Do swingers get bored with strip clubs?

jimcat · 08-06-2002, 04:55 PM

It has just recently hit me that I have little or no desire to go to strip clubs since my wife and I have been swinging. Was interested in knowing if anyone else has experienced this? I always enjoyed a strip club as much as the next guy in the past. Is it that I'm jaded after experiencing the swinging lifestyle? Do the alluring moves of the stripper seem somewhat less alluring after dancing with the sexy wife of a swinging couple whose motives are truly sexually.
jimcat

ciscosv · 08-06-2002, 05:14 PM

IMO, I could care less for strip clubs. My wife and I do go but very rarely. Probably been to 3 or 4 times since we have been together. Canada's (Windsor) strip clubs are the way to go. But the real deal is that I can think of better ways to piss away dollar bills/loonies. She actually likes going more than I do. That is probably because the ladies like to chat it up with her. She got a job offer from one club a month ago and I know she would bring home the bacon. She wouldn't do it for many reasons and the drunk horny bastards is number 1 on the list.

To 1/2 answer your question. Watching strippers swing from a pole is alot more boring than swingin good time in general!

Sophisticated Cowgirl · 08-06-2002, 05:41 PM

My husband says he doesn't quite understand the fun of going to stip clubs: it's not getting you laid, so why waste time.

He didn't express much interest in other women over the years we've been together.

He'd rather stay home, invite me to take a bath with him and go to bed earlier. <img border="0" alt="[Smiley_sex]" title="" src="graemlins/smilysex.gif" />

CanadianCouple · 08-06-2002, 05:48 PM

<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by jimcat:
It has just recently hit me that I have little or no desire to go to strip clubs since my wife and I have been swinging. Was interested in knowing if anyone else has experienced this? I always enjoyed a strip club as much as the next guy in the past. Is it that I'm jaded after experiencing the swinging lifestyle? Do the alluring moves of the stripper seem somewhat less alluring after dancing with the sexy wife of a swinging couple whose motives are truly sexually.
jimcat<hr /></blockquote>Believe it or not jimcat, I've never been to a strip club. Just no interest. Perhaps this is a result of having spent the past 14 years frequenting nudist camps, but although I admire the naked female form as much as any man, I really don't have an interest in visiting a strip club to see them.

Dan

TeamSoBe · 08-06-2002, 07:46 PM

Okay, as usual we have to be the dissenting voice.

Strip clubs are fun.

sexypairca · 08-06-2002, 10:37 PM

We have both gone to strip bars (seperately) and agree that they are no big deal. We tend only to go when there is a bachelor/bachelorette party.

I have always had something out of the ordinary happen when I have gone, so I tend not to expect anything erotic. Once a male stripper was trying to tease me by removing his leather zip off pants while standing directly over me (on the table). Well my kind of luck made it a side show, my hair got caught in the zipper <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="eek.gif" /> and well it was quite interesting removing his pants from my head while he was still partially in them. I'll bet that wasn't part of his usual routine <img border="0" alt="[LOL]" title="" src="graemlins/lol.gif" /> .

Another time my friend had relatives here from Ireland. We figured that the ladies should go out to a strip club just as the guys were. Little did we know that this woman had never seen a nude man other than her husband. Once she got over the initial shock she was almost out of control. To make a long story short, she divorced in less than a year <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="eek.gif" /> .

Annette

Brian and Jo · 08-06-2002, 10:56 PM

We never go to strip clubs. We have more then enough opportunity to ogle naked bodies at the nudist clubs we frequent but what we prefer is the combination of nudity and sex at our parties with our swinging friends.

***JustAskJulie*** · 08-06-2002, 11:34 PM

I think I enjoy going to strip clubs more than hubby does. Usually it's my idea to go, for him I think it's one of those "costs too much with too little return" things. I enjoy watching the dances so long as they put some effort into it and I always get at least one lap dance. I also enjoy watching the male strippers... and then some <EG>

Quin · 08-07-2002, 11:21 AM

Quote:

Okay, as usual we have to be the dissenting voice.

