Gang Bang Advice

[lookingfornow]

We have been swinging for a couple years. We have been with four other couples and attended one house party. Most of the events have been good--we really enjoyed the house party! We have been on a slight break because of our schedules.

Lately, the wife has been increasingly interested in trying out some form of a gang bang. She liked being the center of attention of multiple men at the house party. So, she'd like to recreate the situation only this time she would be the complete center of attention for an evening.

While we each like the idea, we are concerned about the logistics of setting something up. We don't think that any of the couples that we have played with would allow their male halves to play alone. Maybe one, but we have yet to ask.

Anyway, we are interested in any advice others have about how best to recruit the guys.

We are reluctant to rely upon singles on ad sites for a couple reasons. Mainly, we have run into so many phonies that we feel we would have to meet them all in advance to "screen" them. That would take a lot of time which we frankly do not have with our busy schedules. Further, we understand from others that for every one that says they will show and actually does you will get two who will say that they will and won't.

We are thinking about attending a meet and greet and recruiting a group of unattached males or males who have permission to play separately for the gig. Has anyone else tried this approach?

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[undercovercpl]

If you want four guys to come.. invite twelve! You always get less than half to actually show up. Thats bee our experience.

[Chip_n_Muffy]

Personally, I would recruit from the couples on the ad sites. Talk to both halves of the couples to assure yourself that the fem half is ok with it. That would eliminate the "married singles" no shows. Who knows, the fem half might like to come along and watch. Always handy to have a fluffer or two in the wings, and I know some ladies are curious about gangbangs but are not willing to just plunge right in. Being an observer might ease their mind about considering it for themselves.

Chip

[btmfdr]

I would suggest starting a 'Gang Bang Club'...

If you were to find five other couples where the wives are also interested in a gang bang you could recruit them all. Than plan out a schedule where one wife gets all five guys one week, the next wife gets them next week and so on. Each male member of the club would have to commit to five nights of play, while the females would only get one but it would be a great ONE.

Jusdt my $ .02....

[good times]

We see this occasionally at the clubs. Usually they show up to the club early and throughout the night recruit the single guys they find interesting. Then later in the evening they get them all together and go to a room. That method seems to usually result in success. On the other hand we know women who have invited guys to show up to the club for a gang-bang and they are usually unsuccessful. In fact, I have yet to see one do that and have any more than one guy show up, usually none of them show up.

[oddcouple]

I've not experienced a gang bang and don't know if I would ever participate, but might be willing to watch Mr. Odd. But my questions is to any woman who HAS experienced a gang bang.....what was that like? I personally would be a little
intimidated by this. How do the guys act and/or treat you?

[willyoats]

I have participated twice in gang bangs with about 20 guys and one of the most wonderful woman I have ever known. Right now, my regular swinging partner has also done gang bang with, as she recalls, about 25 guys in one night. My wife has done 5 at one session in about an hour. Do you call that a gang bang? I call it just another wonderful night at the club. Also, I have seen it in other places. All of these experiences were at clubs that admit singles or at a nudist camp in northern Indiana which caters to swingers. I'm betting that trying to recruit a bunch through advertising will be a lot of work to little avail. Stick to the places that cater to fairly large crowds of singles.

By the way, in all of these experiences, the single guys were, to a man, polite, respectful and grateful.

[des1re06]

I've been asked in the past to organize a gang bang for a lady, and I would simply call around to the males who have attended my parties and ask if they could come for one specific night (either with or without their SO) for this one lady's pleasure.

I would recommend contacting a house party hostess to arrange this for you, due to safety reasons. If this is not possible, then I would go to an on-premise club and simply get the word out to the single males in attendance. In both situations, you have some sense of security. I would never organize something on my own in a hotel room or at my own house. Too dangerous.

Good luck and have fun!

Mrs. D

[lookingfornow]

Wow. 20 or 25---Ouch!!! Way too many. We were thinking 4 or 5 tops. Maybe that's not as much a gang bang as a good night at a club. I think the attraction for her is in being the only woman in the room and, thus, the focus of all of the sexual attention for all of the men.