My wife is addicted to gangbang. What should i do?

[intuition897]

Originally Posted by bigman99

She wants to try this ,so i'm going to let her try it ,she says she will only do what she can handle ,she says she probably cant do all but will do what she can ,so im willing to let her try.I am just wondering what is the most a woman can handle

Well...good luck with that.

[pinquita]

Originally Posted by Mogambo

“OK” she agreed and then we took break for six months. After that I realised that she proved what she meant. After six months I asked her if she still has desire for gang bang . She said yes. I then allowed her to participate in gang bang with the assumption that she will loose interest within year or two but my assumptions went wrong. She is still very much interested in continuing in her sex romp. I have not lost any respect for her gang bang but some how I feel like she should leave swinging. But from your opinion it seems that I should better leave it to her. I think i have become selfish in the process & creating hurdles in the pleasure of poor lady who has done so much sacrifice for my family.

Mr .
You are allowing your wife to slip away. If she is addicted to gang bangs, and since you are a couple, and since you are so bothered by it, why not stopping it for good???? If you were just BF and GF, then, I would suggest splitting, but, since you are a couple, how do you expect to live like that? She has no respect whatsoever for you, all she cares about is the gang of guys.
You allowed her to go back, you are not a man,( in the sense that you have to protect your marriage) I think you can not control the situation, and, you have no self respect. If you think that a gang of guys will make your wife get closer to you, you are wrong, and, do you know why??? not really because of them, but because your wife has told you, she wants them, and she would rather have sex w them than w you.That is a red flag almost as high as the empire state building.
Swinging is not gang banging. If I were to go to Gang bangs of 5 or 6 girls and only myself....sooner or later my wife would end up in 7th place.
It made me sad to see how silly, (for respect to others) you appear to be. If you can not handle your wife, and if you can not handle your man( women), then, getting into swinging is a recipe for a divorse.
I understand your wife's desires, but, that is going too far, to go to a gang bang despite the fact that you do not approve???? You have a serious problem here, because, she does not respect you, and, you allowed for that to happen. If I allow my girl friend to try drugs, and she ends up an addict, I could not tell her later on, you are a dirty addict, because, I allowed her to do it. You failed to supervise her, like I would like my woman to supervise me in case I was to loose my control and start getting addicted to swinging.....that is why you are a couple. To watch how she derrailes and destroys herself is terrible.
And if she just wont listen to you, after you allowing this to get completly out of control, then, assume the consecuences and divorse, do yourself an act of dignity, do not remain in marriage w a woman that would rather go to bed w a pack of strangers, than w her husband, do not play the part of a clown.
But she allowed you to stop it, and you cowardly allowwed her to reassume, I think, in reality, you enjoy being humilliated. That should be the title to your post, humilliation.
Sorry if I sound harsh, but, I can tell you it is all your fault. That is called management in the business world, and, couple communication in the marriage world.

[pinquita]

Originally Posted by bigman99

My wife says that the guy told her that they will treat her good and that there will be around 30-32guys at the most and she is nervous ,but determined to show up ,she does'nt want to chicken out,So can a woman fuck that many guys ,is it possible? I heard about porn women doing it ,but has any regular women tried that many?

Are you demented???? are you into self humilliation??? or are you bent on seing your wife die of a desease or do you want to prostitute her???
I read your posts, do you care at all about your wife??? her safety??? health??? emotional state????

[bigman99]

well the number is down to 20-24 now,some of the guys are going away for the weekend,so she feels she has abetter chance of handling this many and they are going to be wearing condoms,i think she will be alright.

[TL31]

Originally Posted by bigman99

well the number is down to 20-24 now,some of the guys are going away for the weekend,so she feels she has abetter chance of handling this many and they are going to be wearing condoms,i think she will be alright.

Ok I am sorry but you think she will be alright? 20-24 guys and they will be wearing condoms? To me that still sounds like danger danger run. How can anyone control that many guys? To me it sounds to iffy to leave up in the air. But thats just my 2 cents.

[bigman99]

Originally Posted by TL31

Ok I am sorry but you think she will be alright? 20-24 guys and they will be wearing condoms? To me that still sounds like danger danger run. How can anyone control that many guys? To me it sounds to iffy to leave up in the air. But thats just my 2 cents.

i was just thinking if they wear condoms it is safer and if shes there giving them a good time they shouldnt get out of control ,should they? What would make them get out of ccontrol and what could happen?

[pinquita]

Originally Posted by bigman99

i was just thinking if they wear condoms it is safer and if shes there giving them a good time they shouldnt get out of control ,should they? What would make them get out of ccontrol and what could happen?

