Gangbang question...should I look for other guys?

[EternallySingle]

A couple I've chatted with sent me an IM earlier and said they wanted to meet with me while they are in the area for a convention next month. The catch: They want a gang bang with four or five guys and said they'd like me to invite guys I know. The Problem: The only guys I know and trust are in Texas, Georgia, or Washington.

I guess my question is is it common for a single man to setup gangbangs for couples who inquire, or do the couples usually try and get guys together? Something else I have no experience in. All the gangbangs (all 12 of them) were arranged by the woman or her husband, as far as I know. They were the ones that contacted me and told me where to show up. Usually it was the husband that gave the information to everyone, unless it was a single woman who was setting things up.

:rollseyes hmm...didn't I just write that another swinging couple put me on the spot a few days ago? I guess I'm out of semi-retired status now

A couple I've chatted with sent me an IM earlier and said they wanted to meet with me while they are in the area for a convention next month. The catch: They want a gang bang with four or five guys and said they'd like me to invite guys I know. The Problem: The only guys I know and trust are in Texas, Georgia, or Washington.

I would tell them just that.
You could probably find some but none that you could personaly vouch for.

If it's a no go for them then at least you were honest and no one ends up in a position they didn't want to be in.

[LikeMinds321]

I've not been involved in a gangbang or even know how they progress when one is put together, but it seems to me that it takes a lot of organization and work to get it to happen.

I can see soooo many pontential problems for you if you tried to arrange this for a couple you don't know - other than through chat.

1. They may not like the guys you've selected.

2. The guys you arrange to be there may never show and you get blamed for the gang bang falling through.

3. I think you'd be asking a lot of the guys to travel in for a couple you've never played with. What if the couple backs out at the last minute? Then you get blamed for the couple not showing.

LM

[Spoomonkey]

Nope - don't do it.

When my wife and I are looking for single men, I have learned that my taste in men is so incredibly far from her taste in men. What I think should trip her trigger is so incredibly far from what actually does trip said trigger.

It may be that she just doesn't care who she gets laid by - in which case, I'd be concerned about playing with someone with so very little discrimination. An "I'll do whoever shows up" attitude gives me the creeps. It could also give me the clap - which I'd prefer to avoid.

Also - hoe can you find guys who are even any good in the sack? I mean, you can't really audition them, can you? It should be up to her to decide if there is chemistry. She likes you, but that doesn't men she'll like who you round up.

On the other hand, she may just assume that as a single male, you have lots of friends. These friends, she may assume, would be similar to you - and since she likes you, she'll like them... And if that is the case, you need to level with her and tell her that you'd be rounding them up off of ad sites, just like she would. And, for her safety and peace of mind, it'd be better if she took care of the invitees...

Spoomonkey

[EternallySingle]

I'm not going to do it. Too many things ran through my mind when I received their IM, and everything everyone said is what I thought.

[fun_pairTX]

ES,

Good move, the deal sounded too much like, "You can come to my party if you organize it."