Gangbang in Charleston,South Carolina

r_poseidon · 09-20-2006, 02:46 PM

I admit, I have been a bit (ok ok ok.. a *LOT*) of a lurker on this board. I must say that the majority of people seem very cool, laid back, and very "experienced" in this whole thing. (I hate hate HATE the word "lifestyle").
I have used the search function before, so before anyone recomends threads... I have read them! Also tried Googling, but... all porn sites. My thing is this... me and my girl of almost 2 years have just started into the MFM 3some scene. Now... I would like to surprise her with a gangbang. 5-7 guys including me. She is soo super picky on looks tho, it is kind of hard. Nothing bad, she just wants to be attracted and turned on by the people that are fucking her. I have signed up with Swing Lifestyle (the external profile is hedgehogstew.swinglifestyle.com). Now, do you really need 3 times the amount of guys that you would like to show up? What if they *all* show up? She doesn't want 21 guys, lol! Also, what are other members experiences w/ gangbangs? I welcome all success/horror stories. PM please if you don't want to post here on the board.
Also... are there any lean, white, tall guys in the North Charleston area? :-)
Ok, I admit not the best first post, but I find it hard to get my thoughts in order on this topic for some reason... :-) I am sure this will be revised/edited/added to later.
Thank you in advance!

dinkydow4us · 09-20-2006, 03:54 PM

Hi and welcome to the board

Even though this sounds like a great idea to you

make sure she's on the same page as you. It's her right

sometimes the best suprise, is no suprise

There's a chance it could blow up in your face

I hope everything works out for you guys, and great time is had by all

Good luck D.D.

r_poseidon · 09-20-2006, 04:55 PM

Oh no, we have discussed it. She wants it to happen, no doubt. I just want *when* it happens to be a surprise!

Pepper & Drew · 09-20-2006, 05:40 PM

Perhaps some of those who've tried to host one will answer, but it's really not as easy as you would think it would be to find that many guys. Hell, it's hard to find two single guys on the same night who you're comfortable with who are able to perform...I can't imagine 5-7. Perhaps an on-premise club would be the best option.

Tell her to get dressed up, go to the club, tell her to pick out who she likes, and go to a room. That way, she gets to pick who she wants, you get people there who are ready to play and everyone is happy.

Good luck!

Pepper

r_poseidon · 09-20-2006, 06:07 PM

I believe you, but I totally don't understand. LOL, I mean what red-blooded guy would not be jumping to do this? Maybe I am partial, but my girl is HOT, lol! (Check the Swing Lifestyle if ya don't believe me! :-) ) But in general, it is like... why would they say no? I just don't get it, lol, but whatever. Does anyone know of any on premise clubs in SC? Also... we went to just a pajama party thrown by Minx up in Jersey, very very intimidating. We really didn't enjoy ourselves, so I want that to be a last ditch option.

Jersey1979 · 09-20-2006, 06:10 PM

Well I agree, your girl is certainly hot.

SuAndBud · 09-20-2006, 06:18 PM

Oh, for a world without STD's.

Surely the best gangbang would be the anonymous gangbang.

What a shame we have to complicate matters by "getting to know" the other participants in such a (by our mother's standards) shameful act.

Su wants a blindfold gangbang, so she doesn't have to avoid someone's eyes when in Tesco or (even worse, perhaps) engage them in conversation. LOL.

WesternSwing · 09-20-2006, 10:35 PM

It's true that you have to invite at least double and probably three times the number you want. We have a single male friend that has been in several gangbangs and there have been times where it is him and the husband that are there... 9 other guys didn't show-up.

Since she is picky, how about letting her pick the men. Maybe meet them one by one for dinner or drinks over a few weeks and see if she is into them or not. If they show-up for dinner or drinks there is a better chance that they are real and not married men that can't get out of the house (I think the reason many don't show up). Then there is probably a better chance of them showing-up for the big show. PLUS, your girlfriend has already met them and will be more comfortable with them. AND, you have met them and have a better idea tha shit isn't going to get out of hand. Remember, you are her safety net.

Good luck, and have fun.

Mr. WS

***JustAskJulie*** · 09-20-2006, 11:01 PM

Since you've already used the search function and read all the other threads I won't bore you with repeating what I've already said since you've already read it.

r_poseidon · 09-21-2006, 12:48 AM

LOL, it's cool. Supplemental info is always good!! :-)

r_poseidon · 09-21-2006, 10:18 AM

I think we are going to try the on-premise club idea. A friend of ours is taking us so some good one in Tennessee here in a month or so. He also said that is the best idea, so... thanks guys!

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09-20-2006, 02:46 PM	#1 (permalink)
r_poseidon Here to Stay Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 62 Location: Charleston, South Carolina Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:hedgehogstew	Gangbang in Charleston,South Carolina I admit, I have been a bit (ok ok ok.. a LOT) of a lurker on this board. I must say that the majority of people seem very cool, laid back, and very "experienced" in this whole thing. (I hate hate HATE the word "lifestyle"). I have used the search function before, so before anyone recomends threads... I have read them! Also tried Googling, but... all porn sites. My thing is this... me and my girl of almost 2 years have just started into the MFM 3some scene. Now... I would like to surprise her with a gangbang. 5-7 guys including me. She is soo super picky on looks tho, it is kind of hard. Nothing bad, she just wants to be attracted and turned on by the people that are fucking her. I have signed up with Swing Lifestyle (the external profile is hedgehogstew.swinglifestyle.com). Now, do you really need 3 times the amount of guys that you would like to show up? What if they all show up? She doesn't want 21 guys, lol! Also, what are other members experiences w/ gangbangs? I welcome all success/horror stories. PM please if you don't want to post here on the board. Also... are there any lean, white, tall guys in the North Charleston area? :-) Ok, I admit not the best first post, but I find it hard to get my thoughts in order on this topic for some reason... :-) I am sure this will be revised/edited/added to later. Thank you in advance!

