Well there's 2 that I would feel comfortable sharing my husband with and play too. Kinda brought it up with one, and she had told me of an introduction her boyfriend made to her with the other girl already there. I told her that it shouldnt have been his place that it should have been hers to make that decision. Which we were the flirtacious type w/ each other. smacking on the ass occasional, weekly. so cool. And the other, I havent made any proposal to her but I think I can trust her. And she is totally different from me, size wise, but I think my husband wouldnt mind. no he doesnt mind, he's already told me. Do you pick someone close or is it better to find a couple and meet? We do have plans on going to the strip club together just the two of us. He says he wants to make sure I can handle a woman rubbing all over him.HMM. I got quarters.