Personality or Looks

Spoomonkey · 09-05-2005, 08:42 AM

I finally voted...

I went with "squeeze them both in".

The more I thought about it, the more I figured, if we did that, then both couples would be aware of the position we were in that night - and if nothing happened, it would likely be understood - and if a six-some happened... Well... Bully!

Spoomonkey

WildMiCouple · 09-05-2005, 03:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

and if a six-some happened... Well... Bully!
Spoomonkey

Geez Spoo.......was there really any other choice?

Brett (and Tammy)

Spoomonkey · 09-05-2005, 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by WildMiCouple

Geez Spoo.......was there really any other choice?

Only to a monkey-sized brain

Spoomonkey

WildMiCouple · 09-05-2005, 04:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

Only to a monkey-sized brain

Spoomonkey

I just think you put too much thought into it

How much does attitude play into the equation for you Spoo? For me.....that seals the deal as much as personality....or perhaps more. But maybe that is part of the personality that you see up front. Now.....maybe I'm thinking too much

Brett (and Tammy)

Spoomonkey · 09-05-2005, 05:07 PM

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Originally Posted by WildMiCouple

Now.....maybe I'm thinking too much

Yeah... I think so...

I guess the variables that weren't mentioned need to be considered "all things being equal." Someone asked, "who's better in the bedroom?" That needs to be a tie as well...

So basically, they are the same people except one couple is hotter to the same degree that the other couple has a better personality...

But, the hot couple is no more lacking personality than the personable couple is lacking looks...

Other than that - they both drink from the same fountain.

Spoomonkey

EvilMJ · 09-05-2005, 07:53 PM

Yup I voted for squeeze them both in. I am a greedy little beastie with lots of energy to spare

. I want everyone to be happy, don't want to hurt any feelings and hell..if you can get everyone to go for it, it could turn out to be a good time.

Although personallity is much much more important to me, we had this discussion the other day about a guy who was quite a bit shorter than me and phsycially not my type, but his personality was so good that i found myself attracted to him. go figure.

**two4youinswva** · 09-05-2005, 08:06 PM

Ok, I'll admit it. We're greedy.

We're going for the "Daily Double". facelick

We like 6 person pile-ups, and pursue them when possible. So that's the angle we're going for.

Hey, if we "crash & burn", we still have each other!

Just_us49 · 09-05-2005, 10:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Vespertine

I voted to try to fit them both in, because that choice was closest to what I'd actually do.

I'd introduce the two couples to eachother, grab a table and hope the six of us connected.

Ves you and I think alike. When you guys coming up to our club?

-D

Sweet_Candy · 09-06-2005, 07:01 AM

We had to go with "squeeze them both in". Our version of fun is the group sex. facelick Think of the possibilities!

**good times** · 09-06-2005, 07:06 PM

Well, I picked "I am going to try to find a way to squeeze them both in tonight." but the reality is that this has happened to us several times and what we actually did was " I am going to talk to both a play with neither - because I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.". I have to say that in these instances we tried to get everyone together to play but the two (or more) other couples didn't hit it off so we went home and enjoyed the good times with each other. At one point this was happening so often that we stopped going to the club so regularly just to give it a little break. Up to that point we went to the clubs about once a week, now we still only go about twice a month at random. It seemed to be that people we had played with knew we were their every Friday and so that is when they would show up. They all showed up "expecting" to hook up with us, which is something we try not to do, and it resulted in no hooking up at all because we didn't want to hurt anyones feelings.

SluttyWife · 09-06-2005, 07:44 PM

Personality wins me over every time. :-) The emphasis would definitely be on the personality couple but if the cardboard couple wants in....they are soooo welcome
as long as personality couple is game with it all. We can never have too many friends...always sexy fish out there!

Hopefully some of what we personalities (swapping, bumping, etc.) bring to the pot will rub off on them. Bless their hearts! <patting cardboard couple on the head>

Yours,

Slutty Wife ;-*

WildMiCouple · 09-06-2005, 09:37 PM

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Originally Posted by good times

Well, I picked "I am going to try to find a way to squeeze them both in tonight." but the reality is that this has happened to us several times and what we actually did was " I am going to talk to both a play with neither - because I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings."....... They all showed up "expecting" to hook up with us, which is something we try not to do, and it resulted in no hooking up at all because we didn't want to hurt anyones feelings.

The obvious choice was try and fit both couples in.......but it's clear with your experiences that the opposite is more likely to result. We have the same attitude....and would probably end up with the same results as you guys too, as we go to the clubs with no expectations other than have a fun nite out with each other. No expectations.....no disappointments

Brett (and Tammy)

Mich149 · 09-22-2005, 12:22 AM

We'd have to go with talk to both - play with none, because we hate confrontation. But it would be the people with personality that we'd try to reschedule with.

curiousduo30 · 09-22-2005, 11:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Mich149

We'd have to go with talk to both - play with none, because we hate confrontation. But it would be the people with personality that we'd try to reschedule with.

