Ok, Guys your thoughts on Gang Bangs

[hilltop]

I've been involved in a few. Never one where the population was bigger than a small town, usually 5-6 guys.

It happens to be just one of the things I like. I try not to narrow the options too much.

Can't say as I make a distinction between that kind o' behavior and anything else I've been exposed to or heard about. Goes back to the same old thing. Are ya doing it to hurt someone? Is someone being hurt or are they unwilling at some level? If the answers are no, and everyone is truly getting what they came for then it seems like it all works out.

JnCC, I guess my only question to you is - why do you care?

Oh, BTW - One of them was IN a trailer park. Does that count?
(pretty nice place actually).

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by VegasLee

You can get a nice one for $350,000 to $500,000. More if you feel the need. Funny, most of the people that we know that have them bought them when they where in their 40's and none of them are over 60. We sold ours that we had years ago because we did not seem to find the time to use it. And no, I am not over 65 yet either. Working on it though.

I've actually been looking into them. My ideal lifestyle would be to live in one and travel the country for at least a year. Why stay in a different hotel every night when you can stay in your own home and not have to keep packing and unpacking. You can get a really nice used one for well under $100grand. They do cost as much as a house, but if you are actually going to use it, it's going to be your HOME for a while.

BTW, aren't those what actors live in while they are on location shooting tv and movies?

[curious24]

I would love to be a part of a GB. I think it would be a fun and interesting experience. However, I wouldn't just go to one from someone I didn't know. That to me is a little dangerious. Besides if a couple who has never met me just out of the blue invites me (yes this has happen) I thankfully decline their invite. I do think that women who act responcible about setting up a GB and has the rules set in place and the nice guys set in place it can be one hell of a ride. And it's IMO incredible sexy. wow. hehe

But I don't agree with the original poster. I think all it takes all types who like and dislike a GB. Just like in anything people do. What I don't like is ignorant people making opinions they just don't know anything about.

[JnCC]

Originally Posted by BradAndJanet

I don't see what the number of other males has to do with anything, really. If she's still aroused and wanting more, I'm going to be too. Four or forty, what's the difference?

Or four-hundred, or four thousand... I was just trying to get a feel for whether people set practical limits on group sex and gang bangs, and I guess you answered the question. Thanks.

I'd like to understand why you feel that there is one.

I don't know why. I just know that for me, there IS one. I can't explain it any better than that. One of the thoughts I live by is "All things in moderation." For example, I like to hang out with friends on Friday night, and having a few beers adds to the evenings fun. But there's a point where "more beer" doesn't equate to "more fun," it equates to "more hangover" and ultimately to "more people that don't want to drink with you." The skill in drinking is in knowing when "enough is enough," and when to switch over to diet-coke.

I guess that sums up my feelings about GB's...if 4 guys aren't doing it for a woman, she needs to change the line-up or the batting order or something, not get 36 more guys. But again, that's just my opinion, others obviously differ.

Originally Posted by hilltop

JnCC, I guess my only question to you is - why do you care?

The short answer is that unless it affects me, I don't. But to understand the context of my statement, you have to go back to the original post. A couple had met another couple. They learned that the female half had been a stripper, with very strong indications that she had been a prostitute as well. She further revealed that her mother was a swinger, had STD's, and that she (the daughter) had been the center of a gang-bang involving 15 men. The writer wanted to know if, based on the above information, their concerns about possible STD's were warranted.

THAT was the context of my original statement about gang-bangs, and why I said that "most reasonably "datable" guys I know, aren't going to have much to do with them" I should have changed the words "most" to "NO" and "much" to ANYTHING, because I've wracked my brain trying to think of my single friends both in and out of the lifestyle who would be up for a GB under those conditions, and I can't think of one. Could I find 15 guys for a GB? Yea, probably. But I wouldn't introduce any of them to my female vanilla friends.

Originally Posted by hilltop

Oh, BTW - One of them was IN a trailer park. Does that count?

Of course it counts! It probably happened the same day that the AFDC checks arrived in the mail, right?

Originally Posted by curious24

I would love to be a part of a GB. I think it would be a fun and interesting experience.

What I don't like is ignorant people making opinions they just don't know anything about.

You seem to be contradicting yourself. Are you saying that you HAVE been in a GB, or are you "making opinions [you] just don't know anything about?