Strip clubs are fun

As part owner of a strip club, I'm glad someone likes and enjoys them. I have always enjoyed them...male or female strippers. You have a great one down there in Miami, Treasure Island. Have spent some time there and then some time with some of the strippers there at a private party, which was a blast!!

Quin

OhioCouple · 08-07-2002, 12:49 PM

I can't speak for Gene on this as I really don't know if he has or not. We have never gone to one together nor has the subject came up.

But....and this is so comical, about 15 years ago my sister and I decided to go find out what our then boyfriends found so appealing about strip clubs. At the time and I don't know if still holds true, there were about 10 or more on an area which is known as the Dixie Strip in our area. We decided we would hit each one of them together and get the scoop! We found nothing really appealing about it at all, but noticed that there was nearly as many men as women in attendance. What I remember most about it tho was that we blew about thirty bucks a piece in cover charges, juke box and a drink in each place. Needless to say we were plastered by 7pm. :ROFL: I can still feel that hangover! :LOL:

It was probably the quality of places that we visited as late last year when my brother was home, he suggested we go and have a drink and talk about some situations regarding our parents after leaving the nursing home. I followed him not knowing where we were going and lo and behold it was a strip club. (This is when I found out that he was a swinger) The club was much different than any in my memories and was very tasteful in appearance and had a highly charged sexual atmosphere. Hmmm....too bad I was with my brother! :LOL:

I would probably go back to that particular place, but truly don't have the desire to go to one for just the "thrill" of it, but then I have become the same way about clubs too.

Mich149 · 08-07-2002, 06:44 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by TeamSoBe:
Okay, as usual we have to be the dissenting voice.

Well, your voice just got louder by two!

CyberMWC · 08-08-2002, 12:53 AM

Strip clubs are an ok diversion for a bit, but in the long run, they just don't do anything for me.

And since we began swinging, I have even less desire to go to them except to find single females. Dancers have to date someone.... *Wicked Grin*

CyberHusband

youngswingers · 08-09-2002, 11:03 AM

Strip clubs are like eye candy. Beautiful women dancing seductively, wearing great outfits (before they take them off) , and trying their best to turn you on... hard to see why we love it <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="wink.gif" /> We go every once in awhile to clubs that have "couple's nights" and even though we know that we'll be getting a lot more than a lapdance in a few hours it is still great foreplay.

LovelyLynn · 08-17-2002, 03:02 AM

Well,I am a stripper and I love to go to other clubs with my husband.We usually go to a particular club wher the girls get a little nasty

I personally think its erotic to watch the girls move,and that gets the hubby excited.Then we usually hit a sex store on the way home and grab a new toy to try.It makes for a fun evening

08-21-2002, 12:34 PM

I don't find strip clubs nearly as exciting as I once did...I guess there's something about being able to look, but being denied the opportunity to touch which I now find to be a bit of a let down. There is still the erotic delight of seeing a beautiful girl( or rather lots of them) remove her clothes for the first time, which is always a thrill, but in the back of my mind I know that to them, the dancers, I'm just another mark and they will go out of their way to divest me of as many of my dollars as they can. Once that realization has sunk in good, the rest of the show has little appeal. Every once in a while, though, you come across that one dancer who genuinely seems to really enjoy what she's doing.. She knows she's sexy, and she's proud of what she can do up on the stage, and puts a lot of energy and excitment into her performance. Those dancers are true ententainers, and they will get my money whether they stick their titties in my face or not.