09-20-2006, 03:54 PM	#2 (permalink)
dinkydow4us Active Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 46 Location: cent. ny Status: married male	Re: Gangbang in Charleston,South Carolina Hi and welcome to the board Even though this sounds like a great idea to you make sure she's on the same page as you. It's her right sometimes the best suprise, is no suprise There's a chance it could blow up in your face I hope everything works out for you guys, and great time is had by all Good luck D.D.

09-20-2006, 04:55 PM	#3 (permalink)
r_poseidon Here to Stay Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 62 Location: Charleston, South Carolina Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:hedgehogstew	Re: Gangbang in Charleston,South Carolina Oh no, we have discussed it. She wants it to happen, no doubt. I just want when it happens to be a surprise!

09-20-2006, 05:40 PM	#4 (permalink)
Pepper & Drew Mmmmm...tasty! Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 1,035 Location: Hurricane Alley Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:alhedonists	Re: Gangbang in Charleston,South Carolina Perhaps some of those who've tried to host one will answer, but it's really not as easy as you would think it would be to find that many guys. Hell, it's hard to find two single guys on the same night who you're comfortable with who are able to perform...I can't imagine 5-7. Perhaps an on-premise club would be the best option. Tell her to get dressed up, go to the club, tell her to pick out who she likes, and go to a room. That way, she gets to pick who she wants, you get people there who are ready to play and everyone is happy. Good luck! Pepper __________________ "Swinging is a lot like riding a Harley, ...for those who understand, no explanation is necessary; for those who don't, no explanation is possible." --Mr. Alura

09-20-2006, 06:07 PM	#5 (permalink)
r_poseidon Here to Stay Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 62 Location: Charleston, South Carolina Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:hedgehogstew	Re: Gangbang in Charleston,South Carolina I believe you, but I totally don't understand. LOL, I mean what red-blooded guy would not be jumping to do this? Maybe I am partial, but my girl is HOT, lol! (Check the Swing Lifestyle if ya don't believe me! :-) ) But in general, it is like... why would they say no? I just don't get it, lol, but whatever. Does anyone know of any on premise clubs in SC? Also... we went to just a pajama party thrown by Minx up in Jersey, very very intimidating. We really didn't enjoy ourselves, so I want that to be a last ditch option.

09-20-2006, 06:10 PM	#6 (permalink)
Jersey1979 Registered Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 8 Location: Central Jersey	Re: Gangbang in Charleston,South Carolina Well I agree, your girl is certainly hot.

09-20-2006, 06:18 PM	#7 (permalink)
SuAndBud Has Left the Building Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 293 Location: UK Status: Couple	Re: Gangbang in Charleston,South Carolina Oh, for a world without STD's. Surely the best gangbang would be the anonymous gangbang. What a shame we have to complicate matters by "getting to know" the other participants in such a (by our mother's standards) shameful act. Su wants a blindfold gangbang, so she doesn't have to avoid someone's eyes when in Tesco or (even worse, perhaps) engage them in conversation. LOL.

09-20-2006, 10:35 PM	#8 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,913 Location: Utah Status: Male half of married couple	Re: Gangbang in Charleston,South Carolina It's true that you have to invite at least double and probably three times the number you want. We have a single male friend that has been in several gangbangs and there have been times where it is him and the husband that are there... 9 other guys didn't show-up. Since she is picky, how about letting her pick the men. Maybe meet them one by one for dinner or drinks over a few weeks and see if she is into them or not. If they show-up for dinner or drinks there is a better chance that they are real and not married men that can't get out of the house (I think the reason many don't show up). Then there is probably a better chance of them showing-up for the big show. PLUS, your girlfriend has already met them and will be more comfortable with them. AND, you have met them and have a better idea tha shit isn't going to get out of hand. Remember, you are her safety net. Good luck, and have fun. Mr. WS __________________ "God created sex. Priests created marriage." ~ Voltaire

09-20-2006, 11:01 PM	#9 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 24,502 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 75	Re: Gangbang in Charleston,South Carolina Since you've already used the search function and read all the other threads I won't bore you with repeating what I've already said since you've already read it.

09-21-2006, 12:48 AM	#10 (permalink)
r_poseidon Here to Stay Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 62 Location: Charleston, South Carolina Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:hedgehogstew	Re: Gangbang in Charleston,South Carolina LOL, it's cool. Supplemental info is always good!! :-)

09-21-2006, 10:18 AM	#11 (permalink)
r_poseidon Here to Stay Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 62 Location: Charleston, South Carolina Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:hedgehogstew	Re: Gangbang in Charleston,South Carolina I think we are going to try the on-premise club idea. A friend of ours is taking us so some good one in Tennessee here in a month or so. He also said that is the best idea, so... thanks guys!

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