[VegasLee]

Originally Posted by JnCC

It probably happened the same day that the AFDC checks arrived in the mail, right?

You seem to have a real negitive thing about Trailer parks. Don't know where you live but I have seen MANY trailer parks where the space rent is over $1000 per month and the homes in them cost over $200,000 each. Not just in Vegas but in other states also.

Last I looked anyone that could afford that did not get AFDC checks.

Now, I agree there is some low class trailer parks in this country but that does not mean that all the people living in them are low class. Just all they can afford. I guess what your trying to say is if someone does not make a certain amount then they are low class?

[good times]

I have never participated in a gang bang, but can't say I wouldn't if the oppurtunity arose. For my part the only requirement would be that I find the woman sexually attractive. How many guys she has had wouldn't make much difference to me either.

Of course, I live in a trailer park and while I don't have a motor home I do have a real nice travel trailer, and I'm only in my mid 40's.

[Spoomonkey]

I don't think I would be involved. Mrs Spoomonkey has talked about it from her perspective and we both agree that if she were to be the center of attention, three guys would probably be the limit for us...

But that is personal taste - and not based on ignorant prejudices or too many visits to a certain swim club that has a definite "flavor" all its own. (...ahem...) But enough of that...

This is a fantasy for many women - but I would think, given their preference, most men would opt for a bit more attention than a gang bang might provide. However, just because a man is interested and/or willing to help fulfill a fantasy, I doubt that automatically makes them a bottom feeder. There are a few women on this board for whom I would gladly be lucky number fifteen...

And you know who you are...

But if you don't, I do

Spoomonkey

[northindycpl]

I can certainly understand the womans perspective and desire to have one. I think the magic number for me would be 3 guys. I would do 3. I don't think I could do more.

The very first night we went to a swing club we saw one. It was quite a spectacle and men were lined up for hours. The mental image I walked away with was 'sticky'.

Not my thing, but sure is fun to watch.

And you know what they say.... if the trailor's a rockin....

[WildMiCouple]

I wouldn't have a problem with a GB if the girl was someone we knew or had played with before. I'd be into it knowing she was too.

Originally Posted by JnCC

I don't know why. I just know that for me, there IS one. I can't explain it any better than that. One of the thoughts I live by is "All things in moderation."

So your boss comes to you and says "I'll double your salary for the fine job your doing". "No thanks, I'm earning plenty.....gotta keep it in moderation"

Brett (and Tammy)

[De and Ci]

My wife getting gangbanged is one my biggest fantasies, With how many I don't know-that would be her call. It's a big turn on for me to see her screwing another guy.

[hilltop]

Originally Posted by JnCC

The short answer is that unless it affects me, I don't.

Of course it counts! It probably happened the same day that the AFDC checks arrived in the mail, right?

None of the statements made in this thread are affecting you except by your own choice. Yet you are continuing to expend energy towards this subject.

Nothing said in the responses to this thread has earned the derogatory statements that your posts contain. I'm curious why you do that.

Is there something about this topic that threatens you?

Anger and insult are typically a fear response. Is that what's going on?

Or do you just enjoy a fight? If so, you have my sympathies.

[BradAndJanet]

I asked J what she thought about a woman who took on 15 guys.

"More power to her", she said, "I think 4 would be enough for me though."

Something for me to work on...

-B

[Greg & Sheryl]

We are not into gangbangs. For us, there is something very un-erotic about seeing a bunch of naked men pulling their puds while waiting their turns.

For the record, the living quarters and datability of those who choose to participate in gangbangs are not factors in our feelings about that activity.

[HotMoCpl]

LInes out the door?! No, probably not. My wife with me and maybe two or three other guys? Okay, that works. Its just got to be safe sex though. Condoms from the get go. I've discussed this with her and she kind of likes the idea, but said; let's try it with one other guy first. There is not need for "sloppy seconds" when all the guys use a condom. Besides, its supposed to done for HER pleasure.

[curiousduo30]

Years ago when I was just a little "Curious" and before I was a "Duo" =0) , someone said to me the phrase; "To Each His Own"....maybe that is the answer for all of our so called "opinions". However one of the main uses for that phrase is generally (for me) a positive thing, not derogatory or cruel. I think it is a shame that some people feel the need to judge others by how much they make, where they live OR how they look. However, I digress...

~Mrs. Curiousduo30