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08-06-2002, 04:55 PM	#1 (permalink)
jimcat Active Member Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 41	Do swingers get bored with strip clubs? It has just recently hit me that I have little or no desire to go to strip clubs since my wife and I have been swinging. Was interested in knowing if anyone else has experienced this? I always enjoyed a strip club as much as the next guy in the past. Is it that I'm jaded after experiencing the swinging lifestyle? Do the alluring moves of the stripper seem somewhat less alluring after dancing with the sexy wife of a swinging couple whose motives are truly sexually. jimcat

08-06-2002, 05:14 PM	#2 (permalink)
ciscosv Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 750 Location: Redford, Michigan Status: Married Couple	IMO, I could care less for strip clubs. My wife and I do go but very rarely. Probably been to 3 or 4 times since we have been together. Canada's (Windsor) strip clubs are the way to go. But the real deal is that I can think of better ways to piss away dollar bills/loonies. She actually likes going more than I do. That is probably because the ladies like to chat it up with her. She got a job offer from one club a month ago and I know she would bring home the bacon. She wouldn't do it for many reasons and the drunk horny bastards is number 1 on the list. To 1/2 answer your question. Watching strippers swing from a pole is alot more boring than swingin good time in general! __________________ M&M Melts in your mouth, not in your hand

08-06-2002, 05:48 PM	#4 (permalink)
CanadianCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 1,139 Location: New Brunswick, Canada Status: Married Couple	</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Originally posted by jimcat: <strong>It has just recently hit me that I have little or no desire to go to strip clubs since my wife and I have been swinging. Was interested in knowing if anyone else has experienced this? I always enjoyed a strip club as much as the next guy in the past. Is it that I'm jaded after experiencing the swinging lifestyle? Do the alluring moves of the stripper seem somewhat less alluring after dancing with the sexy wife of a swinging couple whose motives are truly sexually. jimcat</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Believe it or not jimcat, I've never been to a strip club. Just no interest. Perhaps this is a result of having spent the past 14 years frequenting nudist camps, but although I admire the naked female form as much as any man, I really don't have an interest in visiting a strip club to see them. Dan

08-06-2002, 07:46 PM	#5 (permalink)
TeamSoBe Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 507 Location: South Beach, Florida Status: M. Half of Couple	Okay, as usual we have to be the dissenting voice. Strip clubs are fun. __________________ i love everybody. you're next.

08-06-2002, 05:41 PM	#3 (permalink)
Sophisticated Cowgirl Registered Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 9 Location: WY	My husband says he doesn't quite understand the fun of going to stip clubs: it's not getting you laid, so why waste time. He didn't express much interest in other women over the years we've been together. He'd rather stay home, invite me to take a bath with him and go to bed earlier. <img border="0" alt="[Smiley_sex]" title="" src="graemlins/smilysex.gif" />

08-06-2002, 10:37 PM	#6 (permalink)
sexypairca Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 670 Location: Windsor, Ontario Status: married couple SLS Name:sexypairca	We have both gone to strip bars (seperately) and agree that they are no big deal. We tend only to go when there is a bachelor/bachelorette party. I have always had something out of the ordinary happen when I have gone, so I tend not to expect anything erotic. Once a male stripper was trying to tease me by removing his leather zip off pants while standing directly over me (on the table). Well my kind of luck made it a side show, my hair got caught in the zipper <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="eek.gif" /> and well it was quite interesting removing his pants from my head while he was still partially in them. I'll bet that wasn't part of his usual routine <img border="0" alt="[LOL]" title="" src="graemlins/lol.gif" /> . Another time my friend had relatives here from Ireland. We figured that the ladies should go out to a strip club just as the guys were. Little did we know that this woman had never seen a nude man other than her husband. Once she got over the initial shock she was almost out of control. To make a long story short, she divorced in less than a year <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="eek.gif" /> . Annette __________________ I'm not cheap, but I am on special this week.

08-06-2002, 10:56 PM	#7 (permalink)
Brian and Jo Brian and Jo Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 238 Location: Ontario Status: Couple Blog Entries: 3	We never go to strip clubs. We have more then enough opportunity to ogle naked bodies at the nudist clubs we frequent but what we prefer is the combination of nudity and sex at our parties with our swinging friends.