What don't you seek help??? you seem to be a druggy, or a teen kid posing as an adult......it is laughable........hope you are on drugs....otherwise.....hope yu end up in a psiquiatric ward before you injure somebody.........
This has to be a teen impersonating.......

[intuition897]

What, are you waiting for someone to jump in here with a graphic description of a gang rape or something? Methinks that might be what you've been after all along BigMan. I just can't imagine anyone being dense enough to actually go through with something like this. You might as well be enthusing about the joys of driving off a cliff; it makes about as much sense to me.

[TL31]

I did not see if you had posted this before but is there going to be drinking there? Because if the is I can tell you right now you get that many guys drinking and mix in sex with only one woman and its just bad. Control is going to go out the window so fast it won't be funny. There is no way anyone can tell you what could happen. All anyone can do is give you maybe's. If you love your wife and you want to keep her safe I would really think long and hard about all the maybe's and rape is a big maybe I can see happening there. Talk to her and if she/you think she should still go through with it then go with her if things spiral out of control then you guys have an out.

I just hear a little voice screaming that the whole thing smacks danger.
Again just my 2 cents.

[pinquita]

Originally Posted by two4youinswva

I noticed you made an almost identical post over 2 years ago.
Previous post here
Looks like Julie gave some pretty good advice back then. Did you follow through with it? I can't imagine letting this go on for another two years after recognizing the problem.

This seems to be very strange. I think this is all made up. The originator of the topic, and the guy that wants to put his wife w 3o guys in bed....I think are just looking for kicks........some people are like that.........away from reality.......

[sereneiders]

Originally Posted by two4youinswva

I noticed you made an almost identical post over 2 years ago.
Previous post here
Looks like Julie gave some pretty good advice back then. Did you follow through with it? I can't imagine letting this go on for another two years after recognizing the problem.

Not only the subject is being brought again... both stories aren't consistent, the way things evolved in both stories, the amount of people involved, even the fact of doing anal or oral isn't consistent.

I DONT BUY THIS GUY STORY.

I believe there are people around who like to prettend to be inmersed in certain sort of scenarios to get attention and perhaps (due the nature of the story) to feel humilliated by the other members comments. They need food to jack off, at the expenses of our time. It's disrespectfull.

EDIT: I check the other post as soon as it was mentioned in the first answers to add my comment. Didn't realized pinquita pointed out the same until seeing my post added.

[pinquita]

I would ask the forum managers to delete this abhorrent post. This post gives us all a bad reputation.Swinging is not about prostituing a spouse, and treating her like trash. Much less, a place to seek cheap and sick kicks out of weird posts.

[bigman99]

Originally Posted by pinquita

This seems to be very strange. I think this is all made up. The originator of the topic, and the guy that wants to put his wife w 3o guys in bed....I think are just looking for kicks........some people are like that.........away from reality.......

another guy wanted my wife to fuck 30 guys ,i thought she was doing 10-15 which i agreed to ,cause it kind of turned me on.i dont know hpw many men 1 woman can handle ,thats why i asked in the first place .and now it looks like these guys wre had one thing in mind and thats a wild party.thanks for the enlightenment and sorry for the trouble

[pinquita]

Originally Posted by bigman99

I caught my wife cheating on me about 2 years ago ,so i told her to do a gangbang and we would forget about it( i figured she would get enough).She did 6 guys . Icaught her again a few months ago ,so she said she would do a big gangbang for me ( that was my fantasy ),so she met a guy on the net and he said about a stag party,she said about doing 10 guys but he said there would be about 15 so she said ok.Anyway the guys talked at thier worksite and they saw a pic of her and now around 30 are going to be there,it doubled in a week and she says she told them she would do it so she will take all she can.My problem is that all the guys want to fuck her (no bj's) and she dont do anal,so can 1 woman handle all these guys by herself (ages early to mid 20's...she's 35)with guys this age word may spread ,so it could be more,and she wants to go alone and it's 100 miles from here.Have any of you women been in this kind of situation,if so ,how did it go ,and how was you after?And after you do this ,does it take more to satisfy you?and has any of you guys done this and how did you treat the woman and how was she after? I'm new to this so what does it mean when they say about it getting out of hand and what happens,does the woman have a say or do the guys take over and do what they want,and could this gangbang get out of hand or is it safe?

This is a joke...or else a demented psyco. It is sad that grown up people find pleasure in posting trash like this, to get rewarded by the reading of the unsuspecting readers' responses.
I am not even worried for a potential victim here......there is none....this is the lowest and most inmature case of lunatism.

[NewAndScared]