Once you meet a couple

**LikeMinds321** · 06-08-2004, 08:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

...we were at their house - for about the fifth time...

I can't believe you were that patient Spoo!

Quote:

Originally Posted by frenzb4sex

"I wanna big piece of meat"

For clarity I'd have to add "...how BIG is YOURS?"

LM

Spoomonkey · 06-08-2004, 08:55 PM

We are patient people - but, as the good book says, there is a time for everything and yes - there IS a time to screw

Screw... Uh... Errr... I mean... Spoomonkey

ALilOEverything · 06-08-2004, 09:10 PM

I think you are a VERY patient person. I got so anxious when we met up with a couple wondering if anything was going to happen and how it was going to come around that I don't think I could take that much anticipation just to figure out they weren't in it for the same thing.

Spoomonkey · 06-08-2004, 09:14 PM

I was the same way when I first started. I would refer to "potential encounters" as "Big Boy Christmas."

I've grown more patient as I've realized that the lifestyle is a lot of fun - even if you don't play. We have fun at the club, even if we go home early - and dinner with friends is still "dinner with friends" if the sexual chemistry is lacking.

Spoomonkey

ALilOEverything · 06-08-2004, 09:25 PM

I find myself grateful for just having a night out without the kids and having adult conversation. That alone makes it all worth it. Part of me can't wait for the novelty to wear off and be more relaxed about it but at the same time will it be as fun and exciting if the novelty does wear off? I'm sure it will but I do wonder. I suppose that too can make it the difference between a hobby and a lifestyle.

***JustAskJulie*** · 03-20-2008, 04:03 PM

This is a great question! Since we are currently falling into the category of those who prefer to NOT get to know people too much before playing. I'd say our experiences have been a matter of about an hour (if that) from meeting to clothes off. Granted, this is at a swinger club, so everything about the atmosphere is foreplay to an extent. A little talking, a little dancing and next thing you know you are in a private room taking the clothes off.

I think the harder situation would be those who don't do clubs but still prefer to not spend a lot of time getting to know people... I would think making that transition outside of a club would be a lot more difficult/ awkward. Would love to see some input from folks on that side of the fence.

sweet_tna · 03-20-2008, 05:27 PM

There are folks we've known for an hour or two that we've played with (parties), and there are folks we've known for a few weeks. It all depends on the circumstances.

=)

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06-08-2004, 08:55 PM	#17 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,563 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? SLS Name:Spoomonkey	Re: Once you meet a couple We are patient people - but, as the good book says, there is a time for everything and yes - there IS a time to screw Screw... Uh... Errr... I mean... Spoomonkey __________________ "Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." - C. S. Lewis

06-08-2004, 09:10 PM	#18 (permalink)
ALilOEverything A Little Of Everything Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 1,472 Location: Michigan Status: Couple	Re: Once you meet a couple I think you are a VERY patient person. I got so anxious when we met up with a couple wondering if anything was going to happen and how it was going to come around that I don't think I could take that much anticipation just to figure out they weren't in it for the same thing. __________________ ~Lilo

06-08-2004, 09:14 PM	#19 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,563 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? SLS Name:Spoomonkey	Re: Once you meet a couple I was the same way when I first started. I would refer to "potential encounters" as "Big Boy Christmas." I've grown more patient as I've realized that the lifestyle is a lot of fun - even if you don't play. We have fun at the club, even if we go home early - and dinner with friends is still "dinner with friends" if the sexual chemistry is lacking. Spoomonkey __________________ "Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." - C. S. Lewis

06-08-2004, 09:25 PM	#20 (permalink)
ALilOEverything A Little Of Everything Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 1,472 Location: Michigan Status: Couple	Re: Once you meet a couple I find myself grateful for just having a night out without the kids and having adult conversation. That alone makes it all worth it. Part of me can't wait for the novelty to wear off and be more relaxed about it but at the same time will it be as fun and exciting if the novelty does wear off? I'm sure it will but I do wonder. I suppose that too can make it the difference between a hobby and a lifestyle. __________________ ~Lilo

03-20-2008, 04:03 PM	#21 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,307 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	Re: Once you meet a couple This is a great question! Since we are currently falling into the category of those who prefer to NOT get to know people too much before playing. I'd say our experiences have been a matter of about an hour (if that) from meeting to clothes off. Granted, this is at a swinger club, so everything about the atmosphere is foreplay to an extent. A little talking, a little dancing and next thing you know you are in a private room taking the clothes off. I think the harder situation would be those who don't do clubs but still prefer to not spend a lot of time getting to know people... I would think making that transition outside of a club would be a lot more difficult/ awkward. Would love to see some input from folks on that side of the fence.

03-20-2008, 05:27 PM	#22 (permalink)
sweet_tna Being good is overrated Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 2,934 Location: Poconos, PA Status: The boss of Mr. Sweet SLS Name:Sweet_tna	Re: Once you meet a couple There are folks we've known for an hour or two that we've played with (parties), and there are folks we've known for a few weeks. It all depends on the circumstances. =) __________________ I'd rather go to hell for doing something I enjoyed than die wondering what it's like.

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