What have you found sexy when swinging?

[LikeMinds321]

As a new swinger I would like to hear about your favorite discoveries - what you found particularly sexy when swinging.

TNT posted here about how she uses her long hair in seductive ways.

I loved this idea and would like more suggestions.

Tell me what someone did (or you did to someone) that turned you on, surprised you, shocked you because you didn't think you'd like it...but did!

LM

[BradAndJanet]

I turned a woman on to a new position - her flat on her stomach, legs together, with me on top - that she'd never tried before. She came twice, something she said rarely happened before, and I felt like the cock-of-the-walk for days afterwards!

-B

[Mrs Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by BradAndJanet

I turned a woman on to a new position - her flat on her stomach, legs together, with me on top - that she'd never tried before. She came twice, something she said rarely happened before, and I felt like the cock-of-the-walk for days afterwards! -B

This has been one of our favorites!!!! facelick Might I suggest the way we do it is have the female add "the bullet" on her clit facelick god it made me cry I came so hard!

Mrs Spoomonkey

[TNT]

I'm glad that I'm not alone in sometimes having a crying woman after a great loving session. The first time I just wanted to know what I did wrong.

On the topic of things I never thought I would enjoy, I had never understood the money shot in porn. You know, where he pulls out and cums on the woman.
However, the first time i saw it done to Teresa I said "Eureka! I get it now!". It was a huge turnon for me to see another man ejaculate on her. I would never have dreamed that I would enjoy that.

Ted

[BradAndJanet]

Originally Posted by Mrs Spoomonkey

This has been one of our favorites!!!! facelick Might I suggest the way we do it is have the female add "the bullet" on her clit facelick god it made me cry I came so hard!

Mrs Spoomonkey

I'll take that under advisement and let you know how it works out.

-B

[mwsw4ever]

One thing i found out that i really liked was when i was on top and the other woman brought her head up and bit me lightly on my shoulder(huge turn on WOW!).Also tounge rings on women make for some of the best oral sex to be had.

[JustAskJulie]

Having my hair pulled. I would have never thought that would be a turn on... but when it's done right it's a huge one.

[TNT]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

Having my hair pulled. I would have never thought that would be a turn on... but when it's done right it's a huge one.

Agree 100% on that !

Teresa

[Mrs Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

Having my hair pulled. I would have never thought that would be a turn on... but when it's done right it's a huge one.

Dito that for me too!!

Mrs Spoomonkey

[BradAndJanet]

Ok, ladies, how is it 'done right'? Curious minds want to learn...

-B

[DnHtxCPL]

Yeah the hair pulling thing. The wife had that done to her during the last 3sum. Definately turned her on. I learned something that night. What a turn on

D

[emptynest]

Originally Posted by TNT

I'm glad that I'm not alone in sometimes having a crying woman after a great loving session. The first time I just wanted to know what I did wrong.

On the topic of things I never thought I would enjoy, I had never understood the money shot in porn. You know, where he pulls out and cums on the woman.
However, the first time i saw it done to Teresa I said "Eureka! I get it now!". It was a huge turnon for me to see another man ejaculate on her. I would never have dreamed that I would enjoy that.

Ted

I saw your post from 10/17 and felt compelled to share. I had always enjoyed watching what you call the "money shot" in porn. Yet, even while knowing that about myself , I was amazed how much it turned me on to see another guy ejaculate on my wife's breasts. That first time was 15 years ago and I still enjoy it when another guy cums on her.

[Vespertine]

Originally Posted by BradAndJanet

Ok, ladies, how is it 'done right'? Curious minds want to learn...

-B

Yes, hair pulling is a turn on!

What you need to do Brad, is to run your hand up the back of her scalp, then crunch your fingers into a fist, slowly- gathering a handfull of hair and gently drawing it towards you in a slow pull. Pull and tug with the movements of your lovemaking. It's nice to do it with both hands on either side of her head and pull back tightly enough to expose her neck and give it a gentle bite or two whilst you make love to her. Or, when entering her from behind, if she has long hair, twist the entire length of it in your hand (like a ponytail) and pull her head back to you for a kiss.

Just make sure when you're pulling hair to get a large chunk of it to limit pain. The idea is for the woman to feel the pressure and your control over her.

[TNT]

Originally Posted by Vespertine

Yes, hair pulling is a turn on!

What you need to do Brad, is to run your hand up the back of her scalp, then crunch your fingers into a fist, slowly- gathering a handfull of hair and gently drawing it towards you in a slow pull. Pull and tug with the movements of your lovemaking. It's nice to do it with both hands on either side of her head and pull back tightly enough to expose her neck and give it a gentle bite or two whilst you make love to her. Or, when entering her from behind, if she has long hair, twist the entire length of it in your hand (like a ponytail) and pull her head back to you for a kiss.

Just make sure when you're pulling hair to get a large chunk of it to limit pain. The idea is for the woman to feel the pressure and your control over her.

Yes ! What Vespertine said

Teresa

[LikeMinds321]

Exactly.

LM