I voted this way also...I too hate the confrontation, if it can be avoided, I will make sure it is, but I would reschedule with the personality people... However, others have made me see that fitting in both would be just as fun, if not more!!! I won't vote again, but if I did, it would be for that one! lol

~Mrs. Curiousduo30

jcbicouple · 09-22-2005, 06:56 PM

We'd sqeeze them both in! Preferably at the same time, but seperately would do.

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I am going to talk to both a play with neither - because I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.	2	1.89%
I am going to try to find a way to squeeze them both in tonight.	37	34.91%
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09-05-2005, 08:42 AM	#16 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,563 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? SLS Name:Spoomonkey	Re: Personality or Looks I finally voted... I went with "squeeze them both in". The more I thought about it, the more I figured, if we did that, then both couples would be aware of the position we were in that night - and if nothing happened, it would likely be understood - and if a six-some happened... Well... Bully! Spoomonkey __________________ "Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." - C. S. Lewis

09-05-2005, 07:53 PM	#21 (permalink)
EvilMJ Pure Evil..In a cute suit Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 2,497 Location: Nova Scotia Status: Couple	Re: Personality or Looks Yup I voted for squeeze them both in. I am a greedy little beastie with lots of energy to spare . I want everyone to be happy, don't want to hurt any feelings and hell..if you can get everyone to go for it, it could turn out to be a good time. Although personallity is much much more important to me, we had this discussion the other day about a guy who was quite a bit shorter than me and phsycially not my type, but his personality was so good that i found myself attracted to him. go figure. __________________ "Well! Evil to some is always good to others." - Jane Austen

09-05-2005, 08:06 PM	#22 (permalink)
two4youinswva Better than Ice Cream Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 2,276 Location: va Status: Couple. He posts, She reads Blog Entries: 1	Re: Personality or Looks Ok, I'll admit it. We're greedy. We're going for the "Daily Double". facelick We like 6 person pile-ups, and pursue them when possible. So that's the angle we're going for. Hey, if we "crash & burn", we still have each other! __________________ The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do. -Walter Bagehot

09-06-2005, 07:01 AM	#24 (permalink)
Sweet_Candy Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 535 Location: Houston area Status: Couple	Re: Personality or Looks We had to go with "squeeze them both in". Our version of fun is the group sex. facelick Think of the possibilities! __________________ Sweet_Candy

09-06-2005, 07:06 PM	#25 (permalink)
good times Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,420 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times SLS Name:randp	Re: Personality or Looks Well, I picked "I am going to try to find a way to squeeze them both in tonight." but the reality is that this has happened to us several times and what we actually did was " I am going to talk to both a play with neither - because I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.". I have to say that in these instances we tried to get everyone together to play but the two (or more) other couples didn't hit it off so we went home and enjoyed the good times with each other. At one point this was happening so often that we stopped going to the club so regularly just to give it a little break. Up to that point we went to the clubs about once a week, now we still only go about twice a month at random. It seemed to be that people we had played with knew we were their every Friday and so that is when they would show up. They all showed up "expecting" to hook up with us, which is something we try not to do, and it resulted in no hooking up at all because we didn't want to hurt anyones feelings. __________________ R (He is R, she is P)

09-06-2005, 07:44 PM	#26 (permalink)
SluttyWife Flying solo Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 559 Location: Austin Status: single	Re: Personality or Looks Personality wins me over every time. :-) The emphasis would definitely be on the personality couple but if the cardboard couple wants in....they are soooo welcome as long as personality couple is game with it all. We can never have too many friends...always sexy fish out there! Hopefully some of what we personalities (swapping, bumping, etc.) bring to the pot will rub off on them. Bless their hearts! <patting cardboard couple on the head> Yours, Slutty Wife ;-* __________________ "Too much of a good thing is wonderful!." -- Mae West

09-22-2005, 12:22 AM	#28 (permalink)
Mich149 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 323 Location: Detroit, MI Status: On the Prowl - lol SLS Name:mich149	Re: Personality or Looks We'd have to go with talk to both - play with none, because we hate confrontation. But it would be the people with personality that we'd try to reschedule with.

09-22-2005, 06:56 PM	#30 (permalink)
jcbicouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 680 Location: Indiana Status: Happily Married Couple SLS Name:jcbicouple	Re: Personality or Looks We'd sqeeze them both in! Preferably at the same time, but seperately would do. facelick facelick __________________ People live in cities, but people are alive in the woods.

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