | Even if the option of "squeeze 'em both in" hadn't been included, that would've been my first choice. But in the spirit of the poll, let's say that wasn't an option. I'd choose the couple with personality any day and twice on Sunday ('cause we'd probably still be at the club after midnight anyway). ![]() =)
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 137 Location: Central Florida Status: Couple | I would play with personality. The reason is simple...if Mrs. Ekies had only played with the hot ones I'd have been in the cold and by myself all these years. More importantly though, I consider myself a bit of a conversationalist and will gravitate to anyone (nearly) who is fun to talk with, flirt with and so on. Being less than perfect, I try to keep my weaknesses in mind when I'm "judging" someone else (please take that the way it's meant). We met a couple a year or so ago where the wife was spectacular to look at and even more spectacular to talk to (engineer). He was a complete and utter jerk. Absolutely convinced of his superiority in all things and not a bit afraid to let you know it. In this case we had two physically beautiful people and one mentally beautiful and one mentally ugly. Incidentally, we haven't talked to them since. In the end, a great person and personality will be my choice over pure physical beauty. Trace |
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| Here to Stay | In this situation we would try to connect with both during the night if not get all 3 couples together. Admittingly, we normally prefer personality over looks, but in this case it's not that couple 1 has personality flaws. It could be that nerves were an issue the first time around so we'd give them another try. now if the first couple were arrogant, self-centered, abnoxious, etc--it would be a no-brainer to go for the personality over good looks. |
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| Luv seeing friends quiver Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 298 Location: California central coast Status: couple SLS Name:two42lovers Blog Entries: 2 | Why only one? We'd play with both! (and then look for a 3rd hottie couple for desert! Mmmmmmm!) ![]() |
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| Active Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 15 Location: DFW, TX Status: M.Male | .....I'll take looks on the 1st encounter or 1st few encounters....if the Lady has a lack of personality......but has a sweet ass.....when it comes to the ol Turbo Pound...her lack of a radiant personality isn't going to be THAT much of a factor....SnM..out |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 106 Location: CT Status: couple | I think introducing them and hoping we all hit it off would be the greatest good. then again we could seem dull after they meet each other. ya just never know. |
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| anything boys can do.... Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 1,751 Location: Utopia Status: Trouble maker SLS Name:playtoys69 Blog Entries: 1 | I am a playful person and I love to laugh and chat. Even while playing. so I to would have to go with the one with personality. Your friend, Prettylady ![]()
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