gang bang

[WesternSwing]

Mrs. WS really doesn't have the fantasy, and I don't really have it for her either. There have been times when partying with friends that she has had sex with several men in one session, but nothing like a line of them holding their cocks waiting for their 3 minutes of glory. More like two at a time or finishing with one and then another one happens.

Her fantasy is more along the lines of four guys she knows well and all of them at the same time with her being the center of attention and their pleasure secondary and nothing she has to worry about. Not a "gang-bang" but a fivesome. Now, that would be my fantasy too, her being treated like the queen she is.

Mr. WS

[TLO7777]

It brings to mind not thoughts of "sex," but of "gluttony." I can't help but wonder what she gets from having 6 or 8 or 10 guys, that she wouldn't or couldn't get from 1, 2, or maybe 3.

And this is exactly what is brought to mind for the vast majority of the monogamous population regarding ANY type of swinging whatsoever. Just because it's beyond your own personal fantasies and comfort zone does not mean it is any less respectable or valid than your own choices.

The only possible answer I can come up with is that whatever "it" is, she doesn't get it from any number of guys...not 1, not 10, not 100. And that's too bad, because sex with any person should be life-affirming.

Your lack of ability to come up with other answers does not mean there aren't any.

There are as many "life-affirming" reasons for such a practice as their are people to engage in it.

For some it is simply an opportunity to completely shed any societal or cultural sexual inhibitions and experience the complete freedom to celebrate a sizeable libido.

For some getting to be "a slut" is just incredibly hot... especially if this natural libido has been repressed for a long time. Finally living out such a fantasy can be incredibly liberating even if the actual act wasn't as hot in practice as the original idea.

Lastly, it can actually be a healing experience for a woman that has been involuntarily a part of such a thing in the past. By re-engaging in it on her own terms, for her own pleasure, and in a way that is safe, it is possible for this to be the exact opposite of degradation... but a means of personal empowerment.

Of course there are some that may do it for less healthy reasons, but to assume that it is unhealthy or degrading for everyone is just myopic.

[Wildthingplus]

Here is my experience with Gangbangs. I frequently have them and really enjoy them. My husband and I travel all over the country and try every swing club we can. We only attend ones that allow single men. My experience is these are usually the only true swing clubs. Couples only clubs are very cliquish, and the people rarely swing.

My first experience with a gangbang was in Miami, Florida. My husband was by my side (he is always with me when I swing). I laid down on a doctor’s exam table they had in one of the rooms, put my feet up in the stirrups, and began to play with 2 couples and a few single guys. I began to enjoy the attention the women were giving me and the stroking of the penus inside me so much that I wound up having 14 different men (I had no idea how many men there were: my husband kept track). I had planned to use condoms, but it felt so good that I let them all cum inside me. This experience made me realize how much I enjoy feeling different men inside me. I now enjoy as many men as I can. I encourage any women who have a fantasy of a gangbang to try it. Don’t worry about the number, because it just doesn’t matter – anyone who says different is just being a stuck-up. You’re having fun – that’s what it’s about. Life is too short not to live it.

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by Wildthingplus

Don’t worry about the number, because it just doesn’t matter – anyone who says different is just being a stuck-up.

So...

You're saying that a woman who doesn't enjoy this is "stuck up"?

Personally, I would be extremely uncomfortable with Mrs Spoomonkey playing in the manner that you describe (STD concerns, etc.) and since she is sitting here next to me as I type - I asked her and she wouldn't want to do this either. The "gang bang" scene just isn't our bag for quite a few reasons.

We are glad that people within the lifestyle get to enjoy the things that they do - the variety and options afforded by swinging is great! However, the fact that people do not choose to play in the same ways that you do does not make them more up-tight, stuck-up or cliquish than you.

Off my soapbox, but I just found your comments elitist, defensive and dumb.

Spoomonkey

[Wildthingplus]

I said: I encourage any women who have a fantasy of a gangbang to try it. There are a lot of people on this board who critisize women who ganbang. That is who I was addressing. I am only posting my experiences. I thought that was encouraged on this board. As far as STDs, I have been swinging for eight years and have had many partners and have never had an STDs. Regarding STDs: do your homework. The things we've been made to believe all our lives aren't completely true. Read real medical journals written by real docots. It was a real eye-opener for us. I make sure people are clean and show no signs of anything. Sharing my experiences does not make me elitist or dumb. And, those who don't swing are not stuck-up or cliquish: I was speaking of the people who pretend to be swingers and then criticize those of us who are. I've been to a ton of clubs all across the nation, and this has been my experience with most people who attend a couples only club and act surprised and offended when others swing. I wish you and your partner all the fun you want!

[JnCC]

Originally Posted by Wildthingplus

My first experience with a gangbang was in Miami, Florida... I wound up having 14 different men (I had no idea how many men there were: my husband kept track). I had planned to use condoms, but it felt so good that I let them all cum inside me.

OOOOOH doggies, I bet that made 'em all feel speshul! 'Specially that 14th feller...

Yep, I'll bet you was one big ol' easy glidin' woman by the time #14 was done wit' cha....

