joining a gangbang

[hornyguy]

hey julie i was invited by a friend of mine that was participating in a gangbang but, i decided hust to watch, i mean i wanted to join it , but there are some things that i'm worried, like penetrating the female after she has being penetrated by others and especially if cum is messed , and giving her anal sex. how can i overcome this, also everybody did not use condoms, and they said ther were all healthy, there were 4 men and i female. I really want to join gangbangs.

[ShameOnUs]

Well, If you are worried about penetrating a woman after someone else....Gang bangs may not be for you. I mean, what did you expect? Would it be ok for you to be first and have everyone go after you? Pretty selfish. You may want to stick to one on one play...At least the fluids will be your own. Also, just because everyone else didn't wear condoms, doesn't mean you can't. Wrap your wrasssssscal and have fun.

[Spoomonkey]

Swinging isn't for everyone. Sometimes the fantasy is incredible, but the reality just isn't what you hoped for.

Personally, I am not sure what the appeal is for being just "another guy in line." But - obviously, guys like the whole "gang-bang" thing. You aren't the only one who wouldn't want to be a part of it, so I am not sure there is anything to get over.

It doesn't appeal to you and that's okay. There are plenty of fun ways to get involved in some incredibly hot sex!

Spoomonkey

[EternallySingle]

You don't want to join a gangbang. Part of the fun of a gangbang, for guys, IS penetrating a woman after someone else has. Don't ask me why, I just know thats why I liked them. You want to be part of the party, it sounds like. Thats ok, but you have to pick your parties based on what you are comfortable with, not what others say is cool or exciting or kinky or macho.

[JustAskJulie]

Swinging and gangbangs aren't necessarily the same thing. Gangbangs are just one option in swinging. Even if you are worried about unsafe sex (if that is happening) and don't want to penatrate a woman after others have done so, there are options for participation.

Having been in a gangbang (or two), it's always great to have guys involved at various points. Typically one is penetrating a woman and there are still many other options for enjoyment. Her hands for one, her mouth for another, or you can help her out just by touching her and giving her stimulation throughout her body as others penetrate her.

Contrary to (what I have found to be) popular belief, gangbangs aren't all about one guy jumping in after the next. Too often what happens is that the guys get caught up in it having to be about them getting off when really what it should be about is the guys making the woman feel good - trust me in return she'll make sure you feel good as well.

[AlanCatherine]

Having been in a gangbang (or two), it's always great to have guys involved at various points. Typically one is penetrating a woman and there are still many other options for enjoyment. Her hands for one, her mouth for another, or you can help her out just by touching her and giving her stimulation throughout her body as others penetrate her.

That was something Catherine commented favourably on, she had her pussy, mouth and both hands full. There were also hands on every part of her body to add to the pleasure. They wore condoms for intercourse but not for oral, however, they were not permitted (by management) to cum in her mouth.

[Paramour2_99]

Originally Posted by hornyguy

hey julie i was invited by a friend of mine that was participating in a gangbang but, i decided hust to watch, i mean i wanted to join it , but there are some things that i'm worried, like penetrating the female after she has being penetrated by others and especially if cum is messed , and giving her anal sex. how can i overcome this, also everybody did not use condoms, and they said ther were all healthy, there were 4 men and i female. I really want to join gangbangs.

HornyGuy - you're natural instincts are telling you to beware of a dangerous situation. Don't look a way to circumnavigate your instincts. "X" Swinger