What are Your Reasons for Swinging

[realcplub2]

1. Who initiated the conversation? (Bob) Mr Real did

2. What reason(s) were given for wanting to swing? When we first got together we slowly shared what we loved about sex, and started sharing our fantasies.. Having known about the swinging lifestyle prior to getting together, it was a natural fit, to satisfy those fantasies. Thus our Adventure began


3. Were those reason(s) TOTALLY honest? (i.e. it was for "her" fantasy when really and truly it was his) In our case after those long an totally hot fantasy sharing sessions, it was a mutual thing..


4. What was the initial reaction of the s/o? At first she was like, No..No way.. and over time, and again being open and honest with her, and explaining that knowing her desires, is the fastest way to satisfying them. I never judged her, or her desires.. and still don't just as she doenst judge mine.


5. How did you start out? (soft swing, threesome (mmf or fmf) In our case, we started out with MFM, spent the evening enjoying that so totally, she litteraly passed out from orgasming


6. What were your (both of you) feelings afterwards? I was exilerated, She was a littel worried/guilty feeling, and again the talk afterwards was just as the talk before. I explained that, I was fine with it, she enjoyed herself, and I loved it because I loved seeing her enjoy it. And I did, and enjoyed when we shared her afterglow..


7. How do you (or do you) share the control of the lifestyle? In our case, I am the first line in the searching/interviewing process. Which can be both good and bad, I have held great conversations with prospective playmates, and had it all go south when they go from hello to filthy is under two minutes. She doesnt mind it when a conversation "DRIFTS" there, but is completely turned off when it slams right into it.

8. How have your attitudes and/or misgivings changed? Our few misgivings are, the people we fell out of touch with, since we came south. How have our attitudes changed.. In a nutshell, we are a bit more cautious than we were before, We are looking for regular playmates rather than the quick one night friends. nothing wrong with it, just not what we are all about now.. we want people we can enjoy a evening with, and enjoy over and over again..

[BICPLNRH777]

1. Who initiated the conversation? typically I do since he works all the time.

2. What reason(s) were given for wanting to swing? mostly out of curiosity, i wanted to see him with other women and guys, and we wanted to just add spice.

3. Were those reason(s) TOTALLY honest? (i.e. it was for "her" fantasy when really and truly it was his) well i have qutie the low self esteem about myself and therefore i dont give it up to him very often, so in my mind, it was in part giving him what he needs from a woman...so allowing him to be with other women fixed his needs and i got to also be apart.

4. What was the initial reaction of the s/o? he was a lil shocked, but excited at the same time.

5. How did you start out? (soft swing, threesome (mmf or fmf) first experience was MMF...then led to 4somes...soft swing only...but we are entertaining the idea of full hard on swap

6. What were your (both of you) feelings afterwards? it was a bit exciting and what a turn on. i felt a bit weird just because i'd never seen him with a guy, but was still thrilled by the whole thing. his reactions were about the same i think.

7. How do you (or do you) share the control of the lifestyle? well between each other our lifestyle is equally controled

8. How have your attitudes and/or misgivings changed? attitudes havent changed, well not that i can tell anyway.