08-06-2002, 11:34 PM	#8 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,307 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	I think I enjoy going to strip clubs more than hubby does. Usually it's my idea to go, for him I think it's one of those "costs too much with too little return" things. I enjoy watching the dances so long as they put some effort into it and I always get at least one lap dance. I also enjoy watching the male strippers... and then some <EG> __________________ Julie Owner/ Admin http://www.swingersboard.com

08-07-2002, 12:49 PM	#10 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,616 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	I can't speak for Gene on this as I really don't know if he has or not. We have never gone to one together nor has the subject came up. But....and this is so comical, about 15 years ago my sister and I decided to go find out what our then boyfriends found so appealing about strip clubs. At the time and I don't know if still holds true, there were about 10 or more on an area which is known as the Dixie Strip in our area. We decided we would hit each one of them together and get the scoop! We found nothing really appealing about it at all, but noticed that there was nearly as many men as women in attendance. What I remember most about it tho was that we blew about thirty bucks a piece in cover charges, juke box and a drink in each place. Needless to say we were plastered by 7pm. :ROFL: I can still feel that hangover! :LOL: It was probably the quality of places that we visited as late last year when my brother was home, he suggested we go and have a drink and talk about some situations regarding our parents after leaving the nursing home. I followed him not knowing where we were going and lo and behold it was a strip club. (This is when I found out that he was a swinger) The club was much different than any in my memories and was very tasteful in appearance and had a highly charged sexual atmosphere. Hmmm....too bad I was with my brother! :LOL: I would probably go back to that particular place, but truly don't have the desire to go to one for just the "thrill" of it, but then I have become the same way about clubs too. __________________ Remember that human beings are complicated creatures. We like our bedtime routines but dislike routine in our bed times. - Sallie Foley, M.S.W. Last edited by JustAskJulie : 06-22-2004 at 06:43 PM. Reason: to remove extranious tags

08-08-2002, 12:53 AM	#12 (permalink)
CyberMWC Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2000 Posts: 70 Location: MI,USA	Strip clubs are an ok diversion for a bit, but in the long run, they just don't do anything for me. And since we began swinging, I have even less desire to go to them except to find single females. Dancers have to date someone.... Wicked Grin CyberHusband

08-09-2002, 11:03 AM	#13 (permalink)
youngswingers Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2001 Posts: 98 Location: Austin, TX	Strip clubs are like eye candy. Beautiful women dancing seductively, wearing great outfits (before they take them off) , and trying their best to turn you on... hard to see why we love it <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="wink.gif" /> We go every once in awhile to clubs that have "couple's nights" and even though we know that we'll be getting a lot more than a lapdance in a few hours it is still great foreplay.

08-17-2002, 03:02 AM	#14 (permalink)
LovelyLynn Active Member Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 25 Location: S.W. Missouri Status: M. Female	Well,I am a stripper and I love to go to other clubs with my husband.We usually go to a particular club wher the girls get a little nastyI personally think its erotic to watch the girls move,and that gets the hubby excited.Then we usually hit a sex store on the way home and grab a new toy to try.It makes for a fun evening __________________ Lynn Thank You,Drive Through:)

08-21-2002, 12:34 PM	#15 (permalink)
<sportync> Posts: n/a	I don't find strip clubs nearly as exciting as I once did...I guess there's something about being able to look, but being denied the opportunity to touch which I now find to be a bit of a let down. There is still the erotic delight of seeing a beautiful girl( or rather lots of them) remove her clothes for the first time, which is always a thrill, but in the back of my mind I know that to them, the dancers, I'm just another mark and they will go out of their way to divest me of as many of my dollars as they can. Once that realization has sunk in good, the rest of the show has little appeal. Every once in a while, though, you come across that one dancer who genuinely seems to really enjoy what she's doing.. She knows she's sexy, and she's proud of what she can do up on the stage, and puts a lot of energy and excitment into her performance. Those dancers are true ententainers, and they will get my money whether they stick their titties in my face or not.

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