How do we bring up swinging to our friends...or should we? - Page 2

**Alura** · 03-15-2005, 10:23 AM

I certainly agree that it's a good idea to point out pitfalls that folks might not have considered.

In this case, though, everybody else had already done that so I didn't dwell on the danger aspect.

Thank you to those who did.

Mr. Alura

***JustAskJulie*** · 03-21-2005, 03:52 PM

Long before you bring up THEM swinging (with or without you), you should start off by dropping a few hints, bring up the 20/20 special you saw Friday night on swinging and see what their response is. If they respond positively then you can go from there to telling them that you guys are swingers.... after that, they know and you should be able to guage pretty easily whether or not they are interested.

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03-15-2005, 10:23 AM	#16 (permalink)
Alura Just a hick Okie Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 8,144 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Widower	Re: How do we mention it ??? I certainly agree that it's a good idea to point out pitfalls that folks might not have considered. In this case, though, everybody else had already done that so I didn't dwell on the danger aspect. Thank you to those who did. Mr. Alura
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03-21-2005, 03:52 PM	#17 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: How do we mention it ??? Long before you bring up THEM swinging (with or without you), you should start off by dropping a few hints, bring up the 20/20 special you saw Friday night on swinging and see what their response is. If they respond positively then you can go from there to telling them that you guys are swingers.... after that, they know and you should be able to guage pretty easily whether or not they are interested.

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