Originally Posted by Wildthingplus

I encourage any women who have a fantasy of a gangbang to try it. Don’t worry about the number, because it just doesn’t matter – anyone who says different is just being a stuck-up. You’re having fun – that’s what it’s about. Life is too short not to live it.

Darlin'...if you're really going into swing clubs and taking on 14 guys without condoms, I have a feeling that your life is going to be considerably shorter than ours. I'm not even thinking about the risk of STD's...I'm thinking about what other risks you're probably taking with your life.

Oh, to hell with it. I'm NOT thinking about the risks you take. Fuck that. I'm thinking about the kind of guys who would do something like that, and the wives of the ones who were married. (You do know, don't you, that most "single" guys at swing clubs are married?)

Miami. Fourteen guys, all strangers. All bareback. Spooge soup.

What could possibly go wrong?

[EvilMJ]

Originally Posted by Wildthingplus

I Regarding STDs: do your homework. The things we've been made to believe all our lives aren't completely true. Read real medical journals written by real docots. It was a real eye-opener for us. I make sure people are clean and show no signs of anything.

I think it would be wise for you to do some more homework. There are lots of STD's out there that do not show any visible signs. I have done the homework on this, and yes do know real medical professionals. For example you can have have HPV for years and never know it, then one day you could be facing cervical cancer or genital warts. How do you find out if someone is clean of STD's, and you can't tell me they won't lie and say they are clean, unless you see their medical charts they can tell you anything you want to hear. How can you be sure they even know they have a STD or not, they may think they are clean. The only way you can be safe is to practice safe sex.

I am not dumping on gang bangs, I think everyone is free to do what they wish. However I think it is irresponsible to say that it is safe to have sex wtih a bunch of men and be 100% sure that you have not contracted something from them.

[fun4Ds]

back to this, we checked it out. the risks went way up on the safty scale, and we wern't able to find any groups where the crowd was appealing,so maby in our small circle of friends their might be a mini gangbang 2-3 special friends if that still counts.

[valley]

JnCC,why waste your breath.......no one believes it.All I want to know is which club she goes to.....so I can avoid them.




(using a bit of poetic license)

[bigman99]

I have a friend who agreed to do a stag party with abunch of guys ,she was comfortable with 10-15 guys but now they want her to try around 30.She has only done 6 before but she says she told them she would do all that she could ( she told me that after they get started she probably wouldnt stop them).Is it possible for 1 woman to take on 30 guys one after another,using only her vagina?

[magnum]

Originally Posted by nwpacouple16404

What is it about a gang bang that turns u on? I am a female and yes I've had FANTASIES about it, but when it comes right down to it I would feel like such a slut after. Have you even suggested it to her?? What kind of things lie behind this desire of yours? Hell take her to some kind of swingers club. Maybe it would happen naturally. I can understand a desire to GET it from many people, but why would you want to SEE her in this type of situation? And truly, how would you feel about her afterwards, let alone how she would see herself?

Participating in a gang bang does not make one a slut no matter how many males are involed. "My 2 cents"

If the GB was at a swing club or not it does not make the woman a slut, enjoy your fantasy, make it a reality, have fun.

Magnum

[magnum]

Originally Posted by Wildthingplus

Here is my experience with Gangbangs. I frequently have them and really enjoy them. My husband and I travel all over the country and try every swing club we can. We only attend ones that allow single men. My experience is these are usually the only true swing clubs. Couples only clubs are very cliquish, and the people rarely swing.

My first experience with a gangbang was in Miami, Florida. My husband was by my side (he is always with me when I swing). I laid down on a doctor’s exam table they had in one of the rooms, put my feet up in the stirrups, and began to play with 2 couples and a few single guys. I began to enjoy the attention the women were giving me and the stroking of the penus inside me so much that I wound up having 14 different men (I had no idea how many men there were: my husband kept track). I had planned to use condoms, but it felt so good that I let them all cum inside me. This experience made me realize how much I enjoy feeling different men inside me. I now enjoy as many men as I can. I encourage any women who have a fantasy of a gangbang to try it. Don’t worry about the number, because it just doesn’t matter – anyone who says different is just being a stuck-up. You’re having fun – that’s what it’s about. Life is too short not to live it.

Right on!!! Sounds like you had a great time...

Magnum

[djjwp]

Man with 14 women... stud
Woman with 14 men... stud too.

No use for any double standard. Go have fun and enjoy the ride!


"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, champagne in one hand -strawberries in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming,
"WOO HOO - What a Ride!"

~Author unknown

[JnCC]

Originally Posted by djjwp

Man with 14 women... stud
Woman with 14 men... stud too.

No use for any double standard. Go have fun and enjoy the ride!

That's an interesting perspective. I think that the next time I'm trying to score points with a woman, I'll mention (casually, of course) that I have been with 14 women at one time. That ought to convince her of what a great "stud" I am.

Thanks for the pick-up tip! I'll let you know how it goes...

[djjwp]

Originally Posted by JnCC

That's an interesting perspective. I think that the next time I'm trying to score points with a woman, I'll mention (casually, of course) that I have been with 14 women at one time. That ought to convince her of what a great "stud" I am.

Thanks for the pick-up tip! I'll let you know how it goes...

I wouldn't recommend it but it is your love life!

I also did not mean necessarily at one time. Sorry that it reads that way.